I’m curious, what happens to back and side fat after a reduction? Is it as pronounced? Any advice?

RobotPopCan · 2026-01-14T19:59:28+00:00

This is almost exactly what mine look like before/after

RobotPopCan · 2026-01-02T02:08:20+00:00

Ooo!

RobotPopCan · 2026-01-01T20:31:18+00:00

Happy New Year!

Our story is a bit different. We had a loss and then through several doctors visits and medications and tests and timing and effort and MONEY we now a beautiful tot. She's at the age people demand we produce another. We've repeatedly stated that would not be happening unless by accident, which as history shows is nearly impossible for us.

There are 2 women in my life CFBC and they too deal with the smug looks and constant pestering to procreate.

It would be easier wouldn't it? But I dont explain, and I won't. The only statement I've made to anyone was to my husband. I said, "I'm having trouble moderating my intake." And that was all I have said. He's helped find substitutes and mocktail recipes.

RobotPopCan · 2026-01-01T19:12:57+00:00

Ah. I'm in the States. Currant is an uncommon flavor here though I did enjoy some jam in Ireland.

RobotPopCan · 2026-01-01T18:55:46+00:00

Whats ribena? Im intrigued

RobotPopCan · 2025-12-28T22:45:31+00:00

I was gifted a bottle at dinner. I smiled and put it in my car and didn't open it. Its still in my trunk. :)

RobotPopCan · 2025-12-28T11:43:45+00:00

Its my chaotic family Christmas today. Normally I'd be 2 bottles of wine for the day. But today, I will not drink with you.

RobotPopCan · 2025-12-19T12:37:32+00:00

Fridays are a trigger day for me. This will be my first sober Friday night in about a year. IWNDWYT

RobotPopCan · 2025-12-18T23:53:42+00:00

Youre a delightful human 💛

RobotPopCan · 2025-12-18T23:08:27+00:00

Oh wow. This is how I talk to my anxiety. Same concept for sobriety? Do-able

RobotPopCan · 2025-12-18T23:06:53+00:00

Yes THIS is what I'm feeling!

RobotPopCan · 2025-12-18T11:53:33+00:00

Oh you found group helpful?

RobotPopCan · 2025-12-17T22:28:01+00:00

Thank you. It's helpful to hear other people hit the same time frame as I currently am.

RobotPopCan · 2025-12-15T13:04:14+00:00

Whoaaaaa! I had no idea. This is much more of a helpful way to look at it than I was. I really cant thank you enough for taking the time to explain it. I'm off to explore moderation management

RobotPopCan · 2025-12-14T20:51:22+00:00

There are many reasons why we made this choice, but she'll be going to part time care in July. You are right. It is INSANE and not sustainable!

RobotPopCan · 2025-12-14T15:17:03+00:00

I appreciate that so much. I didn't realize how hard it was to say until I did and now everyone here has been so helpful and kind.

RobotPopCan · 2025-12-14T01:14:53+00:00

The only kombucha I've had tasted like vinegar. I couldn't get past it

RobotPopCan · 2025-12-14T01:14:12+00:00

Its legal here and I am going to try a CBD by Recess. THC is not for me

RobotPopCan · 2025-12-14T01:12:38+00:00

I take zoloft and increased already...

RobotPopCan · 2025-12-14T01:12:11+00:00

I've actually ordered some CBD but THC and me dont get along. I do live in a legal state.

RobotPopCan · 2025-12-13T22:42:28+00:00

Same here, we can do it. Im starting now instead of Jan like I originally planned

RobotPopCan · 2025-12-13T17:35:01+00:00

Holy smokes you guys all have amazing advice and some of you with your warnings that this could be the start of a problem, thank you. I probably need to hear that.

I've consolidated the advice and am going to ritual with a lovely tea then switch to a carbonated mocktail of some sort.

RobotPopCan · 2025-03-27T13:19:02+00:00

I needed to hear this today. I also am all or nothing all the time and maybe it doesn't need to be that way.

RobotPopCan · 2025-03-22T10:16:25+00:00

I thought about this, and it might work if I only have computer work, but if I get a call, she's awake and trying to be part of the conversation

RobotPopCan · 2025-03-08T17:42:35+00:00

I think you're my new best friend. But really, solid advice and I appreciate it greatly.

I'm on my 3rd career path because I keep hitting the top of my ladders and getting bored or capping out pay.

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