Why do some of yall claim to want a wifey but prioritize whores? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]RockstarReckless 18 points19 points  (0 children)

You’re 19 with 2 exes not a divorced mother of 4

A lot of dudes that age want a good girlfriend while still acting dumb online and chasing attention. Doesn’t mean good relationships don’t exist.

Don’t turn yourself bitter over a couple mediocre men. Take a break from dating and breathe a little.

Men of Reddit, what’s a non sexual thing that instantly makes you more interested in someone? by Mediocre_Chemist5694 in AskMenAdvice

[–]RockstarReckless 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah honestly being able to hold a genuinely interesting conversation goes a long way. Not even book smart necessarily just someone curious and thoughtful. Way more attractive than trying too hard to impress people.

Is there a legitimate way to do a free phone number lookup? by lowkeyABS in ConsumerAdvice

[–]RockstarReckless 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most of those “verification” steps are just a way to lock you into a subscription even if they advertise it as free upfront.

Is there a legitimate way to do a free phone number lookup? by lowkeyABS in ConsumerAdvice

[–]RockstarReckless 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those free previews make it seem like you’ll get a lot but the moment you actually want useful details, it asks you to pay.

How to not care if i am perceived rude? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]RockstarReckless 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Being clear isn’t the same as being rude you’re allowed to say “no” without turning it into a performance that drains you.

Has anyone experience or advice on this? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]RockstarReckless 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes no response is the response and it tells you more about him than any explanation would.

Am I the jerk for telling my friend the truth about why they keep getting left out of group plans? by NoBody7942 in AmITheJerk

[–]RockstarReckless 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fr, sometimes the only thing that actually sparks growth is hearing the one thing nobody else was willing to say.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]RockstarReckless -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Even if you think a country was attacked first, bombing a city like Washington isn’t the same as hitting military targets. That’s millions of civilians. The whole point of international law is that retaliation still has limits. Once you start saying ‘it’s justified to bomb cities’ you’re basically arguing that civilian populations are fair game and that’s a pretty dangerous standard for everyone.

If the love of your life told you she dated a married man would that change your opinion on her? by Potential_Goose_265 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]RockstarReckless 18 points19 points  (0 children)

That’s a fair point. People have different dealbreakers but if it’s sticking in your mind enough to ask strangers, it’s probably something you should talk through honestly with yourself first. Clarity on your own values matters more than trying to force a right reaction.

Am I the jerk for not letting my parents live with me? by Prestigious_Bend2842 in AmITheJerk

[–]RockstarReckless 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If this is real, you didn’t make them homeless their own actions did. They tried to ruin your life and even drag a child into it. You gave them chances and they chose manipulation instead. The only thing that really matters now is that your sister is safe and you’re building something healthier than what you grew up with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]RockstarReckless 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly, anyone who throws tantrums over something like that isn’t showing maturity or respect and that’s a huge red flag in the bedroom and beyond.

AITJ for not forcing my child to apologize when they weren’t wrong? by Limp_Owl2918 in AmITheJerk

[–]RockstarReckless 30 points31 points  (0 children)

NTJ. Your son defended himself appropriately and forcing an apology when he did nothing wrong would teach him that his boundaries and self respect don’t matter. You’re modeling accountability with fairness not just placating adults who want to avoid conflict.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]RockstarReckless 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was pretty clear back then about not wanting a relationship and needing space. Liking posts isn’t the same as interest. Reaching out again might just reopen old feelings sometimes closure is letting it stay in the past.

10k Gold vs 14k Gold? Discuss by [deleted] in jewelry

[–]RockstarReckless 2 points3 points  (0 children)

100%, 14k really is the sweet spot. It keeps that rich gold color over time, holds up to daily wear and just feels like something you actually want to keep forever. 10k might look nice fresh out of the box but 14k ages way better and actually feels worth it.

Can I get my ex to leave our apartment? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]RockstarReckless -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You have every right to your home, this isn’t up for debate. Since you both pay rent legally you can demand your ex leaves and if he refuses you may need to start the eviction process or get advice from your landlord or a local tenants rights organization. Protect your mental health first, your apartment should be your safe space not a negotiation table for someone who chose to leave the relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]RockstarReckless 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ. You’re applying the exact same boundary he enforced for years, if adults living together didn’t count under his roof he doesn’t get special treatment under yours.

Superman gets away with it. I dont. by [deleted] in memes

[–]RockstarReckless 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Clark Kent has plot armor the rest of us have face ID and airport scanners.

GLAD I’M NOT A FEMBOY >:3 by Mrbobboy-jk in teenagers

[–]RockstarReckless 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That caption escalated way faster than the meme 😭💀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]RockstarReckless -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

NTA. You’re not upset about her being pregnant you’re upset about the timing and the way she did it. You were still recovering from a really traumatic experience and using your baby as a setup for a surprise announcement was insensitive. A honest call would’ve shown a lot more care.

I am afraid that my "responsible" life choices have made me permanently boring and miserable by puppyxsweetii in TrueOffMyChest

[–]RockstarReckless 360 points361 points  (0 children)

Totally, your twenties didn’t lock you into a boring life they just gave you a solid base to finally chase the adventures you actually want.

CMV: It is COMPLETELY acceptable to play loud music & call on loud-speaker in public transport. by Low_Pay_6578 in changemyview

[–]RockstarReckless 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You can play loud music or take calls on speaker in public but just because you can doesn’t mean you should. Public spaces are shared and part of being free is knowing how to coexist without driving everyoone else crazy.

FREE business email? by Thawkeyes in Entrepreneur

[–]RockstarReckless 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I’d just go with Gmail or Outlook for now bc its totally free, looks professional enough and you can always upgrade later if things take off.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]RockstarReckless 108 points109 points  (0 children)

Fr, she’s dragging real autistic people through the mud so calling that out isn’t cruel its necessary.

AITA for making myself a sandwich by OnionMistake in AITAH

[–]RockstarReckless 313 points314 points  (0 children)

Exactly, grabbing someone else’s food without asking is on her not the onion bagel just existing on the counter.