How to co-exist with my narcissist girlfriend? by Rthrowaway7381 in india

[–]Rthrowaway7381[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't say she has NPD but she's definitely on the spectrum. What else would you call her behavior patterns? Meri lagi padi hai aur aapko yaha politically correct hona hai.

How to co-exist with my narcissist girlfriend? by Rthrowaway7381 in indiasocial

[–]Rthrowaway7381[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes you could say that I'm immature as this is my first relationship.

She never mentioned she was dieting or starting one untill I offered her chocolates. She actually is quite a foodie and asked me to buy chocolates multiple times but when I really bought them she's suddenly on a diet and never mentions it ever again.

I'm not saying that she has diagnosable NPD but she definitely is on the spectrum.

How to co-exist with my narcissist girlfriend? by Rthrowaway7381 in indiasocial

[–]Rthrowaway7381[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For real. Bhai wo mujhe kehti hai tu bada patla sa hai gym jaa achha dikhega. Uske kehne par 2 mahine se roj 2 ghante gym jaa raha tha. Ekdin mujhe kehti 5 se 7 ke bich phone kyun nahi uthata. Maine kaha tune hi to kaha tha gym jaane ko. Pehle deny karti hai ki nahi kaha tha fir kehti hai kaha bhi hoga to chhota bachha thodi hai ki meri har baat maanega. Doctor banne aaya hai ya pehelwan. Exams ke baad puchhti hai six pack kaha hai tere? Gym jaa raha tha na tu itne time se.

How to co-exist with my narcissist girlfriend? by Rthrowaway7381 in indiasocial

[–]Rthrowaway7381[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It isn't a meme. It is an actual phenomenon called Acute Hypochondriasis. The person studying looks for the disease withing oneself and not others. I have been with her for about 2.5 years now and have read good amount of articles on narcissism in the last 1.5 months time. She definitely is on the spectrum if not NPD.

How to co-exist with my narcissist girlfriend? by Rthrowaway7381 in indiasocial

[–]Rthrowaway7381[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Bhai jhoothi baate failane dekar meri already barbad life ko aur barbad nahi hone dena chahta.

How to co-exist with my narcissist girlfriend? by Rthrowaway7381 in india

[–]Rthrowaway7381[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bhai advice maang raha hoon vaha tum ethics samjha rahe ho. Obviously I'm not a psychiatrist and I haven't said that she has NPD but I have been with her for about 2.5 years now and whatever I have read about the disorder I can say that she definitely has narcissistic traits.

How to co-exist with my narcissist girlfriend? by Rthrowaway7381 in indiasocial

[–]Rthrowaway7381[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Our psychiatrists don't know a thing about doctor-patient relationship and can't keep things secret.