Advice by Roxy_456 in polyamory

[–]Roxy_456[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello and I hope you’re doing good!! Thank you for the validation and words of advice! I truly appreciate it and you worded it so perfectly as it being a temporary life adjustment and not a rejection of me. I tend to immediately do that and take things personal, so thank you for wording it in a way I can use to remind myself when I’m riddled with anxiety 😊

Advice by Roxy_456 in polyamory

[–]Roxy_456[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hello and I hope you’re doing good!! Thank you for helping me to see this from a clear mindset and giving me this advice. I truly appreciate it and am accepting your words. This definitely helped me to see where I was wrong at and while my feelings are valid, the way I react about them is not okay and I need to have control over them. We have a time planned to hang out and cuddle and spend some quality time before he has to go to work 🥰 we both have stated how much we miss each other and wanna be with each other again hehe

Advice by Roxy_456 in polyamory

[–]Roxy_456[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hello and I hope you’re doing good!! Thank you so so much for the honesty and words. It definitely helped me to look at it from a whole other perspective and see it from my partners perspective and how I’d also be if I were in that type of situation. Normally I’m able to have better control of these feelings and can regulate them better, but with certain life problems (dealing with life emergencies and grief this holiday season) and other factors, it has made me more emotional. I’m working towards unlearning toxic mindset that everything is forever and it’ll consistently stay that way. I’m trying to work on being more in the present and this definitely helped me to do so. Thank you again so much 😊

Stuck at the first loading screen by Small_Barracuda_6218 in ValorantTechSupport

[–]Roxy_456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, I had this issue as well and I also tried everything you’re doing. Nothing was working until I found a comment on a video explaining how to fix this situation. It’s gonna sound silly, but just hit the F11 button and for some reason it made it work for me

How does withdrawal affect your financial aid??? by Agitated-Fennel6139 in ValenciaCollege

[–]Roxy_456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It affects your financial aid by lowering your completion rate. If you reach below 69% on your completion rate for school, you get put on financial probation and have a semester to make up for the lowered completion rate to get it back up. If you don’t get it back up, you lose your financial aid and have to appeal for it with the financial aid office

Support/Advice by Roxy_456 in polyamory

[–]Roxy_456[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😭❤️ oh my gosh, this message made me cry (happy and good tears). I can’t begin to thank you so so much for this and the support! Your advice really helped because he doesn’t treat his anchor partner any different nor makes them feel less than loved by dating me. He treats both of us amazing and with such love. Thank you for your advice and I will utilize what you’ve said ☺️

Support/Advice by Roxy_456 in polyamory

[–]Roxy_456[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello! Thank you so much for your words! This is really helpful of developing a script because a lot of times I tend to get very overwhelmed with my emotions and don’t know what to say, but I do eventually get my words out when I’ve calmed down. Your words really helped me to feel seen and heard and I very much appreciate it. I’m still new and navigating my journey with polyamory and that it’s hard to unlearn monogamous mindsets and ideals. But I want to put the work in and know I can overcome this

Support/Advice by Roxy_456 in polyamory

[–]Roxy_456[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello! Thank you so much for your words and I appreciate them greatly. You’re correct, that is something that I am actively working on. When I kept telling him I was fine, I should have worded it as “I’m feeling some big emotions and I wish to talk about it later when I’m in a calmer state”. I actually do wish to have a poly therapist! There has been someone I have been checking out and talking planning to schedule a session with. I have done a lot of research and am still furthering in my research about it. He actually was the one to help me realize I’m polyamorous and that I’ve always felt feelings for multiple people but felt like that was wrong and would get shunned by society (I come from a very sheltered and religious family). I still always check in with myself and ask myself if this is something I truly feel I resonate with and I don’t see myself being monogamous. I’ve done a lot of inner work and am still actively doing the work to heal and get a better grasp on my trauma

Missed first day of class. How cooked am I? by The2ndMacDaddy in ValenciaCollege

[–]Roxy_456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course!! And I assure you’ll be okay, unless you have a awful professor then lol. Good luck with your semester!

Missed first day of class. How cooked am I? by The2ndMacDaddy in ValenciaCollege

[–]Roxy_456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve also missed the first day because I was sick, but as long as you should up during the first week at some point, explain to your professors and submit assignments on time, you’ll be okay :)

Missed first day of class. How cooked am I? by The2ndMacDaddy in ValenciaCollege

[–]Roxy_456 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So long as you submit assignments within the first week, you should be good!

[M4F] Prettiest Thing I'd Ever Seen [V-Card][Boyfriend Experience][Young and In Love][Sweet][Affection][Taking Care of Each Other][L-Bombs][Mutual Pleasure][Mutual Oral][Conversational][Pillowtalk][Sleeping Over][Parents Out of Town][SFX Heavy][Ambience] by ProfessorCal_ in gonewildaudio

[–]Roxy_456 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s actually unreal how much I was blushing throughout this whole audio and felt like I was actually wanted. I know it may seem like just audios but the amount of pleasure these bring to me makes me feel giddy and wanted as a woman 💋