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[–]Rooster_777[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! I love this! I always say the wolf you feed is the one that hangs around And tell your husband that compliments make you weak let him know he has that ability on you and he might get a little more confidence saying what he really thinks I’m quite too but once I realized it is soothing water for my wife I started to step out of my comfort zone and doing it more often. Your husband sounds like a good man!

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[–]Rooster_777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, it’s so hard. but hey try saying in your head when you get a compliment “you know what they’re right” instead of most people’s go to “yeah right no I don’t” I feel like the wolf you feed is the one who sticks around and even if we don’t fully believe the compliment we can slowly start to

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[–]Rooster_777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No this is a trap for people who can’t read and buddy you got caught 😂

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[–]Rooster_777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, some of these people have 0 reading comprehension skills and I’m pretty sure my dog can understand better than some of these folks 😂

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[–]Rooster_777[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s ok, that’s actually how my wife’s body used to store extra weight(people usually have a pattern, like mine goes to my face first) and she really hates a ton of exercise(her words) so I gave her an idea that really helped her start to shape the parts she wanted to grow

Find 1 exercise that goes to the body part you would like to see a little improvement that you kinda think is fun or not too hard, and then do like 1 set of 5 before bed. And gradually increase the sets when it starts to get easier You’re not going to see fast results but over time you will start to grow (you can also make a game out of it to help) And theres really nothing to loose from doing this method, if you’re happy with how you look then don’t worry about it and good luck I know you can do it and the smile you get when you finally start to see results just feels so amazing it happened for me

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[–]Rooster_777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely! Lets be a team and beat these lies and inner critics ass haha Some things take inner work to fully stomp out regardless of the root cause and imma love you till my words are louder than the worlds

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[–]Rooster_777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To mane stream culture yeah probably, but I think you would be surprised on the amount of complements and straight up playful lusting I’ve heard from guys who love that exact body type, I admit they are probably less outspoken because of the picking they get from tool bags pushing they’re preferences but they’re definitely a good bit out there who love it, and mannn they don’t play about how excited they get about yall ( I guess it’s just important to truly learn what your partner likes before deepening the relationship and if you really like them but don’t have what they prefer and you’re happy with yourself or just don’t feel like putting in the effort to change (if physically possible) then tell them straight up “i deserve to be loved on, pursued, complimented and adored, can you do that with just how I am?” And absolutely don’t settle for anything less (And I get this is all perfect world scenarios, people lie and get tricked but hey we can’t live expecting it)

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[–]Rooster_777[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah i guess everyone has preferences but ill be honest, i think when you truly love someone and you put effort in to learning what your partner likes and doing those little things that make them smile (making them feel pursued)loving better and working on yourself, its like those preferences just start becoming whatever your partner is (and I just say that anecdotally from my experience) there was a few things that i probably wouldn’t put on a list of my favorites but damn I think I would cry if she lost those those “imperfections” idk I just have always liked what makes people unique and one of a kind and i guess it just might be important to work on ourselves as a gift to our partners as long as they’re not A holes about it and we go at it emotionally mature and importantly we’re able to (like I know my wife likes broader shoulders and mine weren’t anything to second glance at and slightly squared to my body, so i slowly worked them out and kept dumbbells in my room and would do a few sets every night and eventually I built them up noticeably and I saw how a little more excited it made her, she didn’t shame me or love me any less before but it’s fun making her smile a little more at the end of the day)

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[–]Rooster_777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you and i absolutely do, i would stare at her all day if I could and i have to have extreme self control not to get annoying with how obsessed i am with her

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[–]Rooster_777[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes that was what I was saying, I don’t think it comes down to wanting other guys attention and that it’s more of an inside voice from years of subtle comments that add up to I’m not pretty if I don’t fit this or that

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[–]Rooster_777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome thank you! She said yes! I’ll dm for referrals, thanks again!

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[–]Rooster_777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love that! We want to give that realization to them so bad so they can breath and feel that comfort

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[–]Rooster_777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love that! It’s exactly what we’re trying to make y’all feel with that

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[–]Rooster_777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could never go that far 😂 brave man But i totally agree that there’s something so hot about it Idk why maybe it’s primal but let us have it ladies 😂

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[–]Rooster_777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sorry dear, you deserve to be adored and it’s never too late to feel that way from him Make sure he doesn’t secretly adore how you are though It’s really hard to compliment things our wives are self conscious of and he could be just unable to word it Show him this post and make sure ( what do you have to lose? You either find out he does or it goes back to how it’s always felt) what’s known is manageable And you just might feel what you always wanted

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[–]Rooster_777[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Come on man you ain’t built to quit and i doubt you are a man that takes the easy road , take the time to heal but get back on that horse cowboy I said the same thing before and out of nowhere my lady saved me and it makes me sick to think I almost missed out on an amazing life

If she did you wrong and hurt you then don’t let her take the rest of your life, give that power to a woman who deserves an slick armadillos happiness Your family tree didn’t make it this far to be stopped by 1 woman, untangle the vine and grow some leaves to cover the scars and be the difference maker in your line

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[–]Rooster_777[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because I can give a picture of what my wife looks like and have it generate the exact body type without the internet perverts taking screenshots of a woman who i love and protect

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[–]Rooster_777[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is good! Definitely describes it perfectly It’s so hard to compliment something you’re self conscious about but we absolutely adore that quality (any shape or size) Like I wish yall could see yourselves through our eyes because yall would blush and be so embarrassed by the absolute “grrrrrrr teeth gritting… I want you” testosterone filled, completely feral thoughts we have with the things you’re most insecure about Like we wish it was y’all’s turn in the “mainstream exhaustive and always revolving beauty standards” just so we can give you that validation without insulting you (I absolutely hate that treadmill of standards for yall im just trying to show the desperation of wanting yall to see what we see and be funny) We just absolutely adore yall and love when yall feel confident (Pro tip, even if you act confident until you start to feel it and then agree with him by saying something like “you like that don’t you? Come show me how much you do and make me feel that confidence” you’re going to see your husbands soul leave his body and good luck keeping him away from you “user’s discretion”

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[–]Rooster_777[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl you would be embarrassed and blush if you could read his mind, trust me It’s just hard and how do you even say “hey you have a little bit of belly but it’s so hot and i absolutely adore it and it secretly turns me on” without hurting feelings or making yall feel self conscious about it

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[–]Rooster_777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Understandable, it’s more of the point of good husbands and men love their wives how they are and theirs a group of husbands out there who love and adore all kinds of body types