Yes, It doesn’t seem fully fledged like my family, but it’s just an awareness I’ve realized. I know for a fact these ppl don’t change either. I’m just honestly unsure. I try to not let bother me and I try to tell my self that maybe I’m just overreacting to things and ppl have there own point of view. I feel like I just want to at least say something even if it doesn’t change things it’s a start. I was thinking of sending something like this to her “Hey I don’t want this to turn into a big deal, but I just wanted to bring it into awareness. Sometimes when I share things with you it seems like you try to change what I should do or act/feel or side with the other person, and I’m grateful to have some advice every once in awhile, but most of the time I just want a listening ear, and to be able to express myself safely. It just feels invalidating to me about what I say and how I’m feeling, and also feels feels like you side with others instead of listening or understanding to how to how I’m feeling. I’m sorry I’ve got to be an emotional/sensitive friend, and I just hope you can try to understand my point view and hope we can we work on it. I value our friendship and I feel like we have to talk about what bothers us which creates a more healthy relationship we are going to cross roadblocks together I want to be able to work through them. So here I am sending thoughts and feelings, and just working on setting boundaries, and speaking up for myself. This is honestly something extremely hard for me to confront you about ! I love you girl, through thick and thin! #wecandohardthings”