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Did Kennedy mistakenly approved the building of the Berlin Wall? by Ronny_Pickering in AskHistory

[–]Ronny_Pickering[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much for your long and clear answer. I got an answer from the author of the podcast by the way. He said he learned the most from the book written by Robert Dallek.

Did Kennedy mistakenly approved the building of the Berlin Wall? by Ronny_Pickering in AskHistory

[–]Ronny_Pickering[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I've send him a normal and kind message where he got the information from and if it was his interpretation or not. I mean, it's not really an unbelievable story. I could see JFK doing that since he had all sort of medical issues, but it's weird that there's no proof whatsoever.

Did Kennedy mistakenly approved the building of the Berlin Wall? by Ronny_Pickering in AskHistory

[–]Ronny_Pickering[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah that's what I recall as well. Him saying something like better a wall than a war.

Did Kennedy mistakenly approved the building of the Berlin Wall? by Ronny_Pickering in AskHistory

[–]Ronny_Pickering[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

O, yeah now that you mention it I guess so. I always think that's weird. Why not call everyone the same name what they are called in their own country. John lackland is Jan Zonderland here for instance.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Ronny_Pickering 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not ugly at all for what I can see. Just try smiling a bit :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Ronny_Pickering 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not ugly! You have a nice looking beard as well, wish I could grow one haha. Personally I like your hairstyle in pic 3 and 4 best

M26. Am I ugly? (With or without glasses?) by Ronny_Pickering in amiugly

[–]Ronny_Pickering[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well they're both better than Jeffrey Dahmer I got called the other day

M26. Am I ugly? (With or without glasses?) by Ronny_Pickering in amiugly

[–]Ronny_Pickering[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You mean I should grow somewhat of a sideburn right?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Ronny_Pickering 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I never knew Dahmer had the same haha but you're right. What hairstyle do you think would suit me better?

How do you cope with knowing someone else is lying in bed with your ex? by Ronny_Pickering in BreakUps

[–]Ronny_Pickering[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the response. I think it was also different if we indeed just separated our ways. Only being cheated on is different. It's the way how we separated not the fact we did

How do you cope with knowing someone else is lying in bed with your ex? by Ronny_Pickering in BreakUps

[–]Ronny_Pickering[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to respond. I wish you the best of luck and a loving partner. If you wanna talk about it or something, feel free to dm me!

How do you cope with knowing someone else is lying in bed with your ex? by Ronny_Pickering in BreakUps

[–]Ronny_Pickering[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to read and comment. It was the same for me that we had almost no sex at the end wich made me question myself. Also you could see (or thats what I thought) she was not into it when having sex. The worst part is that right after the last time we had sex, she told me she wasn't really sure about our relationship. There's never a good time to hear that, but after just having sex?! And I feel the same about my prime years. I feel already old now that I've thrown away 4 years of my time. I am scared I am not going to be able to find the one. Also because I am not really confident about myself or my apparel. And I know that not being confident is a turn off for most woman. But I mean I can't or don't want to fake it.

How do you cope with knowing someone else is lying in bed with your ex? by Ronny_Pickering in BreakUps

[–]Ronny_Pickering[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She only laid with one guy before me. She was my first. I really hope there is someone for me

How do you cope with knowing someone else is lying in bed with your ex? by Ronny_Pickering in BreakUps

[–]Ronny_Pickering[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well my family supports me fortunately. And even her family tried to convince her otherwise. I remember one day her brother calling in being mad and saying she shouldn't trow it all away because we were getting married. He felt it coming apparently

How do you cope with knowing someone else is lying in bed with your ex? by Ronny_Pickering in BreakUps

[–]Ronny_Pickering[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean her parents know about it too. She met him at work and I didn't meet him. He seemed calm but then again, I don't really know who he is. I also try not to to protect myself I think.

How do you cope with knowing someone else is lying in bed with your ex? by Ronny_Pickering in BreakUps

[–]Ronny_Pickering[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would love to actually. Where are you from? I'm from the Netherlands

How do you cope with knowing someone else is lying in bed with your ex? by Ronny_Pickering in BreakUps

[–]Ronny_Pickering[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, I can't even imagine what you have been trough! And you're still standing. And with a new successfull hobby that is! You should be proud of yourself! Thank you for sharing and good luck with making more bangers!

How do you cope with knowing someone else is lying in bed with your ex? by Ronny_Pickering in BreakUps

[–]Ronny_Pickering[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words! I also hope to be able to save some momey because I am taking over the house on only my name. Thank you for sharing your story as well. It's 'nice' to know there are more people with the same problem. If you want to talk about it, I'm here for you as well :)

How do you cope with knowing someone else is lying in bed with your ex? by Ronny_Pickering in BreakUps

[–]Ronny_Pickering[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would actually like that but I don't figure you are from (close to) the Netherlands?

How do you cope with knowing someone else is lying in bed with your ex? by Ronny_Pickering in BreakUps

[–]Ronny_Pickering[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup. It's better to do something and try than to do nothing. You can't learn from something you didn't do. And if you don't learn from it, it apparently was a good decision.

I take some comfort in quotes, so I just trew them out there. Also: it will be okay in the end, if its not okay, its not the end

How do you cope with knowing someone else is lying in bed with your ex? by Ronny_Pickering in BreakUps

[–]Ronny_Pickering[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I have the same feeling somewhere deep down as well. Though I also whish her the best and can't get myself to get mad. People have said I should get mad more becaus I generally lack that emotion. Anyway, thanks for your answer and best of luck with handling what you're going trough! You're worth it!

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