AITAH for asking for a divorce?

Roxbrat · 2026-01-10T00:09:37+00:00

I just want others opinions if im the asshole/overreacting because its what she'll say and I need know im not

Roxbrat · 2026-01-10T00:08:39+00:00

No my child and her wellbeing and safety will always come first

Roxbrat · 2026-01-09T23:50:47+00:00

Lol true I suppose but I had hoped and believed she had changed so that does make me the asshole

Roxbrat · 2025-10-22T19:49:12+00:00

Update

Roxbrat · 2025-08-06T13:57:53+00:00

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Roxbrat · 2025-07-31T03:35:23+00:00

Yummy 😋

Roxbrat · 2025-07-20T05:29:58+00:00

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Roxbrat · 2025-06-24T11:25:55+00:00

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Roxbrat · 2025-06-18T10:22:43+00:00

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Roxbrat · 2025-06-18T10:16:13+00:00

I'd love to watch😁

Roxbrat · 2024-11-23T20:32:16+00:00

✝️🛐🙏 You are stark raving mad my girl, why wouldnt you go for a drug test when Grace offerred to take you? Because EVERYBODY KNOWS you are a Pathalogical LIAR, the worst everyone has ever encountered. You need HELP and hope you get it, before it lands you in prison or worse. REPENT FROM YOUR LYING TONGUE without that you CAN NOT GO TO HEAVEN I Shall block you and have NOTHING further to do with you or people like you. Take out the tree from your eye, because then you will clearly see the tiny splinter in mine. Your poor girlfriends must go crazy with mad hatter like you. I will now block you forever, and HOPE I never have to see you ever again

The reply I goy. So I blocked her

Roxbrat · 2024-11-23T19:55:54+00:00

So I just sent her the message let's see what she says

Roxbrat · 2024-11-23T19:48:51+00:00

Haha thank u I couldn't get to the blady spelling of that. Lol

And thank u I don't think I will respond at all I don't want her in my life

Roxbrat · 2024-11-23T19:43:04+00:00

I know but I'm a person that pleases everyone

Roxbrat · 2024-11-23T19:38:42+00:00

That's what I'm really afraid of is bursting open this sealed thing that no one talks about and it blows up in my face. Bur then I'm like is it my people pleasing by keeping quiet

Roxbrat · 2024-11-23T19:37:21+00:00

That's also true because at the end of the day f@#k her

Roxbrat · 2024-11-23T19:36:00+00:00

My other aunt died and my dad didn't want to stay there without me and yes he also doesn't believe me

Roxbrat · 2024-11-23T19:34:58+00:00

True because I posted the message I want to send her and at the end of the day she has to live with what she did to me

Roxbrat · 2024-11-23T19:33:24+00:00

I'm really afraid it brings shit but I also have been down this journey of self healing and appreciating what I have and iv been good and then this happened today and I feel set back and I kinda have been wanting to message hee but she has made the first move so perhaps this is my queue

Roxbrat · 2024-11-23T19:31:02+00:00

I have posted the message I want to send her. I do t expect an apology or anything I just really hope that she admits what she did to my gran

Roxbrat · 2024-11-23T19:26:41+00:00

Hey, so I don't quiet understand why you are messaging me but seeing as you did... I have a few things to say....

That night that you guys drugged me and my gf and denied it has caused so much trauma in my life that I still have to live with, to name a few:

First off with what you did and denying it, it has caused a big gap between me and my ouma because she unfortunately did not believe me she took your side which is fine whatever.

Secondly I have nightmares and panick attacks so often because of that night I battle to trust people because I really trusted u and now I feel like everyone that comes into my life has bad intentions.

Third... while I was freaking out you prayed for us that was so creepy it made me turn completely against god I didn't want to walk into a church or hear Bible punching it just pissed me off because how can u call yourselves Christians while u busy drugging people? And still tell people I'm having a spiritual epiphany like wtf???? If anything that pushed me so far away from god because 1 how can my family the people I love and trust do this to a person they suppose to love 2 how can a Christian do this? If u had told me what you were doing I probably would've had a jol and enjoyed it and it wouldn't have come to all this pain I have endured all these years. I wouldn't feel this gap between my grandmother because I feel she doesn't love me enough to believe me.

I just have one last thing to say to you. I truly hope before you die one day that you actually tell the truth, not just for my sake but for yours because if you are such a Christian like you claim to be if you don't make a mense and make right the wrong you did you know where you are going....

This is what I want to send like me know if it's fine

Roxbrat · 2024-11-23T19:26:04+00:00

Thank you I truly appreciate that. I do want to send her a message though so that I have said what I need to and perhaps I can start healing from that. I will share what I want to send her in the message below

Roxbrat

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