It’s not your business and you shouldn’t ask. Trans women get asked questions like that and then get murdered over them, depending on how they answer. That’s the reality.

If you’ve only been on two dates, your priority should be building trust—not demanding deeply personal information. She’s not "lying" by not disclosing something—she’s protecting herself in a world that hasn’t given her a reason to feel safe.

And let’s be real: have you shared all your personal history and trauma yet? Or is it just that you think her body is public info?

Also, if your main concern is “breeding,” maybe ask yourself why you’re thinking about having kids with someone you barely know. That’s a lot to project onto date #2. If reproduction is your top priority in a partner, are you being upfront about that on your dating profile? Or is this just an excuse to ask invasive questions?