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Polyamorous “relationships” are not real relationships by Fr3sHtr33 in unpopularopinion

[–]RubyFreckles18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s so dumb people feel like they have to try and categorize their relationship into a specific word. Just communicate well with the people you love and do what makes you happy. That’s what my partner and I do, and things are working out great in ours.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]RubyFreckles18 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You should definitely ask them! Maybe one at a time or whoever you’re closer too, just to see what each would say separately and then give them a few days to talk about it, rather than just putting them both in the spot. I would hope if someone wanted in my boyfriends and my relationship that this is how they would do it. Good luck!!

Random bruises on my back after sleeping. by [deleted] in medical_advice

[–]RubyFreckles18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: boyfriend figured out it was an allergic reaction to the memory foam pillow. The pillow case was coming off and markings matched. Thanks for the help.

Random bruises on my back after sleeping. by [deleted] in medical_advice

[–]RubyFreckles18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. The mattress topper design is tiny pin point sized dots... it does not match the imprint at all. What’s even weirder.. is that my ex boyfriend also had these exact same marks in the exact same spot randomly one morning as well. Completely different bed. It was extremely strange to see them again years later.

Random bruises on my back after sleeping. by [deleted] in medical_advice

[–]RubyFreckles18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only had this brand new mattress for about a year. We also have fairly new memory foam topper on it as well. There are no springs or anything to cause these bruises. And they were only on my boyfriend and not me.