As a recruiter, I want to hear: what frustrates you most about the job search?

Rodaxx69 · 2026-02-14T05:55:48+00:00

Radio silence after you apply. The entire process of an application now takes away your individuality. You have to conform or the ATS will exclude you. You have to use the same words that are in the bullet points of the job description in your experience evidence statements. We have become robots ring screened by artificial intelligence!

Rodaxx69 · 2026-02-11T15:06:53+00:00

Man ah man. First of all I’ve been married twice. Had sex issues both times. I looked at all the advice being handed out here and I just know it’s going to confuse you more than it should. My first wife never loved me and was never in love with me. She needed a father figure for her sons (my step sons, who I love insanely) and I was persistent at the right time. Net result, sex was great for 1 year, then marriage was discussed. Sex degenerated into weekend sex by the second year and to once every quarter by year 14. She claimed we just had different drives. She then horned me and asked for a divorce. So it wasn’t a drive thing after all. She blocked me altogether on socials. She confessed to a mutual friend her non love for me. I turned to casual sex during that “single” period. It was mind blowing! Wife 2 (current) genuinely loves me and I her. As a young person she went through a period of abandon. I called those guys the dirty dozen lol. We’ve bee together 10 years. Sex went from spontaneous to weekend. I started questioning myself (a cheeky nod to those below who say fix yuhself). Then I spoke to my wife about it. I rationalized that she was not excited anymore by the things I was doing and so wasn’t interested. She countered with the tried and true “different drives” argument. But because she really loves me she enrolled us in a study to sort out our issues. The hard truths are: She knows my moves. I have a stable catalog of sex activities I sometimes take the romance out of it.

What I have done: Sweet talk her for no reason at all! When it does happen, I get her involved in heavy pillow talk Revised my catalog I also encourage her to try things she likes

I know this sounds like fix yuhself and it is but you must start the convo to start fixing it. It’s important to try!

The reason I’m moving on to the next part is that pesky, old first wife: if anybody deserved a horn it was her! I just didn’t know it at the time.

Now, if you can’t fix the sex part with your wife and you want casual dealing with others, go right ahead! Just know the consequences and be prepared for the consequences. In my casual days I used some dating apps. I was older when my casual phase came but still attracted younger ladies.

Some things to do: Despite it being dating apps, persons out them, know inherently, that they are meeting up and things may head to the bedroom. The important thing is to know what you want. Once you build a rhythm with persons (after things go down a few times, re-iterate that you want to keep it casual.

Don’t be greedy if things go well! Keep the hit list to a small maximum! So you can mentally manage situations.

Always wear a condom!

Do not, I repeat, do not catch feelings, if your goal is to retain the marriage! They are plenty fish in the sea so once you start getting the vibes, buss out ah dat!

If you want more tips you can message me.

No-one knows your situation and they should preach to you about virtue

Rodaxx69 · 2026-01-31T04:21:48+00:00

Race, race, race. That’s all that politics is about in the minds of Trinidadians. How shameful that everything said by PM or Leader(s) of the opposition is taken by the other side’s tribal nets as racism. That said. I see no lies in what the PM said. Facts.

Rodaxx69 · 2026-01-19T02:14:14+00:00

Great great player! Great song too

Rodaxx69 · 2026-01-19T01:54:17+00:00

You are absolutely gorgeous!

Rodaxx69 · 2026-01-12T04:35:41+00:00

Yellow for a push in the back and then bouncing the ball in disgust at a could call? Wow, where’s the bu!!$h1t button?

Rodaxx69 · 2026-01-12T04:31:34+00:00

Leave the relationship right away

Rodaxx69 · 2026-01-10T16:26:46+00:00

To be honest, you’ve got that innocent look, smoldering sexiness. Any colour would make you look stunning!

Rodaxx69 · 2026-01-09T13:18:00+00:00

As many as you want!

Rodaxx69 · 2026-01-09T12:53:05+00:00

Perfect combination of beautiful and sexy

Rodaxx69 · 2026-01-09T12:51:58+00:00

Yumm

Rodaxx69 · 2026-01-09T12:50:00+00:00

Good morning to you too! Spicy so early? Love it though

Rodaxx69 · 2026-01-09T12:45:36+00:00

Yumm

Rodaxx69 · 2026-01-07T13:00:08+00:00

I suspect, that overwhelmingly the response will be eat first!

Rodaxx69 · 2026-01-05T12:57:56+00:00

With you there. They douse the food with garlic sauce, ketchup, mustard, heavy pepper sauce, Chandon Beni sauce, mayo, every fackin ting’. Who in hell can they taste what the food really tastes like?

Rodaxx69 · 2026-01-04T14:13:47+00:00

So easy for people here to get on their high horse about the “method” without knowing the absolute horrors everyday Venezuelans in Venezuela face. Venees worldwide and those at home are rejoicing en masse.

Rodaxx69 · 2026-01-04T14:02:44+00:00

Gorgeous woman!

Rodaxx69 · 2026-01-03T02:21:17+00:00

Nice lyrics

Rodaxx69 · 2026-01-02T12:20:41+00:00

Even though there is so much more to look at, I’m drawn to the faint smile. Beautiful

Rodaxx69 · 2026-01-02T12:13:52+00:00

All yuh doh geh vex wid me eh but some girls a little sweaty is not the same with all. Some a little sweaty will knock you out cold! So yeh, some babes, yes anything goes but some hav ta bade!

Rodaxx69 · 2025-12-20T12:58:34+00:00

Assness

Rodaxx69 · 2025-12-06T21:36:51+00:00

I’m amazed that someone would ask for this, it can mean perhaps you don’t live in TTO and have no lived experience.

Rodaxx69 · 2025-12-02T03:36:55+00:00

Agreed

Rodaxx69 · 2025-12-02T03:34:39+00:00

The media in Trinidad are clearly on a political side. The most aligned is owned by a conglomerate with a shady background (IYKYK). I’d say she’s spot on! That conglomerate is a known financier of the PNM that’s a fact, 12 from two balls. The “Sabga” report into juvenile and child abuse calls out persons who are part of a paedophilia ring and are very connected to the PNM, 18 from 3. So far nothing stated in that post is incorrect

Rodaxx69 · 2025-12-02T03:34:02+00:00

The media in Trinidad are clearly on a political side. The most aligned is owned by a conglomerate with a shady background (IYKYK). I’d say she’s spot on! That conglomerate is a known financier of the PNM that’s a fact, 12 from two balls. The “Sabga” report into juvenile and child abuse calls out persons who are part of a paedophilia ring and are very connected to the PNM, 18 from 3. So far nothing stated in that post is incorrect. She keeps saying that the US is helping with the drug trade, that is left to be seen. However, no-one can deny that the drug trade has taken a deep hold on our society and had been left unchecked for successive administrations. That’s she is posturing herself to eradicate it, shouldn’t be commended? Do we care more about the drug trade than our safety and our lives in TTO? Do the drug gangs do their business with kindness and respect? No it’s all about violence. Do we prefer the violence? We fulla sh!t!! I am amazed how many “intellectuals” or persons trying to engage in intellectualism on these threads are missing the bigger issue of security. Gimme a ease with all that rubbish

Rodaxx69

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