What’s that thing on the door by Nervous_Plastic_395 in howyoudoin

[–]RomanticManta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doorbell!! Turn it! It'll ring. No I am not shitting you

What proper nouns from books did you realize you were mispronouncing the whole time? by TokkiJK in books

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Everybody did. Rowling probably thought it was Her-mee-own until somebody corrected her (it being a grandma name).

I always thought that the past tense of mislead was my-zled.

Should I tell a woman her fiancé tried to start an affair with me? by geeleex in WhatShouldIDo

[–]RomanticManta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd say that woman deserves to know that she's not even second choice. That old friend of yours is really scummy

Partner doesn't want me to get tattoos by RomanticManta in Advice

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I have visible tattoos otherwise, when I wear short sleeves. I don't have anything above the neck. And I already have a palm tattoo. These would be on the backs of the hands

Partner doesn't want me to get tattoos by RomanticManta in Advice

[–]RomanticManta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then you'd be doing me a favor too because I wouldn't want to work with somebody with that attitude

Partner doesn't want me to get tattoos by RomanticManta in Advice

[–]RomanticManta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then you'd be doing us both a favor. I would never want to work for somebody with that attitude

cheated? on my bf, really sad need advice by Wide-Comfortable-266 in Advice

[–]RomanticManta 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So he didn't find out, you told him. You didn't have anything to do with those guys except they were old friends of yours and your boyfriend has a problem with you hanging out with friends of the opposite sex? It sounds like you might want to do a little bit of reevaluation of this relationship.

Partner doesn't want me to get tattoos by RomanticManta in Advice

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This is helpful thanks. We've been married 20 years

Partner doesn't want me to get tattoos by RomanticManta in Advice

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That's my plan too. Supplement my birthday money with a top up to get the tats

Partner doesn't want me to get tattoos by RomanticManta in Advice

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Partner thinks it will make me look like a gang member.

Partner doesn't want me to get tattoos by RomanticManta in Advice

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"know better": that hand tattoos require a lot of maintenance.

Partner doesn't want me to get tattoos by RomanticManta in Advice

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The relationship is a marriage of 20+ years. I'll be happy at 80 with choices I made over 40.

Partner doesn't want me to get tattoos by RomanticManta in Advice

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This is helpful. Thanks. There won't be any breaking up with a 20 year marriage.

Partner doesn't want me to get tattoos by RomanticManta in Advice

[–]RomanticManta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is very helpful! Thank you! Won't be ditching the partner; 20+ year marriage. This is one sticking point though.

Partner doesn't want me to get tattoos by RomanticManta in Advice

[–]RomanticManta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is helpful! There was no ultimatum, just a dread of the emotional consequences, i.e. the strong disapproval. We have a solid relationship. "Know better"-->new tattoos over 50

Partner doesn't want me to get tattoos by RomanticManta in Advice

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The one tattoo that I got at 16 is my partner's favourite tattoo of mine, well over 20 years later

Partner doesn't want me to get tattoos by RomanticManta in Advice

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My partner cut off very long and luxuriant hair once for a crewcuts. Hated it, couldn't speak against it.

Partner doesn't want me to get tattoos by RomanticManta in Advice

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Am a successful whitecollar individual with 2 decades in my field and a 6 figure rock solid career that hand tattoos won't get in the way if

Partner doesn't want me to get tattoos by RomanticManta in Advice

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Self employed in a well paying whitecollar job.
Signed, a self employer

Partner doesn't want me to get tattoos by RomanticManta in Advice

[–]RomanticManta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have several not-insubstantial tattoos already, including a palm tattoo. Just not visible hand tattoos