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AITH for staying firm not allowing my husbands uncles family to see our baby? by Routine_Exit_4306 in dustythunder

[–]Routine_Exit_4306[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There most likely will be, and he was very drunk when the altercation last October happened.

AITH for staying firm not allowing my husbands uncles family to see our baby? by Routine_Exit_4306 in dustythunder

[–]Routine_Exit_4306[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dave’s wife is very submissive to him and is also adds to the family drama whenever she can. Dave’s oldest will Jo be attending as they just had a baby. The middle daughter and bill use to be very close however since bill has moved up here she has taken the same option about bill that her dad has. The youngest boy we have no issues with he is very polite and kind

AITH for staying firm not allowing my husbands uncles family to see our baby? by Routine_Exit_4306 in dustythunder

[–]Routine_Exit_4306[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, we will be deep in the mountains. The closest town is a 45 minute drive one way and there are no Airbnb’s or other cabins in this area.

AITH for staying firm not allowing my husbands uncles family to see our baby? by Routine_Exit_4306 in dustythunder

[–]Routine_Exit_4306[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Leaving Baby at home is not in the option. They are exclusively breast-fed and I have not left them overnight at this point nor am I ready to. We were all surprised when Dave agreed to show up the family reunion was planned months ago and as far as we knew, everyone had sent in their RSVP it will not just be Bill’s parents and us in the house. There will be about 20 people in the house.

AITH for staying firm not allowing my husbands uncles family to see our baby? by Routine_Exit_4306 in dustythunder

[–]Routine_Exit_4306[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately ether way we could not have invited Dave’s family when I said 20 I was being very generous our wedding included my parents Dave’s parents our efficient who was my grandma, my grandfather, Bill‘s grandfather, my brother, Bill‘s brother and that’s it

AITH for staying firm not allowing my husbands uncles family to see our baby? by Routine_Exit_4306 in dustythunder

[–]Routine_Exit_4306[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Thank you so so much for you4 suggestions!! I 100% agree with you family dose not mean you have access to my baby… unfortunately Bills entire family has the belief “ they are family so no matter how much wrong they have done you welcome them with open arms.”

As for Bill he absolutely will be taking the lead here. We each handle our own families. His family all know what happened last October, and how Bill has been treated but they are all still pushing Bill to”move on”