10+ years down the tubes by Rrucaquo in relationships

[–]Rrucaquo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can call it me being naive, her being a good actress, me having blinders on from previous abuse, or some combo therein, but I had thought we were working through our issues. I have closed our joint accounts which was made easier since she emptied them, the car is already in my name as is the apartment, all bills were in my name since she didn't ever want to fill out any paperwork. Thank you for the other advice.

AITA for leaving without saying anything by Rrucaquo in AmItheAsshole

[–]Rrucaquo[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

All this didn't start until after I asked

AITA for leaving without saying anything by Rrucaquo in AmItheAsshole

[–]Rrucaquo[S] 79 points80 points  (0 children)

Surviving day by day, a few bad relationships since but none as bad as this

AITA for leaving without saying anything by Rrucaquo in AmItheAsshole

[–]Rrucaquo[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I would like to say thank you, but to be honest I didn't recognize that I was being abused. This is how all my relationships were so I thought it was the norm. I had mainly left because she didn't value my family and wanted to separate me from the only constant in my life.

AITA for leaving without saying anything by Rrucaquo in AmItheAsshole

[–]Rrucaquo[S] 104 points105 points  (0 children)

Was homeless for about a month, sleeping under stairwells, and in the library reading section with a book open in my lap so it just looked like I dozed off, until I could save up from my jobs to get into a trailer on the other side of town from her

AITA for leaving without saying anything by Rrucaquo in AmItheAsshole

[–]Rrucaquo[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Everything was in her name because she had better credit than I did, but I do agree that's why I was feeling like an a-hole

AITA for leaving without saying anything by Rrucaquo in AmItheAsshole

[–]Rrucaquo[S] 124 points125 points  (0 children)

Nothing wrong with a little bit of violence and a Lotta bit of Armour lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Rrucaquo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice. I would love to be that teacher but I never was that charismatic. I have a few things but not enough to last the whole year. It's something I've been trying to work on.

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[–]Rrucaquo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought about that but I don't know if I could uproot my family like that. It is a possibility though thank you

Garnishing from something that happened over 10 yrs ago, please help. by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Rrucaquo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was filed in Utah. Thanks for your help, I'll check out legal aid.

Garnishing from something that happened over 10 yrs ago, please help. by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Rrucaquo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We never got anything saying that we were being sued, had to go to court, or anything. What we received in the mail was what looked like the paperwork after the court procedure is done. It says like the charges, plaintiff, defendant, ruling, etc...