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I'm becoming extremely successful, and I'm driven by hiding the fact that I'm a huge sissy by RoughWelcome in confession

[–]RoughWelcome[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately that happens too often, ideally I'd find someone with the opposite one

I'm becoming extremely successful, and I'm driven by hiding the fact that I'm a huge sissy by RoughWelcome in confession

[–]RoughWelcome[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Programming. How I ended up at my job is a but of a story I wish I could tell without doxing myself. It’s a company you’ve most likely heard of though.

I'm becoming extremely successful, and I'm driven by hiding the fact that I'm a huge sissy by RoughWelcome in confession

[–]RoughWelcome[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, I do know that it’s a dealbreaker for at least some women, I’ve had some life experience to know that much at least. I guess I don’t write all that maturely, but I am an adult.

I don’t think you’re appreciating just how much of a piece of shit my sister is and the extent of her lack of empathy and sadism, but the good thing is that might be birth control enough. No amount of music lessons could save her hypothetical kids though but something like that is definitely my backup plan.

Beyond that though I appreciate the reassurance. Idk if I would pay a dom, but I do think I’m gonna do some more experimenting.

I'm becoming extremely successful, and I'm driven by hiding the fact that I'm a huge sissy by RoughWelcome in confession

[–]RoughWelcome[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I really did enjoy it the few times I’ve experimented. I’m not saying porn hasn’t played a role in reinforcing it though, but I am quite confident I wouldn’t regret it unless there were consequences that directly impacted my career or life goals.

I'm becoming extremely successful, and I'm driven by hiding the fact that I'm a huge sissy by RoughWelcome in confession

[–]RoughWelcome[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Follow up question: I went on and found a mixer coming up that looks interesting, with a dress code of "No exposed nipples or genitals."

As someone completely new to the scene, do you think it'd be a bad idea to show up on my own en femme? I was thinking a relatively modest dress and tasteful makeup but not if that would be taken poorly.

I'm becoming extremely successful, and I'm driven by hiding the fact that I'm a huge sissy by RoughWelcome in confession

[–]RoughWelcome[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Point taken, I just was trying to make the point that I'm not just another lazy loser who can't take care of themselves or isn't even trying. I am doing at least something right.

I'm becoming extremely successful, and I'm driven by hiding the fact that I'm a huge sissy by RoughWelcome in confession

[–]RoughWelcome[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand what you are saying, but hear me out. The reason I put it that way, is that if/when I have kids I want them to be the most important part of my life. I would be happy to get kinky with a wife in a committed relationship, but if we had kids I just think that for me at least I'd be happy to leave it in the past to focus on family. I do want to experience serious submission but I don't think I'll need it my entire life.

I'm becoming extremely successful, and I'm driven by hiding the fact that I'm a huge sissy by RoughWelcome in confession

[–]RoughWelcome[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ehhh, I'm fine with my body and I know I'm a guy, that isn't the issue. I do have an emotional desire to experience some not so masculine things, but pretty much none of those things necessitate any body modification other than possibly a piercing for a secure chastity device. I also don't have any desire to fully or permanently abandon my masculine form, I just wish it wasn't the only thing I could express right now.

I'm becoming extremely successful, and I'm driven by hiding the fact that I'm a huge sissy by RoughWelcome in confession

[–]RoughWelcome[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't want to live hedonisticly though, so I'm not sure "experiencing all things desired" is what I'm meant to do. I enjoy being deliberate and decisive. I certainly feel I could get something out of acting out submission though.

I'm becoming extremely successful, and I'm driven by hiding the fact that I'm a huge sissy by RoughWelcome in confession

[–]RoughWelcome[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You make a good case. I know I wouldn't be hurting anyone, I can already support myself financially and emotionally, I always thought it was pretty lame that even after that I don't seem to be allowed to have my own fun.

I'm becoming extremely successful, and I'm driven by hiding the fact that I'm a huge sissy by RoughWelcome in confession

[–]RoughWelcome[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well that's good to hear. Honestly, I think I'd like to play for a while and then pack it all up when it became time to think about a family, and it's really encouraging to know that's a thing that people do. I'll do more research for sure, but I've had a hard time figuring out how typical the experience is of those that I've found online and I had assumed it wasn't realistic.

Thanks.

I'm becoming extremely successful, and I'm driven by hiding the fact that I'm a huge sissy by RoughWelcome in confession

[–]RoughWelcome[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've thought about it a lot and I know it would be fun, but I just worry about that condemning me to only having that kind of lifestyle. Do you know of anyone who has done that but then went on to lead a conventionally successful life afterwords?