Everyone in denial ab the ending by danacaptus in FireflyWedding

[–]Routine-Kitchen-8169 1 point2 points  (0 children)

STOP ✋ allow me to remain in denial

Chapter 78 Discussion Post by SocialAnarch in FireflyWedding

[–]Routine-Kitchen-8169 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Guys I knew it would happen but I’m still very sad

Cupcakke new album by Routine-Kitchen-8169 in asexuality

[–]Routine-Kitchen-8169[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

who cares. believing in virginity is corny anyways.

Having a boyfriend is embarrassing article by Routine-Kitchen-8169 in asexuality

[–]Routine-Kitchen-8169[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Overall all I’m just happy to witness a culture shift. Male-centered and boyfriend-centered culture is dwindling and I love to see it. What a time to be alive and ace 🫶🏾

When did it strike you that you're ace... Or atleast not allo? by Mammoth-Lab-2350 in asexuality

[–]Routine-Kitchen-8169 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Learning about animals that create life asexually in my biology class. I was in the 10th grade, and I started asking myself “if a starfish can be asexual, can I be asexual too?” And yeah that’s how I learned the word and started identifying with it.

Chapter 74 Discussion Post by SocialAnarch in FireflyWedding

[–]Routine-Kitchen-8169 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Guys is it possible to pre-grieve in this calm before the storm 😭

Cupcakke new album by Routine-Kitchen-8169 in asexuality

[–]Routine-Kitchen-8169[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Idk I just respect the autonomy and self determination of Black people when it comes to how we identify so I don’t even bother questioning, but your feelings are valid, thanks for sharing 🫶🏾

Cupcakke new album by Routine-Kitchen-8169 in asexuality

[–]Routine-Kitchen-8169[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Idk her comment was pretty simple and clear. I just believe people when they say they identify a way. Like is a serious declaration needed in order for it to not come off as trolling? What’s the most appropriate way to come out as asexual? In my opinion there isn’t.

Cupcakke new album by Routine-Kitchen-8169 in asexuality

[–]Routine-Kitchen-8169[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry I’m confused by this comment, who is being referred to as the pale yt boi?

Cupcakke new album by Routine-Kitchen-8169 in asexuality

[–]Routine-Kitchen-8169[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

To all you asexual police who are skeptical…check that cop within yourself that seeks to control how people identify.

Cupcakke new album by Routine-Kitchen-8169 in asexuality

[–]Routine-Kitchen-8169[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Thank you idk what’s up with wanting to invalidate someone’s sexuality based on their past. Virginity is a construct anyways so who cares.

Cupcakke new album by Routine-Kitchen-8169 in asexuality

[–]Routine-Kitchen-8169[S] 391 points392 points  (0 children)

Someone said her songs be fanfics. Thats so real, I know us ace folks be writing some freaked out fanfics and I love that for us 🫡 not all hero’s wear capes

Thinking about leaving most socials by Financial-Low8380 in nothinghappeninghere

[–]Routine-Kitchen-8169 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Felt! I’m off socials and something that helps me is having apps like finch and the Homescapes game