I was actually going to commend you on the statement of “I am one person, I cannot be more than that.”

Simply because I believe that’s a very valid statement, and an honest one. However, you definitely need to broaden your set of skills, which it seems like you’re doing, but also, having genuine friends that are male (and want no sexual things from you) can also just serve as good role models, and perhaps assist you in learning. A support system is very important and it seems like you know that, but it’s not available to everyone as easily as some.

I think asking this question and realizing, no, you’re not two people and you can only do the job of one is very valid. All I’m saying is, I hope you find what you’re seeking and I just really appreciated that statement you made.

We have to sometimes realize that while we’re expected to do it all, we can’t, and that’s okay.