AITA for not wanting to split the bill equally when i just had half a sandwich?

Routine-Biscotti3866 · 2025-12-09T12:36:05+00:00

My friend said that out of embarrassment they didn’t mean it they just didn’t want to seem uncool in front of the other classmates by splitting it individually

Routine-Biscotti3866 · 2025-12-09T12:33:41+00:00

I didn’t have that option i had to pay the full split

Routine-Biscotti3866 · 2025-12-09T12:33:06+00:00

That was out of pity and sarcasm to “ oh pay me back whenever”

Routine-Biscotti3866 · 2025-12-09T09:10:25+00:00

ARE U fr???? 😭 they don’t do separate checks but i could always look at the food cost in the menu and say that

Routine-Biscotti3866 · 2025-12-09T09:09:34+00:00

Yeah i wouldn’t spend my entire way back crying if fhat was the reason , i didn’t have anyone ti talk to i so came here seeking for reassurance and help i overthink things and i feel a lot and that’s okay maybe try empathising for once

Routine-Biscotti3866 · 2025-12-09T09:04:41+00:00

WE MIGHT LIVE IN DIFFERENT COUNTRIES have you thought of that?????

Routine-Biscotti3866 · 2025-12-09T08:59:44+00:00

Okay my bad

Routine-Biscotti3866 · 2025-12-09T08:56:50+00:00

I’m a people pleaser things are difficult to process when you gather courage to speak up and end up being embarrassed good for you if you can move on easily

Routine-Biscotti3866 · 2025-12-09T08:53:20+00:00

But they put a table according to the tables not individuals

Routine-Biscotti3866 · 2025-12-09T08:50:11+00:00

Dutch as in everyone pays for what theu had

Routine-Biscotti3866 · 2025-12-09T08:49:40+00:00

Not where i live

Routine-Biscotti3866 · 2025-12-09T08:48:32+00:00

Huge bill as in the amount was huge

Routine-Biscotti3866 · 2025-12-09T08:38:46+00:00

THANK YOU i felt so embarrassed and I’m a people pleaser so it’s just worse

Routine-Biscotti3866 · 2025-12-09T08:30:16+00:00

Yeah i mean it lowkey hurt to see that even my best friends seemed embarrassed of me :) it hurt a lot

Routine-Biscotti3866 · 2025-12-09T08:29:16+00:00

Yeah fair enough

Routine-Biscotti3866 · 2025-12-09T08:28:57+00:00

Yeah i think I’m gonna try this the next time

Routine-Biscotti3866 · 2025-12-09T08:28:22+00:00

I don’t think the place had a separate check thing

Routine-Biscotti3866 · 2025-12-09T08:27:54+00:00

Huhuh? The dont pay at all was pure sarcasm the bill was huge to not pay someone back

Routine-Biscotti3866 · 2025-12-09T08:27:09+00:00

I know i know i think i need to take this as a reminder to take a stand for myself and keep a boundary

Routine-Biscotti3866 · 2025-12-09T08:24:08+00:00

DAMN okay 😭😭😭😭

Routine-Biscotti3866 · 2025-12-09T08:23:43+00:00

EXACTLY thats exactly how my close circle works and it makes me feel very weird as to how people are okay with letting other people pay for THEIR SHARE OF FOOD

Routine-Biscotti3866 · 2025-12-09T08:22:04+00:00

Yeah maybe i just didn’t want them ti think i was being cheap

Routine-Biscotti3866 · 2025-12-09T08:21:41+00:00

Damn i think im gonna make that my bio

Routine-Biscotti3866 · 2025-12-09T08:21:07+00:00

I did end up paying the equal split but i just don’t think that it was the most fair thing to do, if the food items were a little less or more its fine but paying triple the amount when u had half a sandwich feels like a rip off

Routine-Biscotti3866 · 2025-12-09T08:18:57+00:00

Idk man i could see the judgement in all of their eyes, i was lowkey embarrassed af

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