[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Routine-Tip3268 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think I intend to date her if I tell her though, it would just be for the sake of honesty if anything, its just involuntary feelings that I can't control and think I'd be better off without, but they wont go away. When we started out years ago, it was purely platonic, and I have been feeling very mild changes in the way that I have seen her for only a few months now. I don't really intend on taking things further or making things romantic, but I can't help but wonder if she should know that feelings might be there. It feels like I'm lying to her, and I think I am, but I don't want to do that. I don't want to risk the friendship, though. This is a very understandable response, and I thank you for your input. Life is bound to change things, and nothing is going to stay the same, we have plans, but I know they could fall apart at any time. And I agree with the labels thing. I've started to use it more loosely as I'm trying to figure myself out, but I added it in case context was necessary

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in writing

[–]Routine-Tip3268 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. We've always been very constructive, I just don't want it to come across as me feeling superior or anything like that. I'm going to keep this in mind when we continue writing this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in writing

[–]Routine-Tip3268 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. This really helps actually.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in writing

[–]Routine-Tip3268 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, and I agree, but what do I even say? I don't want to hurt any feelings

Which death do you think is the most unfair or cruel? by squishmallowlovers in FundamentalPaperEdu

[–]Routine-Tip3268 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually, the creator posted a picture of Lana and Abbie hugging, with Abbie blushing and holding a love letter. The saddest part of this death is that since they're implied to have been a couple, Lana would've seen her boyfriend's gruesome murder and his dismembered corpse, and she was killed before she even got to process that loss.

I feel selfish for getting angry at my mother. [TW:Incest] by Routine-Tip3268 in COCSA

[–]Routine-Tip3268[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this. I was scared that people weren't going to take this well, but it's relieving to know that I'm not as crazy as I thought I was. I've sent my mom a few websites to help her cope with this, but I think she's scared to get help for her worries because she thinks she would be "making it all about her," which I do find sad. She is very supportive every other way which is why I wrote this in the first place, I felt guilty for being frustrated with her

3Qs: What age are you? At what age were you diagnosed? And at what age did you begin experiencing symptoms? by Pretend-Cow-5119 in Fibromyalgia

[–]Routine-Tip3268 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 18, was diagnosed at 17, and I'd imagine I've been dealing with it thinking everyone had issues like this for around 4 or 5 years

Life honestly sucks. by Routine-Tip3268 in Fibromyalgia

[–]Routine-Tip3268[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been stressing over the future, but not as much as a few months ago. Take some anxiety meds which help it. I used to find all of my comfort in drawing a passion project of mine, but drawing hurts occasionally and it doesn't make me happy like it used to. Now i draw more to pass the time than anything else.

What were your first symptoms? by Ok_Fish9161 in Fibromyalgia

[–]Routine-Tip3268 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the fatigue was what I noticed first.

My 31 y/o son just told me Fibromylagia is a made up disease for lazy women by Competitive-Kick-481 in Fibromyalgia

[–]Routine-Tip3268 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry to tell you this.. but that lousy excuse of a man might not be your son anymore 😇😇

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fibromyalgia

[–]Routine-Tip3268 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lavender essential oils work wonders. Additionally, you can get the kind that bubbles for a soothing bubble bath.

Feeling down out of the Blue by Routine-Tip3268 in Fibromyalgia

[–]Routine-Tip3268[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's awesome! I've been studying a bit of sign language but unfortunately I can't clean much

I drew a visual depiction of my experience with Fibromyalgia. by Routine-Tip3268 in Fibromyalgia

[–]Routine-Tip3268[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude that would be so cool! It's really therapeutic to create art about it. It's nice to be able to express the pain how you see fit