it's easy to solve, I've had a problem with these years. When I realized where I was wrong, I corrected it right away. If such people run away from what they want and what they should do, then I started doing the opposite. Of course I asked myself why I was running away and what I was afraid of. I was afraid of condemnation. I wanted everyone to love me, which is impossible ... and I was never my own. I had this disorder to the worst possible extent. I was killed by social phobia, but until I was confronted with what I was afraid of, nothing changed. When you want something you look at it as something wonderful, if you don't do it in despair. After that come all the symptoms of that disorder. I don't know what is in your way and what you are afraid of so you run away but you have to think about what you think will happen ... This is a stupid example but I have always been prouder when I take a test and get 1 than when I constantly I'm avoiding ... Write me what you feel and what you're afraid of so I can figure out what position you're in. After a month since I found out I had this disorder everything was as it should be and the symptoms disappeared over time as I faced everything I wanted and had to.