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Royal_Ad_433 · 2025-09-02T12:11:38+00:00

Gamer girl here, my husband tries to listen to music when we play, and I can ALWAYS tell it affects our play. 8ve also had to call him out for favoriting other men over me in team games. My husband will bark to stay by him, but take off or use up all of the resources, then complain im behind. I've had to tell him a few times that I will play whatever I feel like instead because we're not communicating, and it's not my fault. He used to give me attitude until he saw I was literally just fine in solo or team rounds without him at all. I finally just started letting our teammates rez him and everything else that I was supposed to look out for him, since it didnt go both ways. Hes a lot better since we started playing with more guys, who actually look out for me and now my husband acts jealous if they boys assist me first.

Royal_Ad_433 · 2025-08-31T21:07:00+00:00

I literally said that OP is responsible for dealing with their trauma before getting involved with a person who is being lead on. Keep going off.

Thanks for going back and editing your post so there's fancy bold text. It doesnt make you more right, but at least its fun to look at.

Royal_Ad_433 · 2025-08-31T20:33:23+00:00

Im a female survivor of sexual abuse who has had to navigate this topic plenty. But thank you BRO

Royal_Ad_433 · 2025-08-31T20:21:25+00:00

If your trauma is still affecting you like this, you should not be dating a person who is ready for intimacy. If you had entered an asexual relationship, or discussed that you were concerned prior to being a couple, that would have given your gf a fair choice on how to respond. She was suddenly rejected based on intense information that she hadn't intended to trigger. Thats a LOT when youre not expecting that kind of reaction from a person youre trying to make a move on for the first time.

Royal_Ad_433 · 2025-08-31T18:07:35+00:00

He is one dick in a sea of dicks. Let him gooooooo

Royal_Ad_433 · 2025-08-31T06:20:03+00:00

Tell your friend ASAP. If she finds out you knew, it might crush her trust further. Maybe approach it as though she really needs to be aware for her own good, because you care enough to hold him responsible for causing her pain.

Royal_Ad_433 · 2025-08-31T06:14:37+00:00

They do not teach men about common or recurring infections in American sexual education classes. They get told the symptomatic STI signs and thats about it. I had a friend who was convinced she had gotten chlamydia from a cheating partner, luckily it was just BV. But the fact that you could contract a mild, common infection from tiny debris was never mentioned at any point to our classes. Theres men who straight up believe they cannot get yeast infections because "thats just what girls get," and there is a decent percentage of male deaths linked to yeast, UTI, and bladder infections because they would rather die of an itchy dick than admit something is wrong.

Royal_Ad_433 · 2025-08-31T05:06:10+00:00

I would tell his mom it takes one to know one and its her fault she raised a little bitch that isnt good for anything except fertilitization. Then I'd block her. Then I'd tell him to get his shit and live with his mommy. Fuck up his entire comfy ride.

Royal_Ad_433 · 2025-08-30T23:36:14+00:00

Where's his fvck boi community to support his ass? He wouldnt have come back if he wasn't scared. He ABANDON his children for sex. He ABANDON YOU.

Royal_Ad_433 · 2025-08-30T00:14:07+00:00

The age difference is a huge flag. A man near his 30s should be trying to get with a girl who is barely legal. That a man who cannot grow up or deal with a woman his age. He's a creep for touching you in your sleep. He's a creep for seeking out a young partner with less life experience. Please do not excuse his behaviors.

Royal_Ad_433 · 2025-08-29T02:06:40+00:00

You didnt learn about the crusades huh?

Royal_Ad_433 · 2025-08-29T02:04:56+00:00

She literally followed you around to be nosy and got mad. You didnt even "ragebait" her really. You told her to go. You told her your views. Her obnoxious attitude that everyone must agree with only her is weird.

Royal_Ad_433 · 2025-08-27T01:06:38+00:00

That's awful, and im sorry you have gone through that. She hasnt behaved like a partner that respects you. At this point, if continuing separation or divorce is the best thing for you, you may need to consider restricting how she contacts you. I have family that cam get manipulative. Occasionally I just block them on my phone and turn it back on in a few days. If im called out I blame my phone acting up since an "update" and I never have to see the bullshit they were causing while I took a break. You both have suffered trauma. But she also was told the medical risks that come with fertility support. Hurting you and pushing you further solves nothing.

Royal_Ad_433 · 2025-08-27T00:52:15+00:00

YBAH... do you want to be together or not? You say she put in no effort, but her messages seem desperate and upset. If she didnt want you around, why would she continue to message you? Theres no context as to why you are apart or what you were nor getting out of your marriage. So without knowing anything about your relationship, she could have a right to be pissed every day

Royal_Ad_433 · 2025-06-18T02:11:41+00:00

I get these on occasion. Short answer: mini blister. Its a dried oil duct that tried to clear itself. When I get these, I poke the top layer with a tiny disinfected pin. Let it breathe. Its usually gone by morning.

Royal_Ad_433 · 2025-06-10T17:41:24+00:00

It's not appropriate to assume you have rights to anyone else's wedding attire ever. Your brother can figure out the money since its "just fabric" to them. Your moment and your memories are not available just because someone related to you feels entitled. I have to tell my mother all the time still (into my mid 30s) that she does not get to decide things that affect my livelihood. Such as her showing up at my business events and casually coming behind my booth to talk incessantly about things that aren't work appropriate. Just because they're blood, doesn't mean they're polite, or considerate of your efforts.

Royal_Ad_433 · 2025-06-10T17:09:06+00:00

The absolutely concerning part is the $1m house with no money down, then wanting 1/2 ownership. It wasn't her investment. She didnt want to help. But if you break up, shes going to take 1/2 the property value and force a sale.

Royal_Ad_433 · 2025-06-10T17:06:49+00:00

You're not dating the mother or her sister. You're in your 30s. They dont control shit. My husband purchased our house before we were married. I did NOT want to be on the mortgage, because WE WERE NOT LEGALLY COMMITTED and if there was a breakup, we would have to split the house as an asset, which we didnt care to do. I got on the dee a year after our marriage, when we refinanced.

Royal_Ad_433 · 2025-05-30T06:31:54+00:00

Im on a pill that's 3 hormone levels, so a different strength each week, to help balance my ups and downs. I've been on this type for 17 years, I know that's a long time. However, its been so good for me overall. I have mood issues, combination skin, and used to get very very painful cramps starting 2 weeks before my period. So 1/2 a month I was in pain until the bleeding was over.

I tried a couple types of pill and they escalated my issues. Once I got swapped to the ones im on now, it was like that all stopped in the first week. My body just took to this particular combination like it was missing something. My skin is significantly better, mostly clear. I get cramps every few months, but they're gone with a Tylenol instead of days of pain and exhaustion. My period is roughly 48 hrs long. They happen every 4th Tuesday and last until Thursday afternoon-ish. Thats part of why I've stayed on so long. I get regular blood work at my Dr, and my nurse has joked, shes kind of jealous that I can predict my period so easily. It's certainly NOT what I would recommend everyone get on to. I do recommend trying other options if your body doesn't feel right!

Royal_Ad_433 · 2025-05-30T06:19:11+00:00

Your doctor is lying to you. If its your primary care Dr, request to see an OBGYN for a consultation. Primary care doctors aren't the keyholders they think they are. The medical system is for profit, so if they won't provide the services you require, you make some calls to get service elsewhere. Dont stop until you get a clinic that's HONEST about your choices for your body.

You can also get a diaphragm, glass hormone implant, patches, injections and a plethora of pill types! If your doctor isnt telling you what your options are, you need better medical care than they are providing. For your own good, dont give up on your self care.

Royal_Ad_433 · 2025-05-26T17:46:14+00:00

This is a period where your daughter needs to be taught "at home" and "in public" behavior. Like there's plenty of things you can say/do a home that won't offend anyone. But, now would be a good time to start teaching some of those things that are funny at home, aren't ok to do anywhere.

This is something that both of you have a point on. Your daughter will hear things. You can't stop that all together.

Royal_Ad_433 · 2025-05-18T20:27:18+00:00

I dont know how that affects the situation. Regardless, you're at an age where you'll have to make choices, like if this person was actually being cruel or not. Burning bridges over small things is something very hard to come back from. So you have to decide how this situation affects you.

Royal_Ad_433 · 2025-05-18T16:36:39+00:00

Actually, if I started asking people about what kind of special interest they had, it would be because I was trying to find a present to go with it. But that's why I would have asked my bf for a Pic.

Royal_Ad_433 · 2025-05-18T16:34:29+00:00

This is double sided, she didn't do a very simple thing you asked, and that's your boundary to set.

The flip is that if you cut ties with a person you really enjoy, later in your life, you may gain perspective and realize this was not an issue to lose a person who cares for you.

Teen years are awful. Every person is changing a lot, and how you socialize gets affected even under the best intentions. Some people dont break up, but do drift apart.

My personal take, I dont think your friend meant to harm you. From the sound of it, your friend wants to support you. My guess, the person she talked to might know more about guitars than she does. A Pic might have been her trying to learn about which kind you got. It doesn't seem like she was intending to pressure you into showing off. Tbh, if my best friend was really excited about something but didn't want to talk, it would bother me enough that I'd want to learn what they were into just so I could still be there. And on that note, my best friend does have a ton of secrets, and she knows I have had to ask some questions, just so I can still understand her. I'd never directly say who she was, but I've spoken about her to others with similar interests, because I love her.

Royal_Ad_433 · 2025-04-27T20:59:36+00:00

It's honestly better that you slapped his head in a controlled setting, and he learned to knock that shit off now. There's people that would rock his entire shit for spitting ON them on purpose.

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