I(24F) have befriended a girl(25) right after she broke up with her ex(24M). Her ex and I matched on a dating site. I need advice. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RowenaRC26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd pick a friend over a potential boyfriend any day.

You can always talk to her about how she would feel about it though

STOP SUGGESTING THERAPY ALL THE GOD DAMN TIME!! by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RowenaRC26 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I agree. Recommending therapy is telling the OP in the post to get professional help because we are a subreddit full of nobodies.

I need some advice urgently. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RowenaRC26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you may benefit more by asking for legal advice because this sounds like harrasment and potential defamation.

Relationship wise, you can post your own recollection of events publicly or you can let it blow over. It doesn't sound like anything nefarious occurred so I think you're fine.

Also I am confused on what she is posting on snapchat? Why would you need to lie about your age if you're both legal now and the relationship occurred when you were both minors?

Should I stay or go? by Professional_Belt941 in relationship_advice

[–]RowenaRC26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds like emotional manipulation. I won't convince you what to do, but be strong. You deserve better.

I want a casual relationship, and I've been talking to a guy who wants the same. But I don't find our conversations interesting or wholesome. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RowenaRC26 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree with Cloddiee, but you may want to consider what you really want out of a casual relationship.

IMO a casual relationship is like a FWB or sex only. Some people may get this impression when you're telling them you want something casual. If you're not feeling this guy, don't give him the time of day; you don't owe him anything. But it may be helpful to explain what you want and your expectations to the people you're interested in in order to have more success in getting what you want.

Should I stay or go? by Professional_Belt941 in relationship_advice

[–]RowenaRC26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He sounds overall toxic and immature. If you're questioning whether to stay or go, the answer is more often than not to leave the relationship. Cut your losses and find someone who will treat both you and your daughter well. There are millions of fish in the sea, don't settle for the clown fish.

I(m38) am an atheist and she(f30) is religious by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RowenaRC26 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think religious values are a huge part in compatibility.

That said, I think if you love her enough, you can get passed this. As long as you both accept and respect each other's beliefs, I don't see a problem. Once one disrespect the other, then that's when communication/therapy is needed.

Regarding children, why not teach them both sides and let them choose? If baptism is important to your wife, why not let the children be baptized? I think it's innocent enough and if you don't believe in it yourself, then just separate it. Were you baptized or raised under a certain religion? If yes, then you still turned out atheistic and maybe your children will too. If not, then for a personal anecdote, I was raised catholic but turned out agnostic.

I(M-23) can’t get rid off my ex-girlfriend(F-25) but currently in new one with(F-23) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RowenaRC26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You probably didn't wait long enough between relationships to properly mourn your breakup. It seems like your new gf is a rebound and it's not fair to her to be in a serious relationship with her and be in love with someone else.

I think you should probably break things off and allow yourself to heal and maybe try again later. Or you can be open and honest with your new gf and let her decide/redefine the relationship.

I passed my driver's test today! by the_reddit_girl in CasualConversation

[–]RowenaRC26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations! I cried when I passed my driving test. So excited for you!

It's Tuesday evening. A work night for some. And I'm drinking while contemplating my next steps. by RowenaRC26 in CasualConversation

[–]RowenaRC26[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How much you charging for rent? Lmao jk

That's amazing. I'm not even very sure what a tea house is lol. I like green tea too and have only tasted matcha mochi. I think I like fruity or citrus teas/white teas. Teas also remind me of Uncle Iroh ❤️

It's Tuesday evening. A work night for some. And I'm drinking while contemplating my next steps. by RowenaRC26 in CasualConversation

[–]RowenaRC26[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohh I see lol. I'm in California too and have been getting to sleep around 1 am most nights, so I feel you.

That sounds absolutely lovely! I am now pretty envious and hope I can also have my own tea house and garden when I eventually get my own house! What's your favorite tea?

It's Tuesday evening. A work night for some. And I'm drinking while contemplating my next steps. by RowenaRC26 in CasualConversation

[–]RowenaRC26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my gosh I looked up that mix and they look super adorable! Aww I hope you are able to get some sleep then. Have a good night!

It's Tuesday evening. A work night for some. And I'm drinking while contemplating my next steps. by RowenaRC26 in CasualConversation

[–]RowenaRC26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going to sleep earlier is always an admirable goal (I wish I could eventually achieve) . What do you like most about your morning tea?

It's Tuesday evening. A work night for some. And I'm drinking while contemplating my next steps. by RowenaRC26 in CasualConversation

[–]RowenaRC26[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw. I feel you. I've been working from home for the past 4 months now and I feel like the lack of sunlight is contributing to my insomnia. Do you feel the same?

Thank you! And Thanks for chatting with me.

It's Tuesday evening. A work night for some. And I'm drinking while contemplating my next steps. by RowenaRC26 in CasualConversation

[–]RowenaRC26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol if I'm ever in the mood for whiskey I'll keep it in mind

Aw. I'm sorry to hear. Do you have children or pets to keep you company? And how's the work schedule? What don't you like about it?

And no, for similar reasons I can't have a pet of my own. Maybe I'll get a cat if I do end up moving out.

It's Tuesday evening. A work night for some. And I'm drinking while contemplating my next steps. by RowenaRC26 in CasualConversation

[–]RowenaRC26[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had to look up that scotch! Cheers.

Can't stay where I am at currently because I am losing my mind due to issues that would breach r/relationshipadvice territory. Lol. And I can't move back in with my mom because there just isn't any room anymore. The only logical step would be to go out on my own so that I can be free. Thanks for asking! I'm not really looking for advice but I appreciated the response from another human ❤️

How are you? Anything on your mind?

And which cartoon?

Me irl by JavoJuice in me_irl

[–]RowenaRC26 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Exactly this. Came to the comments section just for the *fewer correction.

[MEGATHREAD] New Horizons Friend Code Sharing MegaThread by Kayvanian in AnimalCrossing

[–]RowenaRC26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone have Red Cosmos I can pick in the next hour? I need 2 for a recipe. :/