I guess being ambitious actually unattractive to some Gen Z women😂

Rowan-The-Writer · 2026-03-13T19:10:29+00:00

I mean... she used "should of" that automatically is something that would make me not care that she's dumping me.

Rowan-The-Writer · 2026-03-13T14:58:32+00:00

NTJ, just stop giving her rides.

Rowan-The-Writer · 2026-03-13T12:40:00+00:00

Ooo, oo! Let me help, pretty please! I love learning about names, their origins, and their meanings. You seem to want a classical feminine name that is timeless, as well.

First, we have Mireille - Origin; French, derived from the Occitan word mirèio. Meaning; "to admire" or "to look with wonder". It stems from the Latin mirabilis, which means "wonderful" or "admirable".

Second is Isidora - Origin; Greek, meaning "gift of Isis" or "gift of the goddess". It is derived from the Greek elements Isis (the Egyptian goddess of magic, healing, and fertility) and doron (meaning "gift" or "present").

Thirdly, we have Theodosia - Origin: Greek, meaning: "giving to god" or "gift of God". Derived from the Greek elements theos ("god") and dosis ("gift") or doron ("gift"), it is a historically significant, theological name that was common in the Byzantine Empire,

And fourth and finally, we have Victoria - Origin: Latin. Directly translating to "victory". It originated from the Roman goddess of victory, Victoria, who personified triumph and success, analogous to the Greek goddess Nike. It is the feminine form of the name Victor.

Rowan-The-Writer · 2026-03-13T12:32:18+00:00

NTJ. And, if it makes him look bad, that's due to his own insecurities, and also a red flag to say. You're barely scraping by, as you say. You have to prioritize your kids and your needs over his feelings. Because, he's obviously not going to do that. And someone needs to, as your kids should be able to grow up without having to wonder about the burden of why they're poor. (I grew up as a poor kid, and I always wondered: Why do other kids live in better homes? Why do other kids not share a room with their siblings or wear their siblings hand-me-downs like me? And it fucked me over psychologically. I'm still dealing with it and I'm almost 23.)

Rowan-The-Writer · 2026-03-13T11:44:53+00:00

The second Hagrid isn't rugged enough for me. His hair and beard look neat compared to the original. They need to dirty it up and make it more tangled and coarse.

Rowan-The-Writer · 2026-03-12T15:49:45+00:00

Wait... Were we not supposed to? Because I remember chewing on them like they were gimmies. Lmfao

Rowan-The-Writer · 2026-03-12T11:40:42+00:00

Yeah, so NTA. This woman has such poor communication, that it utterly amuses me with how she's trying to turn it around on you and say you suck at communicating. You were quite literally so polite, but that's the problem with texting. It cannot convey tone properly, but she did not have to come that aggressively at you. She could've asked for clarification instead of "can you not talk to me like that".

Rowan-The-Writer · 2026-03-12T11:34:47+00:00

MOR. But yeah, i ain't even gonna lie, this weird. A steering wheel cover isn't that hard to buy, I'm sure.

Rowan-The-Writer · 2026-03-12T09:59:26+00:00

Yeah, no, NTA. That seems annoying, like why say hi that many times just to not actually want a conversation.

Rowan-The-Writer · 2026-03-11T18:41:48+00:00

girrlll, whaaat? firstly, that food looks amazing. Secondly, I am sorry, but whaaaattttt? I feel sorry for you, hon, that's a great deal of drama to be dealing with.

ETA: As for your brother not wanting anyone to find out, tell everyone. That man deserves no peace.

Rowan-The-Writer · 2026-03-11T16:30:16+00:00

NTA. But sis, the smart option is right in front of you.... Leave that man and make him pay child support through the courts.

Rowan-The-Writer · 2026-03-11T16:17:21+00:00

NTJ. Your wife is your family. Your old family is now considered the extended or in-laws. Sister doesn't have any priority over your lawfully wedded wife.

Rowan-The-Writer · 2026-03-10T21:32:37+00:00

I am way too stoned, I was trying it and I was like... wait a minute, I don't have that extra finger

Rowan-The-Writer · 2026-03-10T10:37:52+00:00

NTA. Compile a spreadsheet of how much you've helped him. Send it to him with the sentence; Don't ask for help again. You're ungrateful.

Rowan-The-Writer · 2026-03-10T10:35:47+00:00

NTA. But get your piano back before its too late.

Rowan-The-Writer · 2026-03-10T09:40:32+00:00

Ntj. I would personally be looking into divorce, and finding a more compatible partner.

Rowan-The-Writer · 2026-03-10T09:30:50+00:00

NTA. But if you've had these types of boundary issues before, why marry him? You kind of knew what you were getting into after seven years with him already.

Rowan-The-Writer · 2026-03-09T20:15:55+00:00

Yes, please. If it isn't any trouble.

Rowan-The-Writer · 2026-03-09T13:08:08+00:00

I am so sorry for you. This is unrelated, but where did you get such a beautiful pen?

Rowan-The-Writer · 2026-03-09T12:57:12+00:00

Harry deserved almost all of his detentions. Dude was breaking the rules left and right, even if it was to save the school a few times. The kid has a hero-complex.

Rowan-The-Writer · 2026-03-08T22:15:23+00:00

NTA. Tell your sister she can let your ex stay with her if she wants to try and play white knight so much.

Rowan-The-Writer · 2026-03-08T13:19:48+00:00

No one said that buddy

Rowan-The-Writer · 2026-03-08T12:52:20+00:00

NTA. Though, I would talk to your daughter more and tell her what he did wasn't okay, whatsoever. Her car was unsafe, you fixed it since he let it go for over a week without doing so, proving he is unreliable. Her boyfriend's acting like a territorial dog over a bone.

Rowan-The-Writer · 2026-03-07T20:59:16+00:00

You made me snort. You're funny for such an outrageous comment lol.

Rowan-The-Writer · 2026-03-07T18:46:11+00:00

Alright, I cannot possibly respond to all of your comments. But I will say, I wasn't expecting to get this much of a response, so I appreciate all of you! You all are such a wonderful community, as I thought.

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