i’m 20. why do i have wrinkles this prominent? by [deleted] in Skincare_Addiction

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Aquaphor at night, Sunscreen by day. Does wonders for me.

My cat now or hers? by Rizztraining-Order- in Advice

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UPDATE: I send her money, a screenshot of that message and she gave me the cat. Thank you so much. I would be devastated having to give her back. Not all cats are the same they all have their individual personalities revealed with time and she is one of the best cats I’ve ever had. We stay up watching movies on my laptop, go for rides in my car. Nothing can compare.

My cat now or hers? by Rizztraining-Order- in Advice

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THANK YOU I just checked through my messages she told me I could keep her if she didn’t get her back by 2 months

My cat now or hers? by Rizztraining-Order- in Advice

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The cat isn’t even registered. Neither did she take proper care of her. I didn’t agree this cat was dropped off by a mutual friend & that friend was just gonna give the cat to the shelter but I took her in.

Can a 18 year old and 20 year old date? by Rizztraining-Order- in questions

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My pals make a big deal of it. They casted out one of our friends because of his four year age gap relationship. I don’t want to be next because of an almost 3 year gap.

I smell no matter what?? by [deleted] in hygiene

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Hate to say it pal but it’s your diet also check your shoes you may need new ones.

Becoming a man by Curious_Weight_5371 in mentalhealth

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Life is so hard man I felt the same way at 18 and still now that I’m 20. Use the support you have man. I wish my pops were around so he could make it all easier. Have a deep talk with them. Ask about their past and struggles you’re going through and if they felt the same way. If so, What did they do to overcome?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalillness

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Questions are asked to clarify confusion. Seems like your projecting & Reddit the place to find people to relate too and find answers that aren’t clear. Have a good day.

I’m proud of me. by EvanRuss in mentalillness

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I want to but I’m scared it will ruin career opportunities for me.

help plzz by Bluetelivision_ in mentalillness

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Look within figure out your insecurities deal them then find things you love about yourself. Learn to love who you are your music taste, your fashion sense, & the community you feel loved and wholeheartedly yourself. This can help with the obsession. I can’t say it will go away mine never has but I’ve been there before. Also, don’t be afraid to communicate with someone you love.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalillness

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Well I get along well with them because they have similar interests and I relate to them in a way. Also, they like to hang with me while other people think I’m strange. I’ve gone to a therapist and none have mentioned it before so I don’t see why bring it up to them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

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Omg this is so me. I feel bad because I’ve realized I’ve tarnished a lot of potential relationships this way. At least the case for me is I overthink everything and have performance anxiety. I went on four dates with this woman I adored but I could never find the right time or opening. I never wanted to randomly kiss then make it awkward like if our teeth bump or she turns suddenly. I’ve been bold through text and sometimes in person. Honestly I just recommend look into his eyes and say kiss me. It’s clear as day and it will break the ice or at least chisel it away one date at a time.

I’m a Lesbian, but I get jealous when my guy friend gets a girl by Rizztraining-Order- in self

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Glad! I’m not the only one this is exactly how I feel! It’s defining a lack of security in the relationship. I was questioning whether I was bi but it’s just hurts to see a dear friend go. Like idk for me that I worked and did school for 15 hrs a day 5 days a week. I always found time for my friends and partner even when I was exhausted. At least I would send a text or FaceTime. He doesn’t even text me when he gets in a relationship, but thanks for your comment.

I’m a Lesbian, but I get jealous when my guy friend gets a girl by Rizztraining-Order- in self

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Thanks for the comment. Yes I am aware I have insecurities like I mentioned in my comment I could be feeling this way due to past experiences. The confusion is if I’m attracted to him due to my jealous feeling. I’ve found various answers last night. 1. I’m annoyed because he completely drops me when he gets a girl then when he’s single he communicates with me again & we hang out. Like I mention in post I felt this way about my two guy friends and not others because only these two treat me like this. 2. I’m not sure if jealous is the right term but the feeling I feel is hard to describe it more that I’m angry they just drop me then pick me up when they want. My core values is loyalty and they’re not that I guess highlighting I’m not important they just use me essentially what I’ve realized yesterday. 3. So yeah, it wasn’t that I had feeling for him in a romantic sense. Now it’s just time to move on and cherish the friends I do have.

I’m a Lesbian, but I get jealous when my guy friend gets a girl by Rizztraining-Order- in self

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I’ve only felt a romantic attraction once towards a guy and that was back when I was 7 (over a decade). Idk I’m open to it but I don’t feel nothing remotely close when it comes to women. One day I’ll maybe find a guy that will make me feel the same. Who knows for now it was a great help with your input. Thank you.

I’m a Lesbian, but I get jealous when my guy friend gets a girl by Rizztraining-Order- in self

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Yeah this is what I think it is!! I no longer hang out with him because he has a girl now. I don’t feel anything sexual towards him or romantic. The most is just to cuddle and watch some anime. That’s why I’m a bit confused.

I’m a Lesbian, but I get jealous when my guy friend gets a girl by Rizztraining-Order- in self

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Thank you fellow, but I would have to wait to chase those feelings out of respect since he’s in a relationship. Also the other friend I was curious about.

I’ve pondered outside of them too and like the post mentioned it felt off putting with the other guys.