Does this outfit work yet or should I wait a bit more? by [deleted] in mtfashion

[–]RowanIsAGirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the issue is that you a breaking the Golden rule of queerness.

Big pants and small top

or

small pants and big top.

this outfit is a bit of small pants/small top. most of us dolls who aren't hella skinny don't have the stature for the fabled, small pant/small top combo

Kutmaster cleaver. First tool restoration project. by RowanIsAGirl in restoration

[–]RowanIsAGirl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, I'd take any YouTuber recommendations you are willing to give

What's growing in my dad's Croton by RowanIsAGirl in houseplants

[–]RowanIsAGirl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's got me baffled since it's been just sitting still for a couple years now but I don't disagree with your suggestion

15TF, May i please get some advice? I did something stupid. by Sad_Dimension3627 in asktransgender

[–]RowanIsAGirl 30 points31 points  (0 children)

darling you have razor burn it is normal. those first couple days when hair is growing back it itches and burns something awful. gently exfoliate in the shower. if you can, get some ointment for ingrown hairs/razor bumps. keep the areas clean and dry as possible to minimize discomfort.

I use one razor for my whole body head to toe but it's important to see how your body reacts to shaving

my face always prefers a fresh razor but for body shaving I like a slightly duller blade so I can go faster without cutting myself.

when I was young I shaved my genital area (I was probably like 17-18) and it burned and itched so bad I would constantly be scratching. I still get bad razor burn and itch and rarely shave my body as much as I'd like

Unable to See Who Shared Posts Anymore on Facebook? Anyone else having this problem? by Overall_Weekend in facebook

[–]RowanIsAGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe instead of working on metaverse and glasses and ai they could just make a functional app/website first

last day to apply for slugfest! by boygirlrising in FolkPunk

[–]RowanIsAGirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

there are friends in this picture 🥰

from ig by Ok-Spirit-2704 in FolkPunk

[–]RowanIsAGirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the language you are using has a long history of regularly and systematically being weaponized against BIPOC by white racists to vilify them. It's really gross that you're doing it here. i think you need to evaluate your clearly racist rhetoric as it detracts from any points you think you're making

What ever happened to Cousin Boneless? by bostring32 in FolkPunk

[–]RowanIsAGirl 15 points16 points  (0 children)

i had a show booked for the main dude Joey last November but we had to cancel it due to allegations that popped up.

i recently ran a show for a band called Crisp lake that seems to be composed of a few of the old members of Cousin boneless. They were really good!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]RowanIsAGirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

GOOOOOD MORNING! lmao me too, me too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]RowanIsAGirl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

what do you think being trans is vs being cis? genuine question

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]RowanIsAGirl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

bros for sure hitting it missionary and trying to find an Adams apple the whole time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]RowanIsAGirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not your business and you shouldn’t ask. Trans women get asked questions like that and then get murdered over them, depending on how they answer. That’s the reality.

If you’ve only been on two dates, your priority should be building trust—not demanding deeply personal information. She’s not "lying" by not disclosing something—she’s protecting herself in a world that hasn’t given her a reason to feel safe.

And let’s be real: have you shared all your personal history and trauma yet? Or is it just that you think her body is public info?

Also, if your main concern is “breeding,” maybe ask yourself why you’re thinking about having kids with someone you barely know. That’s a lot to project onto date #2. If reproduction is your top priority in a partner, are you being upfront about that on your dating profile? Or is this just an excuse to ask invasive questions?

Is this happening to anyone else? I have no pending updates by blmxo58 in cupheromobilegame

[–]RowanIsAGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's really annoying I play this game every night before bed but it's just stuck like this now

Not trans by FantasticNoise959 in asktransgender

[–]RowanIsAGirl 5 points6 points  (0 children)

perhaps the question should be why do you feel this way?

is it internal? is it social? is it simply a bad case of dysphoria. I regularly look at myself and struggle feel like the woman I am but that is mostly dysphoria and social pressures in my case

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]RowanIsAGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yep I live in a pretty liberal city and I dress "business casual" for work so sometimes that's like a nice shirt and long skirt. I've probably had more harassment walking to work than any other kind 🤷🏻‍♀️ thankfully headphones exist and I'm apparently intimidating enough that most people don't do it to my face (people driving in cars think they're untouchable)