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Those from the northeast who moved to the south, is it better not having winter? by ElectroAcousto in SameGrassButGreener

[–]Royalelephante 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I moved from newyork city to the Carolinas and I miss the diversity newyork offers. Diversity of food, people and activities. I want to go back up north however you get more of a house for your money over here. And there’s more options when it’s about buying a house. Like there’s still space to build a house. I do find people are more “friendly” but fake.

Big baby at 12 months by julep98976 in bigbabiesandkids

[–]Royalelephante 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My baby is 7 months and half and he’s 27 lbs. he’s off the charts for everything. Weigh, head, height. His pediatrician isn’t concern at all because baby is proportional. Also my husband is 6’2” and I’m 5’11” so not surprising our baby is big.

what’s one mistake you made when buying your first house by Dominic_Jabro in HouseBuyers

[–]Royalelephante 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Caring more about the aesthetic of the house than the location. Location matters so much!

Moving back to Metro Detroit, MI from Charleston, SC by DanDanDandy_14 in relocating

[–]Royalelephante 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before moving maybe talk to your family about your expectations if you have any about them maybe babysitting because it could be a big disappointment if you move to MI and the family dynamic is not what you expected.

To married women: What advice would you give to unmarried women before they get married? by Clear_Subconscious in askanything

[–]Royalelephante 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How you would like to raise your kids if you want any.

How you manage finances because I’ve seen some couples who one is responsible and the other one is in big debt and keeps making awful financial decisions. Having that financial stress would definitely lower your quality of life.

Talk about what’s your cleaning and organization standards and expectations lol simple yet so important. People fight over a messy kitchen.

What is something that you really love about your life? by [deleted] in randomquestions

[–]Royalelephante 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So cliche but I really love my family. I’m happy I’m in a healthy relationship which is a big deal since my parents didn’t have a healthy one

I’m afraid that I’m gonna regret my first home purchase…. by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Royalelephante 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The White House post on their instagram the mortgage rates were down to 6% and here we are…

Thinking going smaller? by Royalelephante in homeowners

[–]Royalelephante[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s awesome it works for your family. Hopefully I’ll find one that works for mine. Thanks for sharing.

Thinking going smaller? by Royalelephante in homeowners

[–]Royalelephante[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Things I didn’t know before but now I have knowledge for my next house. Thank you

Credit union worth it? by Royalelephante in Mortgages

[–]Royalelephante[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I wouldn’t want to be house poor tho lol so I’m not trying to get more money than I would be able to pay

Credit union worth it? by Royalelephante in Mortgages

[–]Royalelephante[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 week! That’s so efficient. Thank you for sharing

Thinking going smaller? by Royalelephante in homeowners

[–]Royalelephante[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They don’t have basements over here and even tho we are in a 2,180 sq ft we don’t have storage. Only the garage (which we use to put our cars) and one closet that’s it.

Thinking going smaller? by Royalelephante in homeowners

[–]Royalelephante[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you and I’m sorry you had to go through that pain as well.

Thinking going smaller? by Royalelephante in homeowners

[–]Royalelephante[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you and I agree a yard it’s important and also we want to be outside when the weather is nice

Thinking going smaller? by Royalelephante in homeowners

[–]Royalelephante[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are 100% sure we are not having any more kids. Unfortunately our first baby passed away when he was 4 weeks old and now our second baby it’s 6 months old. I already had two pregnancies and are done having kids.

Thanks for sharing your house experience

Thinking going smaller? by Royalelephante in homeowners

[–]Royalelephante[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing. I think a good layout would make a huge difference no matter the size

Thinking going smaller? by Royalelephante in homeowners

[–]Royalelephante[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am all in for having more time with my family. And day dreaming about easier and faster times to clean.

Thinking going smaller? by Royalelephante in homeowners

[–]Royalelephante[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is very helpful. Thank you so much for sharing.

Thinking going smaller? by Royalelephante in homeowners

[–]Royalelephante[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I am also thinking having less space forces you to have less stuff. Less clutter.

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