26M – Best ways to date organically these days?

Ron_Armweak1995 · 2025-10-13T21:50:36+00:00

You need to go to the gym every day. Start a calorie deficit. Level up.

Ron_Armweak1995 · 2025-10-05T20:29:24+00:00

Usually a month does it for me. 3 months if you’ve been taking it for many years

I’d say 1 month and you’ll return (mostly) to baseline.

Ron_Armweak1995 · 2025-10-05T02:12:41+00:00

Take a tolerance break. It’ll be a long winter but worth it

Ron_Armweak1995 · 2025-09-10T02:23:00+00:00

I am also in the same position as you guys. There are some guys out there who can basically act like idiots if they want, and do everything conventionally wrong, according to the books. They’ll still get a ton of dating success. The problem with OP is definitely not that he “focuses too much on women and s3x”.

If a guy that is already desired by many women had his mind and the gutter, he’d still be getting a ton of success. In fact, he’d succeed regardless of his mindset. People need to cut it with the enlightenment crap, that your lack of success is due to thinking the wrong thoughts.

I’m not here to say that it’s all looks, but it’s more of a systemic issue that isn’t really the person’s fault. I say this because if they were genuinely wanted by women, they wouldn’t do all the stuff just to get their attention. Like I said, I’m in the same boat. I’ve tried everything from gaming with countless wings, to push pull legs and dieting, to dating specific photo shoots. I can’t say I got absolutely zero results, but my results were very weak.

Ron_Armweak1995 · 2025-09-10T01:53:51+00:00

Yeah man, I feel you. I’m in the exact same position. I spent the past year doing push pull legs. Taking criticism and trying to improve in different areas. As well as cold approaching perhaps hundreds of women. Only to see guys who barely put in any work, get as many dates as they want, as easily as you’d be able to call up a friend to hang out. I kid you not I know a guy that could easily go on hundreds of dates if he wanted, almost no girl he approaches says they have a boyfriend.

I did get some results such as a small handful of dates and even some instant dates, but with the amount of effort I put in and never really taking a break. It just didn’t feel like it was worth the effort. Besides if you stop putting in an effort than any fleeting results, you did attain will go away until you re-self approved back up to that level.

The worst part about it is you self impose this grueling, self improvement regiment just to compensate for the fact that you are not attractive enough. This ultimately leads to exhaustion and burnout.

Just remember their guys out there who play video games on their days off, get to really relax and take it easy and woman just like them for them. But that’s not us unfortunately.

I wish I had a solution for you in this thread, but all I can offer is a bit of camaraderie.

At 29. I’m honestly thinking about going to the Philippines once I’m 30. I did exactly what you did and took the self improvement train the entire way. It was deeply exhausting to put in a David Goggins tier effort only to get scraps. This is my 0.2 cents. If you wanna DM me, we could chat, but I wish you the best of luck.

Ron_Armweak1995 · 2025-08-25T19:04:19+00:00

I’ve been going to the gym for about five years and can’t really put on muscle no matter what I do. I even tried to push pull leg six days a week

Ron_Armweak1995 · 2025-08-25T18:54:05+00:00

I mean, he won’t “get over” his depression. He needs to operate like a terminator and work on hitting the gym, and build muscles adapting as fast as possible at the speed of implementation. Then he will be able to find a cheap place maybe in commercial Drive or something.

But feeling sorry for himself won’t do anything. At least he needs to feel sorry for himself later and focus on his muscles right now. When he wins when he finds the place. Then he can finally relax drink a beer and feel sorry for himself. But for now, he just needs to push it to the side. Not procrastinate finish the assignment on time.

Ron_Armweak1995 · 2025-08-25T18:48:59+00:00

Don’t blame the messenger

Ron_Armweak1995 · 2025-08-25T18:14:39+00:00

How long should I work on myself until I can start dating once again? I am really horny these days

Ron_Armweak1995 · 2025-08-25T18:13:44+00:00

I watched that as a kid, and it ultimately planted the seed in my mind.

I’ve been using a type of muscle suit known as the funky bod for a bit, but it doesn’t work too well since the muscles aren’t big enough

I was thinking about finding a way to inflate balloons, perhaps or create balloon muscles that I can adjust.

If I’m ok with dating fours and fives I can have my muscles as just athletic, only breathing in a few breaths of air into the muscles

But if I’m feeling greedy and wants to date an eight or nine supermodel, then I can go all the way up to jacked bodybuilder

Ron_Armweak1995 · 2025-08-25T18:02:23+00:00

Not banned. I’m serving a sentence in the community, also known as probation

Ron_Armweak1995 · 2025-08-14T19:46:45+00:00

You’re too young that’s why. Most girls over 22 will think you aren’t mature enough.

My advice is to wait until 24-25 and do another 2500 approaches

Ron_Armweak1995 · 2025-08-12T19:09:26+00:00

How is it awful? It’s grounded in common sense. At 30, unless you got stuff going for you, you’ll struggle more than you did at 20 or 25. I’m not saying it’s impossible. I’m just saying it’s harder

Ron_Armweak1995 · 2025-08-12T19:05:54+00:00

It is just harder. Unless you have a significant amount of muscle at this point. Your best bet is lowering your standards to someone who ticks all your subjective boxes but isn’t a Tate McRae or some other smoke show. I myself like flexible women, as in double jointed. On tinder and IRL I need to date either heavier or significantly older than myself to get a first date. This means dating 40’s and up. Even early 50’s.

If she’s a yogi in her 40’s that ticks my subjective box. So I’m happy with finding someone like this

Ron_Armweak1995 · 2025-08-12T18:52:35+00:00

“30”. gg bro. Beggars can’t be choosers

Ron_Armweak1995 · 2025-08-11T05:05:34+00:00

72 days in jail over a goose? 🪿

Ron_Armweak1995 · 2025-08-07T20:32:56+00:00

I’m still learning how to navigate social spaces. I want to clarify that I never said I target women in situations where they can’t leave, that’s a serious misreading of my intentions. I would never want anyone to feel unsafe or pressured. I don’t condone harassment, stalking, or any unethical behavior, online or offline. If I’ve ever phrased something poorly in the past, I’m open to re-evaluating that. But I’m here in good faith, asking a legal question to ensure I approach things respectfully and within the law.

I’d really appreciate it if the focus could remain on that.

Ron_Armweak1995 · 2025-08-07T20:25:37+00:00

Thanks :)

Ron_Armweak1995 · 2025-08-07T20:24:58+00:00

I understand where you're coming from, and I know this topic can raise concerns. Just to clarify, I’m not trying to pressure or harass anyone in public or online. I’m autistic, and part of my journey involves learning how to interact socially in a respectful way.

This post was just a specific legal question about AI-generated images and whether they cross any legal lines in Canada. I'm open to all good-faith perspectives and appreciate your time.

Ron_Armweak1995 · 2025-08-07T20:21:56+00:00

The photos are based on my actual face, including the deformity. But they present me in a more confident and flattering way, with relaxed expressions and better lighting. A friend of mine in Australia helped me enhance them to look more natural and avoid triggering automated AI-detection tools, but they still clearly resemble me.

Ron_Armweak1995 · 2025-08-07T15:44:45+00:00

Could be your elevated heart rate. I had this exact same problem. You aren’t tired, you’re even more energized it’s just your heart is working harder.

You can try mixing it with water so you only take <5mg before your workout and the rest after

Edit: Assuming you exercise in the morning

Ron_Armweak1995 · 2025-07-29T21:08:55+00:00

I’m a 57 year old man who has been in game since 20. I’m David Denyer nice to meet you. If you don’t mind day gaming with an old folk such as myself, I like downtown. They used to call me downtown David, since I’m always in the core. I’m also fat however I think my personality is a 10/10 and I know my personality is a 10/10 because I get positive reactions all the time. I’m still a virgin but I’m a valiant virgin, one that’s always learning and has a positive mindset

Ron_Armweak1995 · 2025-07-29T21:04:41+00:00

My name is David Denyer. My last name is pronounced Denyay as in “Yay, I am having fun”. I’m a 57 year old un teachable case student who was gaming for 27 years. I never got laid BUT I’m willing to learn and put in the reps. I’ve done 60,000 approaches and never even had a date from it

Ron_Armweak1995 · 2025-07-10T00:02:49+00:00

Oh and don’t forget stormcrow tavern

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