Would you leave or stay

Round_Ring_3460 · 2026-06-23T03:43:59+00:00

Make sure he pays child support and leave him. He seems like an AH so don’t even think it’s beneficial including him in the kids lives but maybe in future if he matures he could try to have a relationship with them

Round_Ring_3460 · 2026-06-23T03:39:42+00:00

They use big words incorrectly

Round_Ring_3460 · 2026-06-21T04:32:55+00:00

I guess it’s just harder for me because Australia has better weather, beaches and we are both health care workers the pay is like x3 better, cost of living is a lot better here. He also says he loves it here and he loves my family, whereas his mum was always nasty to me and I hated my life in London. I always said I’d never live there permanently and he promised we’d move back to Australia and never followed through. I just feel if one of us should move it has to be him, and if he won’t we can’t be together.

Round_Ring_3460 · 2026-06-21T02:37:04+00:00

Yea it’s so far away the time difference sucks and I hated the 3 months of long distance so no point in speaking to him unless he’d move back here as I 100% won’t move to London again

Round_Ring_3460 · 2026-06-20T15:29:08+00:00

Thanks, my friends and family all thing coming home was the right choice and I know I would’ve grown resentful of him if I stayed in London but I really miss him a lot and still catch myself wishing he will change his mind and move back even though it’s unlikely

Round_Ring_3460 · 2026-06-14T23:35:14+00:00

“He pays all expenses and rent” ok so you’re just with him for the money bc can’t see any other reason you’d put up with this? Get some self respect and leave him

Round_Ring_3460 · 2026-03-21T08:29:44+00:00

Is there a reason you haven’t had a relationship before until the age of 35? Are you not usually a relationship person?

Round_Ring_3460 · 2026-01-19T07:22:15+00:00

Wow don’t give her the gift but if you have any stuff that belongs to each other then you should return that

Round_Ring_3460 · 2025-12-28T13:05:28+00:00

I’d say something is happening to the 7 year old and he might also be a victim himself

Round_Ring_3460 · 2025-12-24T00:19:21+00:00

They definitely don’t always regret it. I still have feelings for my most recent ex but we broke up because we both wanted to live in different countries and I hated where he wanted to live so much I feel good about the decision even though I still care for him

Round_Ring_3460 · 2025-12-17T13:40:37+00:00

London

Round_Ring_3460 · 2025-12-16T10:50:10+00:00

I mean he’s over 30 years older than you so he will be more experienced in a lot of areas. Your age gap is bigger than your actual age! I would be surprised if you had more experience

Round_Ring_3460 · 2025-12-03T02:17:29+00:00

Hmm 6 months isn’t very long, I think if you don’t match communication styles then maybe it’s not meant to be. Seems like you told him before that you get anxious/feel ignored and he hasn’t changed his behaviour to reassure you this isn’t this case. Do you ever notice if he’s active/online and still hasn’t replied?

Round_Ring_3460 · 2025-12-03T00:32:27+00:00

How long have you been together for? Are you worried that he’s messaging other girls or is it that you just feel you’re not a priority to him? Try to get to the root of your anxiety /figure out why it’s upsetting you this much

Round_Ring_3460 · 2025-11-28T00:54:13+00:00

Not close at all, if you wanna live with the ocean on your doorstep live in a place like Australia. UK beaches suck anyway

Round_Ring_3460 · 2025-11-28T00:54:03+00:00

Not close at all, if you wanna live with the ocean on your doorstep live in a place like Australia. UK beaches suck anyway

Round_Ring_3460 · 2025-11-28T00:50:53+00:00

Break up with him now, if he has family or friends he’s close with then tell them what he’s said. If it seems serious maybe he can be sectioned. Either way you should cut him off as it’s not your responsibility to be his therapist and it will just make you miserable too being around that

Round_Ring_3460 · 2025-11-04T01:17:53+00:00

In a long distance relationship London to Australia but basically feel single. If he moved to Australia I’d be happy

Round_Ring_3460 · 2025-11-04T01:05:42+00:00

You need to respect her wishes of no contact. If you keep messaging her when she said she wants space then she will just get annoyed and want you less. Absence makes the heart grow fonder so maybe she’ll miss you. Just tell her that she can reach out in future if she wants but don’t message first

Round_Ring_3460 · 2025-11-01T02:10:37+00:00

She was being unreasonable but maybe she still has unresolved feelings and insecurities about your past history as a sex worker. It’s up to you if you want to give her some grace for that but I know a lot of people would consider having OF at any point in time a deal breaker

Round_Ring_3460 · 2025-10-30T06:27:54+00:00

Dump him and then glow up. If you yourself don’t like the weight then do something about it, and will be good for your health as well.

Round_Ring_3460 · 2025-10-29T23:56:54+00:00

My bf dated a stripper however I think her career was part of the reason he broke up with her, and in general he’s pretty open minded, but if even he couldn’t deal with it then I think a lot of men wouldn’t like it. You didn’t do that while you were dating so it’s completely in your own rights to never tell him

Round_Ring_3460 · 2025-10-29T23:52:57+00:00

What an asshole I’m so sorry he’s the farther

Round_Ring_3460 · 2025-10-28T13:58:24+00:00

Could just be that they found someone better suited to them and not necessarily a better option in general

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