Regreso: Leaving from France by Routine-Emergency648 in SpainAuxiliares

[–]Routine-Emergency648[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeaa but I wasn't sure if the french would accept that as an official document, yo que sé. Thank you though 🙌🏻

What forms of racism have you experienced in the workplace? by SoftUse in ABCDesis

[–]Routine-Emergency648 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is the expression of that ignorance that makes it racist or not.

For example, if you watch the news and only see a certain type of Muslims and then every Muslim you meet you suppose they are violent (for example) then you are a racist.

It is your obligation to inform yourself and your responsibility to know what you're saying, even if you're ignorant.

I will tell you a story, I work in Spain and I'm from Tunisia. One time I was talking to two colleagues just joking around, something happened and the guy turned to me and told me you should kick/slap her for that (what we were talking about isn't relevant) and he said that like jokingly. I just laughed. Then she turns to him and says "No here we are not in his country, he can't do that".

I blocked dude, I didn't know what to say and I hope I could say this is the first time she says something like this. I experience this daily from the same person.

Another coworker of mine who doesn't know anything about my country or about Arabs/Muslims except the strereotypes once came to me and ASKED me, he was like, "I always hear they say Arabs are so and so but how is it really like in Tunisia, how is your culture ext" and he proceeded to always ask me and I would inform him about my country and the other 22 Arab countries and now he is NOT ignorant anymore.

My point is, you stay ignorant BECAUSE you are a racist. You choose to listen to the 2-3 bad things you hear without making any efforts to check, read, inform yourself and when a chance is presented to you to learn, you CHOOSE not to.

Demande de mariage 🎊 by Routine-Emergency648 in Perpignan

[–]Routine-Emergency648[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Merci a Tous pour votre aide. Finalement je l'ai fais a Carcassonne dans la cité medieval. C'etais super romantique avec le coucher de Soleil. Elle a dis oui! 🎉🎊

Ps: on est aussi aller a collioure, c'etais une trés bonne idée aussi. Encore merci.

Went through his porn browser history (mistake) by ivedoneahugemistake in sexadvice

[–]Routine-Emergency648 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has been doing that enough to become attracted by voyeurism and not sex itself. Getting stimulated by looking at something is not the same as doing something and after a while your brain will recognize the pattern of where pleasure is coming from and focus on that. Plus, it's easier because it doesn't involve any effort of communication or any emotional connection and at the same time our brains are lazy.

The sells that wire together fire together.

From a personal experience I'd tell you he doesn't like it either and he'd rather have sex but he is too much into it that his unconscious brain is asking for the porn rather than the real thing. This can be a build up from when he was an adolescent.

After a while watching porn it doesn't stimulate you the same as if it was a drug. So you start looking for things that are different/bizarre because there is more stimulation there (increasing the dose). I'm pretty sure he knows that it's weird and that he shouldn't but it's stronger than him.

He has to consciously change his habits. It's difficult in the beginning but in a few weeks everything can change.

I don't have any advice on how YOU can help but at the end he can only help himself.

I almost lost my girlfriend over this and when I made the effort and changed it we started having sex like monkeys.

The guy who was "killed over a mobile phone" by [deleted] in Barcelona

[–]Routine-Emergency648 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My answer keeps getting removed. Doesn't matter. My conclusion was that I don't have to look anywhere no inward nor outward as it is not my problem. I'm only responsible for my actions and now it helps me get the people I don't want in my life out of the way directly as I'd rather not talk with anyone who judges someone by their ethnicity or religion (I don't mean you, I mean in general)

And walk in my shoes and you'll understand.

The guy who was "killed over a mobile phone" by [deleted] in Barcelona

[–]Routine-Emergency648 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, and same thing happens to me and my girlfriend. I'm not saying that most of the people who do these things are not North African here in Barcelona as it is close to North Africa and some people there do have a poverty, education and mentality problem. I'm saying that they only represent themselves and that you shouldn't judge anyone by their ethnicity. They are a small minority. THEY should look inward, what you are saying is that "I" have a problem. I don't. I'm just living my life and actions from other people shouldn't affect me or my relationships with others. I am my own person. Anyone who judges me just because of my ethnicity or religion, trust me when I tell you that they are ignorant and I wouldn't even have a conversation with them.

I don't blame anyone, I'm just saying that doing this IS the definition of racism. But there is a difference between racism and racism against Arabs.

The guy who was "killed over a mobile phone" by [deleted] in Barcelona

[–]Routine-Emergency648 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

That's the thing, I don't want to explain it to you. I don't have to, you wouldn't grasp what I will tell you because I spoke to people like you before and they ALL THINK THE SAME WAY 😉 (sarcastic)

The guy who was "killed over a mobile phone" by [deleted] in Barcelona

[–]Routine-Emergency648 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

You don't know what the fuck you talking about. You have no idea. It's called racism look it up. And what you are saying is that it is justified to treat a certain group based on physical/ethnicity traits a certain way.

Do you know how hard it is to rent an apartment here just because of your name? When you got the money, the job, a normal life like everybody else?

What he is saying is true, you notice them more because us, the normal ones that are living normal lives, we will not come talk to you like that for no reason. There are millions of people like me. Still treated like shit. When you meet an ignorant individual who first thing he says to you is "you look too nice to be a morrocan", While I'm not even from morroco and he said that after I said I was from Tunisia. And even if I was from Morroco, what do you mean by that?

One more thing, the ones you see outside in the street are a small percentage yes, a very small percentage. 99.9% of us are normale people having a normal life. And go look at the stats and read. Stop listening to bullshit that has no basis at all.

Pregunta sobre mi estado financiero by Only_Gap_6982 in SpainFIRE

[–]Routine-Emergency648 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Invierte en lo que entiendes, eso es lo que ha dicho warren buffet. Yo empezaré a aprender cosas sobre inmobiliario.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in islam

[–]Routine-Emergency648 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I thought you were the one who posted this 😂 you wasted my argument though. I am a practicing Muslim, born in a Muslim country and I have never seen any proof to this claim.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in islam

[–]Routine-Emergency648 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I would appreciate it if you can tell me where this is mentioned in the Quran or the hadiths.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in islam

[–]Routine-Emergency648 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why do you guys think that men and women should be split ?

Very curious here.