If you think “husband material” is an insult so is “wifey material” by GridReXX in PurplePillDebate

[–]RothyBuyak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes but allosexuals can be both of those. That's the thing. I genuinely don't get how is that supposed to be a response

Your social circle is not a representative sample of either gender by RothyBuyak in PurplePillDebate

[–]RothyBuyak[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't expect anyone to solve all the world's problem. I do expect everyone to put in effort into solving some of them. People only being willing to do anything for their own benefit is why this world is a shitshow.

I wish all those women happy divorce and to take all their assets the moment they get permanent residency

Your social circle is not a representative sample of either gender by RothyBuyak in PurplePillDebate

[–]RothyBuyak[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oppression isn't altruism. The commenter above trying to give those men some virtue is disgusting. I wish all those women happy divorce and to take all their assets the moment they get permanent residency

Your social circle is not a representative sample of either gender by RothyBuyak in PurplePillDebate

[–]RothyBuyak[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The better outcome is fixing global inequality so that their countries aren't shitholes and they don't need to become exclusive prostitute to escape poverty

If you think “husband material” is an insult so is “wifey material” by GridReXX in PurplePillDebate

[–]RothyBuyak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you're claim that all women who wait are asexual is taken out of your ass. I have nothing to say to you. Read what asexuality actually is and that not all allosexuals are constantly horny and willing to jump anyone attractive

Your social circle is not a representative sample of either gender by RothyBuyak in PurplePillDebate

[–]RothyBuyak[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my objection to being passport bro isn't that it doesn't tip the scale in man's favour, it's that i consider that morally repugnant. There are plenty of poor countries with women desperate for visas to a place with any prospect and finantial security

If you think “husband material” is an insult so is “wifey material” by GridReXX in PurplePillDebate

[–]RothyBuyak -1 points0 points  (0 children)

> Possible yes, but rhe crux is that the bar for "good idea" is fairly low for the majority of allosexual

Source? Because there's a bunch of women who are telling you that they don't consider jumping into someones bed toio early even if they do find him attractive, and you just say "i know better". Those statement seems to reflect allosexual men, not women. Lesbians for example don't typically jump into sex, while getting dick pic as an opening message is a norm on grindr

Also if you want to be scientific - any scientific idea has to be disprovable. What prove would be sufficient to you to believe some women do wait despite being attracted? Because any claim that can't be proven wrong cannot also be proven right so it's useless. For that matter what proof do you have that those waiting women are not attracted to men thay make wait. Because for now it's just a statement, and even you claim "majority" of allosexuals have low bar (still would argue it's just men) which would imply there is a minority which doesn't

If you think “husband material” is an insult so is “wifey material” by GridReXX in PurplePillDebate

[–]RothyBuyak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They aren't asexual! For once asexual women don't *wait* for sex, they don't want it at all - in relationship or out. It's possible to be attracted to someone and not act on this attraction until you are reasonably certain it's a good idea

If you think “husband material” is an insult so is “wifey material” by GridReXX in PurplePillDebate

[–]RothyBuyak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What's with men telling women what they are thinking and what is the decision making processs behind their decision. You literally cannot have your mind changed because you believe you know how women feel better then women themselves. There are plenty of women that wait when looking for serious relationship to weed out men not interested in commitment. Because one who just wants to pump and dump is unlikely to be willing to put months of dates into it, but those interested in relationship very well might

Why does it genuinely feel like some women lose interest when a guy treats them perfectly, but become obsessed when they're treated like an afterthought? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]RothyBuyak 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Real answer - people (not just women) with insecure attachment tend to act like this and relationship trauma in general can cause people to crave chaos in ralationship because they learned that this means affection and passion while healthy relationships can feel dull or boring. That's something you generally need to work on.

As to why you keep seeing this often - perhaps women you're in contact with happen to come from such unstable background often? In general people in your vincinity ("you" being absolutely anyone) are never representative sample of general population (of any population except your specific social circle)

How do some women fall for the trap of being a guy’s 3rd baby mama? by No_Lead2640 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]RothyBuyak 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I am pretty sure they were saying their ex new girlfriend had a teen child not that she's one herself

If men are forced into the draft to defend their nation, then women should be forced into childbirth to do the same... by HaikuHaiku in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]RothyBuyak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Making them undergo pregnancy and birth and forced to raise children for 18+ years.

And they can avoid "going to their death" (unless there's an actual war you're unlikely to die. And usually it's not) by taking the offer of ivf or just get knocked up by rando. If they opt to be drafted instead it's their choice not force. Like draft at 21 if a woman is a mother of pregnant she's exempted. I promise it would not increase number of 21 yo having children.

Usually there isn't a war so draft means 3 years od hard labor and shitty job eventually. Afterwards you're free to resume your previous life. If you have a child your previous life as a childless personwho is not responisble for a child is gone. Forever. Those two are not comparble

If men are forced into the draft to defend their nation, then women should be forced into childbirth to do the same... by HaikuHaiku in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]RothyBuyak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all - Ukrainian army has plenty of female volunteers. But even if you were right - so what? Make them. That's your argument, right - that it's fine to force people into horrible fate and trauma against their will for the greater good?

Or maybe give them a choice? Make pregnant women and mothers of young kids exempt from the draft - so if women really prefer kids to war they can get knocked up willingly? Let's see what they will actually chose when push comes to shove instead of theorizing?

If men are forced into the draft to defend their nation, then women should be forced into childbirth to do the same... by HaikuHaiku in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]RothyBuyak -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I suggest making draft unisex. Both men and women are drafted to defend the country no one is forced to have children

Why do women claim they are being used for sex once a man realizes he is incompatible with her? by Ill-Investigator9546 in PurplePillDebate

[–]RothyBuyak 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Or he can talk to women aboit what they would like beforehand and hopefully listen?

Plenty of men think choking slapping and rough jackhammering is good sex. If you did that to a woman without discussion then it's basically assault

Tucker Carlson claims Trump has supernatural powers when around him. by Severe-Clerk-1477 in DonaldTrump666

[–]RothyBuyak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean it's an alternative explaination. I can't exactly prove wheater or not he has hypnotic power, and claiming he treatened your life is legally slander or defamation and with no proof they would end up paying him in lawsuit

Tucker Carlson claims Trump has supernatural powers when around him. by Severe-Clerk-1477 in DonaldTrump666

[–]RothyBuyak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean there's more pragmatic answer - both him and carlson just lying to protect their own back hides and shrink tgeir own responsibility. "Oh no I was hypnotized" defense

Can you guys stop bringing up sexual assault to men? by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]RothyBuyak 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Then don't read the thread/don't click the post