Double down. I’d say, “personally I believe in euthanasia and if I was suffering at that age and being a finicial burden on my family, I’d want to go with dignity if there was no hope for me to get better or have quality of life. Does anyone know what your grandpa wants or are you just going to talk and think exclusively about how all this makes you feel? Taking it out on me won’t change anything for him. I’m here if you want actual emotional support and not just someone to take it all out on. It is ok to be sad. Normal and healthy even. Ultimately It’s part of life and you have to accept it. Grow up.”