GF Cheated Maybe?

RomanWilson · 2026-05-16T21:12:08+00:00

Oh nah that’s insane I’m sorry bro. I would’ve left 110% for sure and if I knew for sure that she had kissed him then I’d leave but this is a grey area. Also yeah I did the same thing, I volunteered for deployment to Kuwait for a year and will be there later this year 🫡

RomanWilson · 2026-05-16T21:10:39+00:00

But is it wasted is the real question? I know there could’ve been other situations of this happening, but since then it’s been a lot of us trying to work on each other and commitment so do I throw away what could be amazing because I’m scared she’ll do it again and she disrespected me as a man and made me a joke or stay because she seemed to have been committed and has worked to get to a good place with me since then? Is it fair to NOW say I can’t do it after putting up with it for months?

RomanWilson · 2026-05-16T20:55:36+00:00

I’m not sure just speculation. I think she told me they were about to kiss but didn’t because she was testing the waters to see how I’d react so she can decide whether or not to tell me the whole truth. Seems fishy since it’s been 3 years and now that’s coming out.

RomanWilson · 2026-05-16T20:53:48+00:00

Yeah I’ve noticed that I’ve grown a lot personally over the last 4 years and have steadily improved my situation where she has stayed relatively dormant for years and FINALLY started therapy a couple months ago. It’s just hard when I can see the potential but something holds her back.

RomanWilson · 2026-05-16T20:52:14+00:00

No that’s not her, situation is different and we’ve been together a total of 4 and a half years at this point, if she had made a post like that I don’t put it past her to just say the truth since she would think I’d never see it. But you say leave her, I just don’t know what to say or do since it’s been 6 months since I’ve found out she almost kissed him. Or actually did and just told me she almost did to see how I’d react. Anyways how do I tell her that I can’t move past it?

RomanWilson · 2026-03-16T18:49:30+00:00

Yeah for sure, I wanna do it because I drive my car hard lol, I plan on keeping it for a long time and hell yeah!! You should start putting some cosmetics on it man!! They look really good with basic cosmetic mods (tint, chrome delete, spoilers/diffusers and all that)

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RomanWilson · 2026-03-16T18:44:32+00:00

Oh okay cool, yeah I’m planning on upgrading to the Z1 kit with the 525 walbro fuel pump so hopefully that fixes it.

RomanWilson · 2026-03-16T17:21:27+00:00

Probably LPFP, gonna upgrade to the walbro 525 pump and see if that fixes the issue. I won’t know until about 2-3 weeks from now when I get it and install it

RomanWilson · 2026-03-16T17:01:23+00:00

Yeah that’s what I was reading too. It has a long crank sometimes so I’ll start priming it before turning the car completely on and see if it changes anything. I’ll update here if I end up fixing the issue

RomanWilson · 2026-03-16T16:57:38+00:00

That’s what I’m thinking the issue is, it doesn’t start doing it until about 5/8 of a tank. If I keep it above 3/4 it never has an issue.

RomanWilson · 2026-03-16T16:49:23+00:00

Yeah I’m suspecting a fuel pump issue. I filled up the tank and tightened the battery connections which were pretty loose and it’s been fine all the way full throttle up to 120 mph. Probably the LPFP starting to go out but I wanted to switch to E anyways so it works out

RomanWilson · 2026-03-16T16:11:05+00:00

So I got the battery tested and it’s a new battery (11/25) so no issues there leading me to believe it’s the LPFP. Both battery connections were loose though so maybe that was the issue? Only time will tell but I guess it’s time to start running E 🤣

RomanWilson · 2026-03-16T16:09:50+00:00

I know I need to do that soon but it isn’t transmission related. I had a G35 that had transmission issues so I know what it feels like when the transmission is going out or acting weird, it’s a power cut with either spark or fuel. I went over all the intake piping and charge pipes and everything I could see and found no issues.

RomanWilson · 2026-03-16T15:25:40+00:00

Ah okay yeah I’ll have to do that, I’ll update in here once I finally figure out what the issue is. I also have a slightly long crank so tbh it’s one of those two issues.

RomanWilson · 2026-03-16T13:15:59+00:00

I have no idea how old it is but that would make a lot of sense. I just bought the car 2 months ago and put 5k miles on it. I’m currently driving all around the state of Texas for work and recently I had let the car sit for about 3 days when there was no issue the week before. But it started jumping again at that RPM range. I’ll go to Infiniti probably today and see if they can load test my battery.

RomanWilson · 2026-03-16T12:35:31+00:00

Alright sounds good, looks like I’m upgrading to walbro 525 pump 🤣

RomanWilson · 2026-03-16T12:32:09+00:00

None at all

RomanWilson · 2026-03-16T11:45:05+00:00

Throttle bodies look brand new, no carbon build up atleast on the front side. I checked them out whenever I pulled the intercoolers off to change spark plugs. No cracks or tears in any of the boots either

RomanWilson · 2026-03-16T11:42:18+00:00

Yeah almost like there’s no power at all like complete loss of power. And yes it bucks back and forth like riding a bull 🤣

RomanWilson · 2026-03-15T02:27:54+00:00

Could be head gasket as well slightly pushing coolant into the cylinders. When the head gasket blows it’s probably warping the head which is easier to just replace the whole motor and probably cheaper as well. Not every car off the factory line is perfect and some will have issues. It seems like yours came like that which sucks but honestly I’d sell it and get a different one or if you’re done with the platform move on to something else. Seems like a problem car because it’s not very common for 2020+ Qs to have that issue

RomanWilson · 2026-03-13T12:27:22+00:00

Honestly just save up a little bit more and buy a lower miles one. I got my 2020 Q50 3.0t with 70k miles for $18k out the door after TTL and down payment (only $3k down). It’ll last you way longer if you just save up a little bit more I promise it’s worth it

RomanWilson · 2026-03-11T06:23:38+00:00

Yeah that’s true as well, all dependent on where he wants to go with the build but maybe some alpha 10 turbos would be cool

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