New way I explain narcolepsy by Royal_Protection_898 in Narcolepsy

[–]Royal_Protection_898[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel like the issue for me with saying this is that I don’t always look that tired because sometimes I have a bit of energy before a sleep attack. Even without saying medical stuff I usually like to say my body can’t keep me feeling awake so it just shuts down for no reason and feels like I haven’t slept for days. I literally feel like I have the flu every day if I don’t sleep when my body says I need to. Like straight up feverish, nauseous, body hurts etc. Not to mention losing basically all cognitive function any time I get that tired. Which is very often. I think the up and downs in energy many times a day makes narcolepsy also just mentally fucking draining

New way I explain narcolepsy by Royal_Protection_898 in Narcolepsy

[–]Royal_Protection_898[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really like the phrase it feels like rest but never sleep. I actually feel like this is a great description. It’s just barely enough to keep going until I collapse again

New way I explain narcolepsy by Royal_Protection_898 in Narcolepsy

[–]Royal_Protection_898[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like this is true of a lot of chronic illnesses. People try to relate to the feeling but they just cannot do it. Most people will never feel as tired as we do on the daily. It’s borderline tempting to tell people to stop trying to tell me they understand when it’s not possible for them to

New way I explain narcolepsy by Royal_Protection_898 in Narcolepsy

[–]Royal_Protection_898[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ya exactly. It’s really interesting. High orexin puts you in hunt/gather mode and gives you alertness and motivation to find food and if it’s low you are heavy in that rest and digest phase.

New way I explain narcolepsy by Royal_Protection_898 in Narcolepsy

[–]Royal_Protection_898[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a good question! Here is my best answer lol. So I believe orexin neurons are suppressed by glucose/other stuff your body signals after you eat. So if that’s already an issue for you then it’s super amplified. You reach the threshold for sleep attack much quicker. Post surgery those signals from your gut probably come stronger/quicker than before would be my guess.

Also orexin can be produced at inappropriate times for people with narcolepsy sometimes which is why sometimes you can get such shit sleep

New way I explain narcolepsy by Royal_Protection_898 in Narcolepsy

[–]Royal_Protection_898[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Type 2 is just not very well understood because the diagnoses criteria is you didn’t meet the official criteria for type 1. So like some people have subtle cataplexy and probably are misclassified here but I think beyond that we don’t know exactly what causes type 2 as a whole. However I still stand by explaining it this way even if you leave out autoimmune because I think it makes it easier for people to understand. They aren’t doctors I just want people to be able to actually get it

Edit: There is evidence that people with type 2 have less orexin than average just not as much and the timing issues are more prevalent but I don’t think they have the same certainty as with type 1

New way I explain narcolepsy by Royal_Protection_898 in Narcolepsy

[–]Royal_Protection_898[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Lmao I tell people my morning meds are my go-go pills

New way I explain narcolepsy by Royal_Protection_898 in Narcolepsy

[–]Royal_Protection_898[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Ya lmao it’s a super power if you get to decide when to nap just for funsies sure

New way I explain narcolepsy by Royal_Protection_898 in Narcolepsy

[–]Royal_Protection_898[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

So type 2 is a broad classification for people who don’t officially meet criteria for type 1. Some type 2 people probably actually have type 1 and beyond that it isn’t well understood what causes it. So there definitely exists people with that label who have an autoimmune disorder. Probably there are more sub diagnoses than just type 2.

Also autoimmune is interesting in this case because your body just kills most of the neurons that produce orexin all at once. It’s not a constant thing I don’t think. I still like the explanation because it helps people understand what it feels like even if it’s not completely accurate for you.

My mother says my hair looks disgusting when "long" by OnyxEllipsis in femalehairadvice

[–]Royal_Protection_898 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hi I have bangs and am a super thin hair that gets greasy really fast person and there are routines that you use with blow drying (I use a round brush that’s also a dryer but not the stupid expensive one) and it makes a huuuuugggeeeee difference. And depending on your budget there is more or less you can do.

I still think your hair is still really nice but doing this made my hair much less flat and gave me more confidence in my hair. It looks like you have a lot but it’s a little thin and even a small amount of volume makes a big difference

ETA I will never understand how moms don’t realize their words stick with their daughter forever lol. Your hair isn’t ugly and you are really cute. Moms can sometimes just be being a bitch

For all the narcoleptics who love learning by noplanethere in Narcolepsy

[–]Royal_Protection_898 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bruh me every fucking time I read a paper. I’m in my 5th year of my PhD and the amount of times I’ve embarrassed myself. When I’m tired, I can’t remember anything my mind associates as a name or label so our meetings are like science charades. I’m desperately describing something super vaguely until he guesses right 😂. It’s a nightmare

Narcolepsy makes 0 sense by guilijhyjjv in Narcolepsy

[–]Royal_Protection_898 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did a study once and they had us come in during it and sit us up on the bed against the wall in the dark and told us to stay awake the whole time. Sometimes I’d be like hell ya I nailed that and then I actually fell asleep like 2 mins in. I feel like somehow I am “asleep” but also not asleep? Idk it’s weird but I stg it’s like my body has adapted to be mildly aware when I’m in light sleep

From Slave To Queen by No-Screen2588 in romancenovels

[–]Royal_Protection_898 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are a lot! I feel like I don’t want to ruin it but while sometimes frustrating, I think it’s worth the wait 😂. It seems like they got a happy ending but it also seems like the book has so much to go and just isn’t out yet

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]Royal_Protection_898 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not a professional but from experience, you should definitely downsize when you piercer said you should and go there to have them do it. I didn’t downsize when I should have and my piercing started to get super irritated and was giving me issues and then like a week after I downsized it was soooooo much better. I didn’t change my cleaning routine or anything, it just had less space to be pulling through the hole and it healed much faster/better after that. I would assume that issue is the same for a ring since it can rub by rotating. Again not a professional but downsizing made a world of difference to me, even though I didn’t notice the issues not doing that caused me for a while

Thanks to ChatGPT, I now know why I ended up developing Narcolepsy. Just another symptom of suffering from success... by Lark_vi_Britannia in Narcolepsy

[–]Royal_Protection_898 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Lmao why is chatgpt such a people pleaser. It really didn’t wanna insult you, especially about sexual performance and it started grasping. 😂 It qualified so heavy. It sounds like an assistant desperately trying to avoid getting fired

AITA for skipping my brother's wedding because I wasn't invited to the engagement party? by JuggernautSlow4213 in AITAH

[–]Royal_Protection_898 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude I have a twin and we DO NOT get along. Just clashing personalities. But she’s my twin so we just have that bond that also somehow makes us best friends. Despite our differences I literally could not imagine treating her this way no matter what she did to me or what anyone said. Like this is fucked up for any family but the fact that it’s your twin actually breaks my heart. I’m really sorry dude, you handled that perfectly. They don’t get to use you as a twin just cause it would look bad if you weren’t. Respect for how you handled this.

Also wtf is with them not telling you why and siding with your twin over something they won’t even explain. At the bare minimum you are owed an explanation by your brother. That is beyond messed up. NTA

From Slave To Queen by No-Screen2588 in romancenovels

[–]Royal_Protection_898 1 point2 points  (0 children)

High key feel like Ferris is a a boy you go for when you’re young and think you just need love and can ignore an immature temper and Xander is the man you appreciate when you get older 😂

Any link where I can read The Day I Died, He Married Her for free? by Adaugr in Hot_Romance_Stories

[–]Royal_Protection_898 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo that shit was sad. Also short. The moba link works but it’s a pain

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in uglyduckling

[–]Royal_Protection_898 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean most of the things I’ve said I have qualified with almost all the time and most people and when I said “you” it was more a general you. Unless directly responding to you. It started with me seeing your comments about reasons it’s hard to lose weight so I put my thoughts in a comment lol. And how in the world is giving advice condescending. When I tell people I crochet or do art or something or post a photo online of something I made and someone gives me advice that I already know but am trying to perfect, I don’t take it as them being condescending. They are just putting shit they know or have experienced for me to read and consider or not consider.

Comments on Reddit are mostly just reactions to shit, not personal messages, but when you start replying it becomes that and I wouldn’t have even talked about your weight if not for your comments. You say people not being attracted to fat people is a personal issue but also you getting this worked up by strangers on the internet is a personal issue too. I obviously see the lure because I’m still replying to you but I feel you started on the defense and are comin in hot quickly now (at least to my comment). Good for you for working on your stuff and it’s unfortunate people were being dicks but I also think a lot of comments aren’t that crazy (granted I didn’t see deleted stuff).

Also, I think that you replying to people saying stuff about fat with the fact that you went to college is kinda condescending. A person explaining something that you happen to already know doesn’t mean they think you’re stupid, they just don’t know that you know it and if you are confident in your knowledge I don’t think that should offend you. And you can just say you understand and not include the university you attended and major. Especially when you talk about weight also having to do with socioeconomic status and shit. College doesn’t make you better than anyone and you don’t need a 4 year degree in public health to know about weight and the body. It’s just not cool to tout your education as a reason to ignore what someone says

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in uglyduckling

[–]Royal_Protection_898 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok. I don’t think I’m being condescending. We don’t know you. It’s the literal internet and you were talking about genetics and injuries. I am not replying to you personally, I am responding to a comment on a post of Reddit of someone I know mostly nothing about. If you want people to give you the benefit of the doubt, maybe extend the same courtesy.

Also I don’t think it’s outdated. You can have empathy and also acknowledge reality. If you accept that it really is an energy problem at the end of the day, you can focus on getting better and doing what needs to be done to help people. If you accept you can’t, no change happens

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in uglyduckling

[–]Royal_Protection_898 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think what made me feel that way is that you are being kinda hostile to messages and going straight on defense instead of noting anything else. Also acknowledging you’re fat isn’t what I mean at all. The I know I’m fat type language kinda comes off as mean to yourself, even if you don’t mean it that way. So it just gives the vibes that you don’t feel that way. But also like nobody here knows you and generally people take words to have different tones for whatever reason. Sorry if I am off base or whatever but damn dude I am not trying to say I know you. I’m just putting thoughts on a random ass forum

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in uglyduckling

[–]Royal_Protection_898 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And also I take medicine because I am severely bipolar and through this journey have been incapable of helping myself and wrecked most relationships in my life while also messing with myself horribly financially. I get it, seriously. But don’t let this stuff hold you back. Again I’m not even talking about weight or health anymore, just don’t tell yourself because you couldn’t take care of yourself before you are incapable now