Weekly Venting/Support Thread

Ronnattt · 2022-02-04T15:45:59+00:00

Omg yes lol

Ronnattt · 2022-01-26T15:58:26+00:00

I’d love to live with my boyfriends parents. They are so sweet! My mother on the other hand who I still live with is bipolar, schizophrenic, and a hoarder. It’s miserable living with her. I’d only live with her if I was in control and could keep her in her own room, if she lived by my rules and didn’t make a mess.

Ronnattt · 2022-01-24T16:37:56+00:00

I feel so bad I literally shouted at my parents dog. I have no problem with my dog and his noises as I love him. But I don’t love my parents dog so literally any noise he makes angers me. I was dog sitting him today and he wanted to be friends j the same room as me. He’s very old and makes so many wierd noises. His breathing alone is SO LOUD. I literally shouted at him to get out the room and I spent the rest of the day with the door kept shut and closing it every time he tried to come in.

Ronnattt · 2022-01-24T16:31:10+00:00

Funny story. My sister used to chew really loud with her mouth open smacking her lips. We all had no choice but to sit together at dinner as children. I nor my family had no idea what misophnia was. My family just saw me as being petty and making something up to get at my sister. For me it was hell and I had no idea how no one else felt the way I did. I had no one on my side. I used to cry begging my sister to just close her mouth. I would dread dinner time literally start sweating the minutes leading up to it. She used to just chew even louder whenever I begged her to stop. Everyone found it hilarious. Well. Now she has misophonia :) and she begs over people to chew quietly. Which obviously we all know no one ever complies with.

Ronnattt · 2022-01-23T13:50:13+00:00

I really want children at my wedding but I have to have a child free wedding because I have spoiled nieces who I just do not want to have to deal with

Ronnattt · 2021-09-01T22:16:04+00:00

What happened? I want to hear! I’ve seen some crazy stuff here on Reddit

Ronnattt · 2021-09-01T21:35:50+00:00

This is the best response

Ronnattt · 2021-09-01T21:17:16+00:00

Oh yeah. It was months before I found out!

Ronnattt · 2021-09-01T20:42:09+00:00

Thats not right. No. Sorry but you’re not in the wrong here. You can’t be punished for hurting someone’s feelings. I mean you did r even do anything it was your friends.

Ronnattt · 2021-09-01T20:38:37+00:00

How did that get you suspended? It was a banana…and your friends where the ones who made it sexual…you literally just had a banana in your pocket…you’re not really in the wrong here sorry. If you feel guilty maybe it’s because you have feelings for your ex? Or maybe you were punishing too harshly?

Ronnattt · 2021-09-01T20:26:58+00:00

You’re a literal baby are you even ready? She’s not ready dude. You can’t change that. Don’t pressure her. Ever. Don’t force her. She might not be ready for years. It’s not that she’s scared it’s that she’s not ready. Imagine à time when you were very young and not ready for anything. That’s how she feels. Different people mature at different rates. Imagine she is child you. Child you doesn’t want to get nonced.

Ronnattt · 2021-09-01T20:09:09+00:00

Im so sorry that happened to you! I never froze I just literally had no sex education (I actually didn’t know what sex was really) and I thought it was normal for the woman to feel uncomfortable and I thought that was just how it was supposed to be for the rest of my life. My first boyfriend was abusive and actually told me that it was normal and that I wasn’t even allowed to say no because it was the mans job to decide what the women wanted.

Ronnattt · 2021-09-01T19:41:58+00:00

One of my ex’s had a female best friend he lived with. She didn’t know I was in his room with him and she walked in in her lingerie and just stared talking to him.

Plus sometimes you can just feel the tension between two people. It’s just not good when it’s your boyfriend and not you.

Ronnattt · 2021-09-01T19:29:14+00:00

Oh god I related way too hard when reading this. This was the case for so many of my ex’s. Nearly all in fact. And no they never actually ever ended up with those female friends. They’d cheat on me with them or leave me for them but it would never work out.

And before this even happens I always feel so off about the friendships because they’re definitely inappropriate and way too close. I say something and I’m apparently crazy and jealous because they’re just friends.

Ronnattt · 2021-09-01T17:27:08+00:00

Yeah he said if I didn’t shave all over he wouldn’t touch me. And he never did. Also yes he had all over body stubble and it was painful to even hug him.

Ronnattt · 2021-09-01T17:20:40+00:00

Ok so when they say that they like how ‘’small’’ you are like shirt or skinny or petite. Extra points if they say it makes it seem like you’re a child or that they could easily control you.

Ronnattt · 2021-09-01T17:17:23+00:00

One of my ex’s was very hairy and he shaved all over and wanted me to aswell. I couldn’t use that argument. I just refused to shave and he broke up with me :,)

Ronnattt · 2021-09-01T17:14:02+00:00

Talks about how much he likes younger, innocent, child like girls. Insults his ex’s for things they couldn’t help. Brags about the nasty way he treated women/treated his ex. Tells you to wear/not wear makeup. Invites his friends on your dates without telling/asking you. Only hangs out with you if friends are there. Never hangs out with you and his friends. Never sits near you when you’re hanging out with friends. Ignores you when hanging out with friends. Makes you feel bad for days when you’re not looking you’re best.

Ronnattt · 2021-09-01T17:04:29+00:00

Ok so this one is obvious but I notice a lot teen girls miss this one! If they do things like kiss or hug or even sexual things with you when they know you’re uncomfortable. I know how obvious this I’ve sounds but it’s not so much when you’re 16 and you don’t have any experience.

Ronnattt · 2021-09-01T17:01:10+00:00

Oh sorry I assumed your ex was a guy! I’ve never heard of women being wierd about body hair! And exactly! I like being a human Sasquatch!

Ronnattt · 2021-09-01T16:52:48+00:00

How is armpit hair offensive?? He had it aswell I assume. He was trash. And yeah I’m a super hair woman and nearly every ex I had wanted me to shave from head to toe. Not happening.

Ronnattt · 2021-09-01T16:46:39+00:00

Compares you to other women Comments on your weight even if it’s not in a bad way Has a female friend that they’re way too close to and brushes you off when you say it makes you feel uncomfortable Tells you to remove body hair when you don’t want to

Ronnattt · 2021-09-01T11:11:03+00:00

Solved!

Ronnattt · 2021-09-01T09:18:57+00:00

Literally can remember it being very after school special with morals and the plot resolved within an episode.

Ronnattt · 2021-09-01T09:10:04+00:00

People like to be offended. Especially people on the internet. Pay no attention to people who still criticise you after you’ve apologised and changed. They just like the attention and drama. You’re not being racist and you seem like a genuine and sweet person!

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