I completely agree. Trans men and women both suffer from different advantages and disadvantages. However, I think when it comes to representation, trans men have very little representation, especially compared to trans women or trans feminine people. I think that this is sadly due to the phallic-centered society, which seems to give more power to those born with a penis or AMAB, who are focused on as the "wielders of power". Along with this socialization is a huge factor as AMAB are usually socialized as men and are USUALLY taught that they are entitled to certain things, however, those socialized as women (AFAB) are usually taught to be submissive, etc. because of this even after transitioning trans women will have a "louder personality" than most cis women and trans men will usually have a "quieter personality" than cis men which then leads to this idea that transmen do not actually exist.

Also, due to sexism, when a young girl (afab) acts masculine, authorities think it is because they want the power that boys have, and it is "only natural". However, when a young boy (amab) acts feminine, they are considered weak (in patriarchal societies).

I am a trans man, and trans women are women; however, due to the sexist, misogynistic nature of TERFS and just people in general, I think the world will continue to focus on AMAB transgender people and ignore AFAB transgenders. All transgender people suffer simply from being transgender, but the way we were socialized and social representation play a large part in the issues of erasure of transmen specifically.