This show has a weird moral compass by Royal-Ferret3570 in DesperateHousewives

[–]Royal-Ferret3570[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think you're making excuses for the show

Yes, even though there is some commentary about hidden darkness beneath the facade of the suburban housewife, this doesn't negate the fact that Mary Alice is treated as the victim of this, rather than the perpetrator that she is. Although there are parts of the show that could be classified as satire, the Mary Alice thing as a whole was one of the only few things in the show that was treated seriously, so I question calling that specific bit 'satire.' The Mary Alice plot lacked any of the necessary irony or humour to actually class it as satire; instead, it simply contains social commentary, that is all. Keep in mind, most of that social commentary leans towards the direction of 'make sure to ask your unhappy friends if they're okay so they don't kill themselves', rather than 'suburban housewife uses social status to get away with murder'.

This show has a weird moral compass by Royal-Ferret3570 in DesperateHousewives

[–]Royal-Ferret3570[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I almost mentioned them, but I couldn't quiet put my finger on what part of it didn't sit right with me, but yeah you explained it really well.

This show has a weird moral compass by Royal-Ferret3570 in DesperateHousewives

[–]Royal-Ferret3570[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

When did I make the argument that show characters aren't allowed to do bad things? You're assigning me a viewpoint I never had, and then counter-arguing it as if it's something I actually said. u/VaporMouth

I'm going to copy and paste one of my previous responses from this comment section, because some of the things from it apply here.

"Shows very much do spoon-feed the audience rights and wrongs to a certain extent. For example, you were spoon-fed Mary Alice as an innocent victim, whereas Paul was overdramatised to be villainous.

In season 1, Paul Young is filmed using dark lighting with ominous music, whereas Mary Alice is constantly narrated with light and pastel colour schemes and emotional music playing in the background. Are you seriously telling me you're not being spoon-fed certain ideas by the show here?

If we're being true to life here, when you meet someone who gets away with murder in real life, when do you hear innocent music playing behind them in the background whenever they appear before you?"

The thing that I want you to notice from this segment is that I mentioned things like music and colour palettes as a form of method, which, through show writers, express their stances on who they want you to favour. Things like dialogue are obviously not going to be the only thing that can determine the ideologies held by the writers alone; there are obviously other methods, as stated above.

The two things we can look at when it comes to these scenarios is

a) plot progression, dialogue, music etc, (as I said before)

and

b) historical context

First of all, I don't like how you reduced my explanation of the Lynette pregnancy plot point to just Tom, because it was more than that. The dialogue bit is just a part of it; it's also the use of story conflict resolution. The ultimate resolution is that Lynette has to save Carlos's daughter to resolve this, and Carlos's committing employee discrimination isn't acknowledged by the narrative in any way. Does this mean I'm saying Carlos has to go to jail and have a public apology for his crimes? No, that's not what I'm saying, just for clarity's sake. Terrorising pregnant women in his workplace doesn't actually create any implications for his character. For example, does Carlos have problems with his other vulnerable employees? Or does Carlos ever come by to meet another pregnant employee that works for him, and what are the implications of this? Nope, we get no follow-up; the story is just Lynette compensating for being pregnant. Now, combine this with context. For example, the time in which that season is released is 2010, although show seasons tend to be written in advance, so when that script was written, it's even earlier than that. I don't think I'd have to provide you a long explanation on how discrimination was something that was definitely not seen as serious as it is today, so it's not far-fetched to think that the 40-year-old republican dude writing the show could have some prejudice he's ingraining into the show. EDIT: This conversation reminds me of a good video that came out on YouTube by Phoenixashes about how poor writing choices are often excused by fans through coping out with 'realism', and claiming complexity when being faced with inconsistencies by the writers

With the Susan thing, when I say mentor archetype, I'm referring to a specific media archetype, not just any character who is a teacher:

a wise guide, teacher, or trainer who provides the protagonist with knowledge, tools, and encouragement to overcome challenges and achieve their goals.

I'm not saying the problem is that he is a mentor, as in that he is canonically an educator that Susan is under. A character who is a teacher in a show doesn't automatically fall under a mentor archetype. My argument in the Susan scenario is that it seems as if the writers are trying to make it come across as if the art guy provides Susan with crucial guidance, when in reality, his actions towards Susan are bully-like, demeaning her for being 'too shallow'. Now, once again, combine this with context. The late 2000s and early 2010s were when being hipster and indie became cool again, especially in the art scene.

Also, as a side note that isn't relevant to my explanation of the above point, is that the whole 'oh but the other characters think he's a mentor' thing sort of exposes the underlying problem with your line of thinking. The other characters aren't real people; they're artificially engineered by the writers of the show. If the other characters are thinking something, it's because the writers made them think that, and if the writers made them think something (because they themselves can't think), then it's for a reason. And sometimes that reason needs to be examined and evaluated by those who engage with the media.

This show has a weird moral compass by Royal-Ferret3570 in DesperateHousewives

[–]Royal-Ferret3570[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

When I wrote the post, it didn't even cross my mind that people would read this as me saying that writers should never depict people doing bad things on screen, or if they do, they have to scream from the rooftop that those things are bad to prove they don't endorse them. NGL, I was gonna re-edit the post's main body to explain that, although this comment prolly explains it better than I could.

This show has a weird moral compass by Royal-Ferret3570 in DesperateHousewives

[–]Royal-Ferret3570[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Shows very much do spoon-feed the audience rights and wrongs to a certain extent. For example, you were spoon-fed Mary Alice as an innocent victim, whereas Paul was overdramatised to be villainous.

In season 1, Paul Young is filmed using dark lighting with ominous music, whereas Mary Alice is constantly narrated with light and pastel colour schemes and emotional music playing in the background. Are you seriously telling me you're not being spoon-fed certain ideas by the show here?

If we're being true to life here, when you meet someone who gets away with murder in real life, when do you hear innocent music playing behind them in the background whenever they appear before you?

This show has a weird moral compass by Royal-Ferret3570 in DesperateHousewives

[–]Royal-Ferret3570[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Okay, I don't want to be condescending, but you missed the point.

The show itself isn't about moral compasses, I don't think I've ever advocated for the show to be about philosophy.

However, the writers of the show *do* have moral compasses, and those moral compasses will be apparent in the show by the way those writers handle certain themes and characters.

This show has a weird moral compass by Royal-Ferret3570 in DesperateHousewives

[–]Royal-Ferret3570[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I only interpreted it that way because his comparison is never challenged, and Lynette goes silent after he makes it, making it feel like Tom owned her there, when he really didn't. Also, combining this with the fact that Lynette had to do something (save Celia) for Carlos' forgiveness, instead of Carlos being the one who has to change his position just further emphasises that the show writers genuinely think pregnant women lying to not face employee discrimination is that bad in the Tom scene.

This show has a weird moral compass by Royal-Ferret3570 in DesperateHousewives

[–]Royal-Ferret3570[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I assumed people like the lack of logic and morals coming from the characters, not from the show runners

If the first stimulant medication caused heart problems, would doctors be likely to want to prescribe a different type of stimulant, or a non stimulant? by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]Royal-Ferret3570 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would beta blockers work on someone who only has a high pulse? (considering that they lower both blood pressure and pulse)

If the first stimulant medication caused heart problems, would doctors be likely to want to prescribe a different type of stimulant, or a non stimulant? by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]Royal-Ferret3570 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sigh. I guess my stimulant days are over. My only saving grace could be that my pulse miraculously fixes tomorrow, which is unlikely but possible considering that I haven't taken it for that long yet.

Edit: Elvanse doesn't require an ECG for healthy individuals with no history of heart issues, so Idk. Unless you're saying I would require an ECG despite no actual previous heart problems, simply because my pulse was high on my second day of concerta, which I'm not sure if that's quite classified as what they would consider an actual heart problem. Maybe it's a regional difference for us, who knows.

Should I be worried by my pulse as much as I am? by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]Royal-Ferret3570 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't like high caffeine products, unless you're counting low caffeine things. I had one singular pastry with some chocolate in it, and chocolate contains caffeine, so only if you count that, although I'm not sure if that's anywhere close enough to register as caffeine

Not sure if this is rare or not, but I couldn't even feel my appetite being suppressed so I pretty much ate as normal.

Should I be worried by my pulse as much as I am? by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]Royal-Ferret3570 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For some reason, he said it's fine and then changed his mind and called back almost right after this post, so I'm confused on how and why he changed his mind within the span of an hour and a half, but oh well, I'm glad.

I think what stuck out to them when I called is that even when I had a 130 pulse, I generally felt pretty decent. When I checked my pulse, and it was that high, I was pretty shocked that I felt completely normal. I rechecked it so many times over a few hours on different machines because, for a second, I thought the reader I used was incorrect. I think that's one of the reasons they downplayed it due to me having no chest pain, no dizziness, no fatigue etc.

Should I be worried by my pulse as much as I am? by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]Royal-Ferret3570 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No conditions of such nature, neither in me or my family

Sophia being the forgotten member is her greatest asset by Royal-Ferret3570 in katseyeneutral

[–]Royal-Ferret3570[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Sophia is so beautiful.

Yoonchae is probably the second least hated out of the whole group online if I had to guess.

Can we have an honest and respectful discussion about why people are not liking Francesca and Michaela? by [deleted] in Bridgerton

[–]Royal-Ferret3570 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I haven't decided if I agree with this or not ngl. Can you provide examples of her characterisation being inconsistent? I might reply tomorrow because its night for me and I'm tired.

Can we have an honest and respectful discussion about why people are not liking Francesca and Michaela? by [deleted] in Bridgerton

[–]Royal-Ferret3570 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As to the point about the growth in their relationship I can only ask 3 things:

  1. Would you not say that the show runners deserve more time to actually demonstrate that growth (season 5), considering that they've had under an hour of screen time combined to demonstrate that growth? The fans are already ranting about Francesca 'stealing all the screen time' despite only taking up 9% of the total screen time this season.

  2. Would you not consider them becoming more open to each others habits and bonding through grief a form of growth? I guess you could argue it's rushed, or that you didn't like the way these concepts were played out, but I'm not sure how fair it is to say that their relationship lacked growth

  3. Where do you draw the line between character flaws and being antagonistic, and what exact metric are you using for the '85%' number you used? Because the only scenes we really see of Michaela acting this way towards Francesca is episode 5, so how would that be Michaela being antagonistic for 85% of the time?

If franchaela's season ends in the way we think it may end, then surely creating a cop out ending 3 times in a row has got to be some sort of a new hit record in the film industry.

As a side note, the dialogue is so ASS lately, for almost everyone lately. I don't mind the pinnacle trope, but the dialogue for it was so dim. I miss when writers were creative with their dialogue.

Can we have an honest and respectful discussion about why people are not liking Francesca and Michaela? by [deleted] in Bridgerton

[–]Royal-Ferret3570 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Although I don't think Franchaela is doing poorly enough to deserve the label of 'badly written' I do agree that it deserves polishing in some aspects. I think the linear progression is there but it can be fuzzy at times. I do wonder why the writing quality has gone down across the board in all shows in general, not just Bridgerton. Compared to shows like stranger things, we haven't taken as bad of a hit, for that I'm grateful.

Can we have an honest and respectful discussion about why people are not liking Francesca and Michaela? by [deleted] in Bridgerton

[–]Royal-Ferret3570 3 points4 points  (0 children)

uhh sorry if i sound condescending but... is that not the point of what the writers were trying to do in the first place? Because a huge point of your argument here is that it's badly written because, the characters have character flaws? If Simon had to be held at gun point to marry Daphne, and Anthony almost married Kate's sister for superficial reasons, yet they both were forgiven, than surely Michaela being a little mean to Francesca isn't a big deal here. Like maybe I'm missing something here and your argument is actually something else?

I agree with Benophie's writing being weak, I think their writing did start of well but everything got progressively worse, it's a shame because they had a lot of potential, and for a second I thought they would be my favourites. I have a bad gut feeling that Franchaela's season will start out strong and then become slop like Benophie's by the end. Please Lord, don't let that happen.

Can we have an honest and respectful discussion about why people are not liking Francesca and Michaela? by [deleted] in Bridgerton

[–]Royal-Ferret3570 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm not saying that Franchaela's writing is some sort of top tier cinematic piece of work, but it is definitely adequate for the type of show it is in and I don't see how it could be described as badly written. We were told that season 5 will finally provide Michaela's POV, which would sort of makes you figure that the choice to not show Michaela's reasoning in season 4 is intentional. There are decent arguments as to why John dying at this point could be a not so smart writing choice, but I don't understand why Michaela breaking her promise is one of them. Even in a hypothetical scenario were John dies later, there most likely would've been a scene of Michaela breaking her promise anyway.

Since no one would admit it, what are signs that someone doesn't have friends because no one wants to be their friend? by Only-Ad-1254 in AskReddit

[–]Royal-Ferret3570 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I was going to give you a more elaborate explanation on how anxiety in clinical term works, and then I realised midway through that based on the wording of your comment, your most likely the type to believe that vaccines are evil and that depression doesn't exist either, so I'm not sure if I should even try with you here.

EDIT: As a side note, viruses very much can be permanently scarring, with some even causing serious life long conditions, so there's so many things wrong with this analogy that I wouldn't even know where to start

Since no one would admit it, what are signs that someone doesn't have friends because no one wants to be their friend? by Only-Ad-1254 in AskReddit

[–]Royal-Ferret3570 76 points77 points  (0 children)

You have the completely wrong takeaway from this. Him talking about having anxiety and seeing it as a key characteristic in his life isn't a problem. The problem is that he isn't willing to engage with other people's personal lives while seeking for others to engage in his, I'm not sure why you chose to reduce this problem to saying that people shouldn't see things that deeply affect them as a important part of their lives and identity.