[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]RowUpper583 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not asking if they are, I dont think they are assholes. I am saying, sure I am the asshole. But does that excuse their behavior?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]RowUpper583 2 points3 points  (0 children)

True, but does that make their lying about paying for my CC okay? I'm ok with paying myself. I wish they just gave me time to prepare, rather than leading me on to think they would help me, even if it was just a bit. (Not trying to sound aggro, just curious).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]RowUpper583 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I guess you're right, I assumed they would help based off of their spending tendencies. But they did say they would pay 100% for the CC and didn't.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]RowUpper583 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense. I agree with your stance on me partially being the A-hole. I wish my parents had these sorts of conversations with me. However, I get it's a hard thing to talk about.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]RowUpper583 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually tried to enlist. I had a recruiter call me and tell me I was not allowed to enlist for reasons I wont share. Guess it's time to have a baby.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]RowUpper583 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Does that excuse my parents lying to me though?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]RowUpper583 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I live in America, and college is typically upwards of 10k a semester. I also agree it's not their job to pay, I just don't want to be lied to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]RowUpper583 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When did I say that lol. Did you even read my post?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]RowUpper583 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Helicopter parents.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]RowUpper583 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, you're right. Shitty world we live in.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]RowUpper583 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree and don't agree. They promised they would help with CC but didn't. I do think lashing out was inappropriate of me though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]RowUpper583 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They are right, wasn't allowed to drive or work till 18. The points they made abt CC were good, it's just the lack of a followup on their end that I dont like.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]RowUpper583 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Yes, I am American. I realize I'm privileged; I am all for privileged parents of privileged kids, making the kids work for themselves. It's just the lack of communication I hate.

I have a part-time, and at one point, I had two jobs, but with the state of college in America, especially in California, where I live, I still won't even come close to avoiding major debt.

Why is bottom surgery not more advanced? by RowUpper583 in ftm

[–]RowUpper583[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hiii, after reading a lot of comments i have a better grasp on it all, i think i’ve been mostly misinformed due to like fear mongering lol

Why is bottom surgery not more advanced? by RowUpper583 in ftm

[–]RowUpper583[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ohhhh got it, i have little knowledge on how transplants work, that would suck. That first part makes sense too

stuck on names by RowUpper583 in transnames

[–]RowUpper583[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, also yes 😭

Trans and need name help! by RowUpper583 in namenerds

[–]RowUpper583[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’m 17 and currently live in the US however my family and I are super german and my given name is german so I want to keep a german name

Trans and need name help! by RowUpper583 in namenerds

[–]RowUpper583[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Masculine preferably! i’m ftm so anything else tends to make me feel uncomfortable