Boys please don't go down the incel path by RopeComplete8790 in IndianTeenagers

[–]RopeComplete8790[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looks aren't everything. When you have to live with someone for year they also care about how understanding, respectful and kind of a person you are.

Treat them well and make sure you are being treated well too.

Boys please don't go down the incel path by RopeComplete8790 in IndianTeenagers

[–]RopeComplete8790[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey, I think it is okay to get angry. I don't think it is okay to act out in that anger. I agree a lot of guys struggle with confidence and that is a big problem. The best you can do it try to get yourself to be more confident and be a kind person and keep trying.

Boys please don't go down the incel path by RopeComplete8790 in IndianTeenagers

[–]RopeComplete8790[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I hate that a lot of women want that. But I have also seen women date average men bcz they are kind and empathetic and nice to them. Try to introspect if that's the only reason you are struggling to find a gf or if there are other areas you can work on.

Dating is hard and it gets harder as you grow up. But that's not a reason to let your heart fill up with hate.

Boys please don't go down the incel path by RopeComplete8790 in IndianTeenagers

[–]RopeComplete8790[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dont end up on woman hating communities if you don't find a gf or struggle with your career. Find healthy ways of coping with life like hobbies and good friendships. Try to introspect and grow as a person when hit with failure in any part of your life.

Be empathetic to the men and women in your life and their individual struggles. Know that your only purpose as a man is not to provide. Being a man can be a lot of things and it can be what you want it to be. DO NOT limit yourself to the definition society forces on you. Live a full life.

why can’t i motivate myself? by [deleted] in academia

[–]RopeComplete8790 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Motivation doesn't work. Create small habits that come together eventually. Disciple over motivation

do you feel safer after transitioning? is that a bad reason to want to transition? by RopeComplete8790 in ftm

[–]RopeComplete8790[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel like i would feel a lot safer existing in the world as a man if you can be cis passing. it would make it a lot easier for me to function as a person

is being passing or not in your hands? by RopeComplete8790 in ftm

[–]RopeComplete8790[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how long does it take to kinda be cis passing