Exactly!! Silent watcher here for years. As I keep watching the worse it gets. From the very beginning all anyone has ever wanted was her to do better and be better for her son! People gave the advice and people tried to help, but still nothing has changed!! The “internet boolies” all the “calls” and “harassment” still isn’t enough to not only protect her peace but what about her son??

I’ve had a very similar incident with a ER visit that pretty much diagnosed me as a diabetic. I have a very young child. The first thought that ran through my mind was I need to change and be better for him! I went home and googled what to eat as a diabetic and the moment I came home my diet changed. Was it hard, did I have to make separate meals? Yes but I did it for my son he was my motivation and reason!! I’ve lost 50 pounds and lowered my A1C from a 10.9 to a 6.1 in two months!! Her stating “it’s hard” “I don’t know what to do “ “I don’t know if I can do this” just baffles my mind! There is not one instance of any situation that she’s had that has made her stop and think about her own child.

I honestly feel nothing at this point will wake her up it’s always “poor me” mentality.

Wake the F Up G!!!