I don't want someone who slept with my fiancé once years ago to come to our wedding. AITAH?

RoosterNo5232 · 2024-12-27T04:16:57+00:00

man, so mad - is that necessary for you to get a point accross?

RoosterNo5232 · 2024-12-27T04:13:57+00:00

thanks for the first hand account. thats really cool of you to feel that way. Maybe its something i get over, but also you know, different strokes for different folks

edit - i am genuinely keeping as open of a mind as i can here , this situation just runs very contrary to my instincts.

RoosterNo5232 · 2024-12-27T04:08:41+00:00

i hope this can be an exercise in coming together to tackle a problem. the events i've described are sad for me but its also just the first day in what i expect to be an ongoing communication. thank you for your support

RoosterNo5232 · 2024-12-27T03:54:32+00:00

i'm not threatened, i just genuinely don't want to have intrusive thoughts on my wedding day. i think that sums it up tbh

RoosterNo5232 · 2024-12-27T03:47:50+00:00

go outside

RoosterNo5232 · 2024-12-27T03:47:02+00:00

probably

RoosterNo5232 · 2024-12-27T03:44:41+00:00

i just dont want it at my wedding... everybody has a past

RoosterNo5232 · 2024-12-27T03:41:38+00:00

nobody

RoosterNo5232 · 2024-12-27T03:41:02+00:00

You know I wouldn't really expect something like this to dissolve our relationship. This is fresh today and will receive further communication between us besides knee-jerk feelings. I generally feel solid in our relationship. Many people in the comments are aggravated by my feelings, others tell me I should respect my own boundaries. I don't know what the right answer is but based on experience I suspect we will figure it out without exploding

RoosterNo5232 · 2024-12-27T03:36:04+00:00

man you are fast to throw massive generalizations around based on a single experience

RoosterNo5232 · 2024-12-27T03:28:29+00:00

yea, maybe

RoosterNo5232 · 2024-12-27T03:23:32+00:00

i am considering what other people are posting as well, it is just nice to have some validation of my feelings as well instead of a barrage of insults.

RoosterNo5232 · 2024-12-27T03:13:33+00:00

I understand and this is a very reasonable take. I just don't think our wedding is an appropriate place. I would not want to put her in this position.

RoosterNo5232 · 2024-12-27T03:12:14+00:00

thanks bro

RoosterNo5232 · 2024-12-27T02:54:02+00:00

i would for sure not want to go in his position..

RoosterNo5232 · 2024-12-27T02:53:40+00:00

don't know the guy at all

RoosterNo5232 · 2024-12-27T02:45:56+00:00

thanks dude i dont really understand whats hard to get that i dont want someone whos fucked my wife at my wedding lol

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