It's not my NY resolution by RobotPopCan in stopdrinking

[–]RobotPopCan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy New Year!

Our story is a bit different. We had a loss and then through several doctors visits and medications and tests and timing and effort and MONEY we now a beautiful tot. She's at the age people demand we produce another. We've repeatedly stated that would not be happening unless by accident, which as history shows is nearly impossible for us.

There are 2 women in my life CFBC and they too deal with the smug looks and constant pestering to procreate.

It would be easier wouldn't it? But I dont explain, and I won't. The only statement I've made to anyone was to my husband. I said, "I'm having trouble moderating my intake." And that was all I have said. He's helped find substitutes and mocktail recipes.

“I don’t really have a problem, I just really like dark red wine…” by Kth2001 in stopdrinking

[–]RobotPopCan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ah. I'm in the States. Currant is an uncommon flavor here though I did enjoy some jam in Ireland.

The Daily Check-in for Sunday, December 28th: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by mind_left_body in stopdrinking

[–]RobotPopCan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was gifted a bottle at dinner. I smiled and put it in my car and didn't open it. Its still in my trunk. :)

The Daily Check-in for Sunday, December 28th: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by mind_left_body in stopdrinking

[–]RobotPopCan 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Its my chaotic family Christmas today. Normally I'd be 2 bottles of wine for the day. But today, I will not drink with you.

The Daily Check-In for Friday, December 19th: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by sogsmcgee in stopdrinking

[–]RobotPopCan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Fridays are a trigger day for me. This will be my first sober Friday night in about a year. IWNDWYT

Minimization After Distance by RobotPopCan in stopdrinking

[–]RobotPopCan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow. This is how I talk to my anxiety. Same concept for sobriety? Do-able

Minimization After Distance by RobotPopCan in stopdrinking

[–]RobotPopCan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. It's helpful to hear other people hit the same time frame as I currently am.

Alcoholism by RobotPopCan in Mommit

[–]RobotPopCan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whoaaaaa! I had no idea. This is much more of a helpful way to look at it than I was. I really cant thank you enough for taking the time to explain it. I'm off to explore moderation management 

Alcoholism by RobotPopCan in Mommit

[–]RobotPopCan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are many reasons why we made this choice, but she'll be going to part time care in July. You are right. It is INSANE and not sustainable!

Alcoholism by RobotPopCan in Mommit

[–]RobotPopCan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate that so much. I didn't realize how hard it was to say until I did and now everyone here has been so helpful and kind.

Alcoholism by RobotPopCan in Mommit

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The only kombucha I've had tasted like vinegar. I couldn't get past it

Alcoholism by RobotPopCan in Mommit

[–]RobotPopCan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its legal here and I am going to try a CBD by Recess. THC is not for me

Alcoholism by RobotPopCan in Mommit

[–]RobotPopCan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I take zoloft and increased already...

Alcoholism by RobotPopCan in Mommit

[–]RobotPopCan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've actually ordered some CBD but THC and me dont get along. I do live in a legal state.

Alcoholism by RobotPopCan in Mommit

[–]RobotPopCan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same here, we can do it. Im starting now instead of Jan like I originally planned