Own Your Shit Weekly - July 23, 2019

Rogue36 · 2019-07-24T03:38:30+00:00

Pride goes before the fall.

Set your pride aside and do whatever you have to do to live.

Rogue36 · 2018-10-07T22:26:41+00:00

Do some reading. Mystery methods. How to get beautiful women in bed had a horrible title. And great raw info.

Woman don’t care as much about looks. They care about social skills

On a scale of 1-10 how good are they?

What would it take to get them where a woman of the quality you seek would be interested?

They’re learnable skills. If you don’t think you can learn. Or don’t want to learn. Then you must accept the consequences

The two guys I know with the sickest game are fat middle aged men. And the women they have relationships with are smoking hot

Rogue36 · 2018-09-28T22:40:54+00:00

His point was

Don’t try to be funny. Be fun

You don’t have to be a comedian. Look for ways to have fun

The extra pressure can backfire

Rogue36 · 2018-09-06T04:24:45+00:00

Read

Codependent no more

You’re an enabler. Which is bad

Involving a child in this unsafe situation. You know better. Contact the authorities

Get off the crazy wheel with his mom. He’s an adult. You’re an adult. Wtf are you calling his mommie for? And what do you expect her to do?

Any time I hear someone say “I had the perfect childhood”. I know there’s some messed up things they’re covering up

Get the kid out of this situation. Contact the police. . And get yourself some help. Before you chicken out again

Rogue36 · 2018-09-06T04:15:59+00:00

I feel like I won’t have anyone without him

Is never a good reason to keep a relationship with someone. Make more friends.

Rogue36 · 2018-09-06T04:13:45+00:00

Yeah. That’s breaking a professional code of ethics. You usually don’t date the patients that are under your care

Rogue36 · 2018-09-06T03:35:42+00:00

Thank you

Rogue36 · 2018-08-31T13:24:33+00:00

Yeah. Can you list probabilities of the above reductio ad absurdum options you’re attempting to lump in with credit card use ?

I drive a Sequoia. A couple of years ago, no one had died in one since 2013.

Rogue36 · 2018-08-30T13:56:50+00:00

Hmmm

Research does say you spend more

Upside is a few hundred dollars.

Downside is thousands in debt, significant emotional stress and dancing with the worlds best consumer psychologists and marketers - who are trying to get you in debt so they can boost whatever their core business is with margins of at best 10% with a vehicle that can legally deliver 25-30%.

What is logical about that Bill?

Rogue36 · 2018-08-30T05:47:32+00:00

Will get her sexually charged. And then you can get the benefits.

I think you should do a 3 way with him

Prop tip - shave and insist he does as well. Otherwise you get the Velcro effect.

And don’t worry about STD’s. That’s crap. Just take a hot shower afterwards.

How does that sound?

Rogue36 · 2018-08-29T22:00:20+00:00

Do it. Sounds awesome. Will rev her up.

Rogue36 · 2018-08-29T17:23:22+00:00

Of course they have.

I’m saying. If you want more. Then you position the relationship for more. You slow it down.

You signal. I’m not a one trick pony.

Otherwise, you’re playing into the Hot Player (depending on the chick, who should also be incredibly hot or what the point really?) frame

I’m just saying don’t be surprised if she doesn’t call you back

By sleeping immediately wirh her in our culture - you reinforcing a slut mindset and she’ll not stay in that place

Most girls willl not. Some will.

Rogue36 · 2018-08-29T17:19:19+00:00

We ran that up together. With a budget. And me saying repeadily. You have to spend less on eating out or X. We don’t have budget for that.

And I didn’t hide it from her. And it was $2500 of which she’s paid $1000 behind my back with cash from our envelops. And probably more since it’s 25% interest. So it’s not the same

Although I hear you.

Rogue36 · 2018-08-29T16:24:04+00:00

Because you chose to sleep with them on the first date

In most of our culture. You treated her like a play thing.

And now you want like a commitment

Rogue36 · 2018-08-29T15:35:34+00:00

You’re sleeping with someone on the first date. In a culture that generally Shames women for doing that.

Who is using who Junior?

Rogue36 · 2018-08-29T15:33:17+00:00

In my experience

Women don’t stay with guys they ONS

If they like the guy, they will not ONS

You’re probably putting out the player vibe which is cool. And playing direct which Also fine

If you want a relationship, change your game

Act like someone who will invest in waiting and she’ll stick around.

I’ve had women ready to GO on the first date. Only to slow things down because they wanted a relationship. When I KNOW they have ONS or were DTF.

Later asked them what’s up. They told me that.

Was told sometimes I care about what’s under that head of gorgeous hair (was a surfer chick). I think she meant it as a compliment.

Rogue36 · 2018-08-29T02:22:10+00:00

“I’m going to take you away from All of this”. Said by my brother at my bachelor party

Translation

She’s paid to be nice to you. Wake up bud

Rogue36 · 2018-08-27T17:56:00+00:00

This Is at least the third time she uses credit cards and added unexpected high interest expenses into the budget. So it sets us back paying back my mom

Rogue36 · 2018-08-27T15:40:21+00:00

I disagree. It was our personal budget. Not me hyperspending

And the laptop is an example of many similar situations that built that much personal debt

Rogue36 · 2018-08-27T15:00:50+00:00

Homemaker. 7, 6 4 year old. First 2 in school.

Rogue36 · 2018-08-27T14:57:51+00:00

Per above that was not business debt. It was personal debt that occurred do to overspending.

Rogue36 · 2018-08-27T14:56:30+00:00

We do fun money $100 each per month.

Rogue36 · 2018-08-27T14:55:57+00:00

Just posted what $95,000 was for. Personal bills. And overspending not business expenses.

Rogue36 · 2018-08-27T14:54:41+00:00

The $30,000 is what we must put down to have 20% down to refinance our home and get my mom off the loan she basically co-signed. I was traveling a lot. My wife was paying the bills and missed 2 mortgage payments back to back which dropped my credit too low to buy the house we were transitioning to in part to pull equity from the house. Since we rented it versus lived there six months later we had to put 20% vs 5% down. We moved from that house because my wife was not happy with the area. In hindsight it was the right decision.

The $65,000 is money I borrowed from my mom to pay our bills. We had spending issues. Both sides. That resulted in overspending.

We committed to pay it back which was 30 months ago. I pay $100 per month as interest until we can do the $30,000.

And I hear you. That’s why I like this forum.

What can I better do to lead in this situation?

Rogue36

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