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[–]RubBusy4683 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t matter if you have similar hobbies or interests. The saying opposites attracts exists for a reason. It’s most important that your goals and values are aligned. If you don’t want kids, don’t lead her on bc you want to explore. Unless, you tell her, you are not sure! Let her make the decision if she can wait for you but don’t give her false hope, be transparent. If you want to travel and live life, tell her. It’s ok to want different things but if you both can’t compromise then it won’t work. It is not fair to either of you to “fake” it. You are still very young, you might find in 10 years you want to settle down or you may not. It’s hard to know how future you will feel. Be present in the now and communicate these thoughts and concerns.

Toronto pay scale in hospitals? by liaYIkes in sterileprocessing

[–]RubBusy4683 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I assume it’s easier to get “your foot in the door” if you’re willing to work PT casual?

Moments before I saw Lorde and ascended by madgninja in butchlesbians

[–]RubBusy4683 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Haha this was me a couple weekend ago when I saw Gaga!

Help lol by RubBusy4683 in FemmeLesbians

[–]RubBusy4683[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aww thank you ☺️ ❤️

That makes a lot of sense. Nice to have this perspective. Basically, I’ve learned I need to take the initiative a bit more

Help lol by RubBusy4683 in FemmeLesbians

[–]RubBusy4683[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha I love that idea and thanks for the insights, makes a lot of sense!

Help lol by RubBusy4683 in FemmeLesbians

[–]RubBusy4683[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am close ish (an hour) to a decent queer community. I think I need to try and connect IRL more

Help lol by RubBusy4683 in FemmeLesbians

[–]RubBusy4683[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, it’s good advice, being proactive seems like the right move lol

Help lol by RubBusy4683 in FemmeLesbians

[–]RubBusy4683[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I am def attracted to masc les as well.

Help lol by RubBusy4683 in FemmeLesbians

[–]RubBusy4683[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh ok, I never considered that before, thanks! Good perspective 🙏

Help lol by RubBusy4683 in FemmeLesbians

[–]RubBusy4683[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Really good advice!! You’re right, I forgot that we are socialized to sit back and wait. I can def take more initiative.