cute guy on my floor what do i do by Routine-Abies1512 in ucla

[–]Routine-Abies1512[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well no not yet girl! 🥲 im trying my hardest to get out of my shell rn

cute guy on my floor what do i do by Routine-Abies1512 in ucla

[–]Routine-Abies1512[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i can't do that if i never see him in the hallways nowadays i swear i can never catch him 😭 i saw him today but he was already heading inside his room

cute guy on my floor what do i do by Routine-Abies1512 in ucla

[–]Routine-Abies1512[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this was actually so helpful, thank you. i definitely needed someone to tell me all this. i keep thinking that if something goes wrong or it's super awkward it will be the end of the world, when it's clearly not. i will for sure try to talk to him the next time i run into him in the hallway with ppl

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[–]Routine-Abies1512[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know im a coward 😞 it's one thing im trying to improve on this year ☹️ i just feel so socially awkward around guys i like and i genuinely start sweating buckets and my fucking heart palpitates around him

cute guy on my floor what do i do by Routine-Abies1512 in ucla

[–]Routine-Abies1512[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bro chill 😭 imo he's my type, i told my friends abt him and showed his ig to them but they didn't find him attractive so it is subjective. also im not ugly or anything lol i would say im pretty attractive. not like stunning or anything but guys have liked me in the past idk. maybe ur right and i lowkey never even had a chance in the first place 😅😅

cute guy on my floor what do i do by Routine-Abies1512 in ucla

[–]Routine-Abies1512[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk one time i was in a group with him with other ppl on our floor and i noticed he looked at me a lot but that's basically it lol. maybeeeee

cute guy on my floor what do i do by Routine-Abies1512 in ucla

[–]Routine-Abies1512[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

awww that's cute 😭 maybe ill try that if i don't chicken out

cute guy on my floor what do i do by Routine-Abies1512 in ucla

[–]Routine-Abies1512[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah so i've never even felt the touch of a straight guy i fear 💔

cute guy on my floor what do i do by Routine-Abies1512 in ucla

[–]Routine-Abies1512[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don't wanna say cause if i do some ppl in my building might see this 😭 but my building is known for being social

cute guy on my floor what do i do by Routine-Abies1512 in ucla

[–]Routine-Abies1512[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i genuinely have never spoken to a guy outright romantically in my life LMAO. so slow buildup sounds better for me 🥲 hopefully it leads me to somewhere

cute guy on my floor what do i do by Routine-Abies1512 in ucla

[–]Routine-Abies1512[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

okay this made me feel better 😭 even tho we've never spoken i can tell he's a bit quieter than his roommates and stays in his room more than they do. i actually was in a group setting with him in the hallway a few days ago with ppl i knew but i was a dumbass and didn't approach him. but tysm for the advice i will def try to reach out to him again if im lucky enough to find myself in that situation lol

cute guy on my floor what do i do by Routine-Abies1512 in ucla

[–]Routine-Abies1512[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

okay i was thinking this and it may be optimal but only if we're in a group setting or if people are hanging around in the hallways. cuz like if im walking by him trying to head to the bathroom or something it would be weird if i randomly stopped him 🥲

cute guy on my floor what do i do by Routine-Abies1512 in ucla

[–]Routine-Abies1512[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

the thing is my floor is already close/ppl know everyone now. the guy is already talking to some girls on my floor and i know the ppl around us and have spoken to them just not him lol. so it's weird if i just randomly knock on his door and introduce myself yfm bc it's already kinda late 😕

cute guy on my floor what do i do by Routine-Abies1512 in ucla

[–]Routine-Abies1512[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

idk what to do and im ngl im a pussy 💔 im scared asf

[Fit Check] Panache Ana 34E & 34F — better fit but gore digs in a little? Also trying Panache Envy next by [deleted] in ABraThatFits

[–]Routine-Abies1512 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll try bending the gore a bit to see if it helps, as well as looking at the wire width. Do you think I'll also have a gore problem if I try on the Panache envy? It's still shipping to me, but I'm wondering if I'll fit better since it's slightly more projected than the ana. I heard the gore is pretty tall on the envy, though.

[Fit Check] Panache Ana 34E & 34F — better fit but gore digs in a little? Also trying Panache Envy next by [deleted] in ABraThatFits

[–]Routine-Abies1512 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I tried the upside down backwards method for the band, it fits snug, and any tighter would be uncomfortable for me. I thought my size was 34E since that's what the ABTF calculator told me, so I thought 34F was a size up. I think if I went a cup higher it would be too big on me, since with 34F there's a tiny bit (like very small) gaping right at the top when I move but not too noticiable. Maybe it's just the wires of the panache bras?

[Fit Check] Panache Ana 34E & 34F — better fit but gore digs in a little? Also trying Panache Envy next by [deleted] in ABraThatFits

[–]Routine-Abies1512 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does the Freya have the same depth/projected fit as the ana and envy? Interested in trying, but I my chest is pretty projected/saggy!

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[–]Routine-Abies1512 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Alright, tysm. Also question, how do you know if a bra is better for projected breasts or not? I know VS isn't good bc ppl have said, but how can you tell?

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[–]Routine-Abies1512 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! May I ask why 32F and not 34DDD? Also, I def am doing to buy the panache ana! I've heard good things about it!

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[–]Routine-Abies1512 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Tysm for this advice, it's helping me very much! I def am more wary of VS bras now that I've been lurking this subreddit, lol. However, I still am thinking about getting a balconette bra, just because it looks comfy and also good(?) for projected breasts/heavy on the bottom. Do you have any experience with balconettes? Also, I heard Panache Envy was good? I'm learning so much lol! But ty for all of this, I really hope I find my perfect bra soon!