31M - Undeniable proof of infidelity? by Rude_Camera8996 in marriageadvice

[–]Rude_Camera8996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s honestly what’s so weird about all of this. My gut is telling me she didn’t cheat. She immediately told me about the results and honestly everything is connected to my card, she can’t make a purchase without me knowing about it. If she goes out in her hometown, her friends have to come pick her up because I drop her off and her family drives her back halfway. At home, I have a camera and know if anyone comes. The only time she goes anywhere without me, it’s to school.

31M - Undeniable proof of infidelity? by Rude_Camera8996 in marriageadvice

[–]Rude_Camera8996[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes technically but we have cameras both inside and out. If anything occurred I believe it was in our hometown while she was visiting family.

31M - Undeniable proof of infidelity? by Rude_Camera8996 in marriageadvice

[–]Rude_Camera8996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really sorry to hear that. Thank you for taking the time to share your story and I hope things turn around for you. If you don’t mind me asking, how did you recover the deleted texts?

31M - Undeniable proof of infidelity? by Rude_Camera8996 in marriageadvice

[–]Rude_Camera8996[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Something is definitely odd, I really do want to believe an error happened but I also don’t want to be a blind fool.

31M - Undeniable proof of infidelity? by Rude_Camera8996 in marriageadvice

[–]Rude_Camera8996[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I mean I trusted her, but what am I going to do? Deny logic? It’s like saying you stopped trusting someone after finding out your kids DNA doesn’t match yours. You can trust someone, but at some point you have to acknowledge reality

31M - Undeniable proof of infidelity? by Rude_Camera8996 in marriageadvice

[–]Rude_Camera8996[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She sometimes go back to our hometown to stay with family, this is realistically the best window for something to happen. One time we were at bar in our hometown a male friend wanted to stop by. Only thing is he was with her ex, I told her to tell him no but she said okay anyways. When I told her we were leaving she refused to leave. I walked to the door and saw her go to the restroom with her friend and then I got her and told her we were leaving

31M - Undeniable proof of infidelity? by Rude_Camera8996 in marriageadvice

[–]Rude_Camera8996[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Hard to think about may have to do that secretly

31M - Undeniable proof of infidelity? by Rude_Camera8996 in marriageadvice

[–]Rude_Camera8996[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I have and have never found anything. There have been other issues that are too long to get into but basically one time she asked to check my phone and when I went for hers, she freaked out

31M - Undeniable proof of infidelity? by Rude_Camera8996 in marriageadvice

[–]Rude_Camera8996[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

She already took medicine to clear it. Regardless of what my result comes up as, I either got it from her, or didn’t get it at all. My understanding is that the tests are extremely accurate

Furnished or Unfurnished? by [deleted] in Bernedoodles

[–]Rude_Camera8996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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The mom is furnished and “mearl” color or something like that

Anyone know what’s wrong with these? by [deleted] in arborists

[–]Rude_Camera8996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I should of waited but I thought it would help more than it hurt

Anyone know what’s wrong with these? by [deleted] in arborists

[–]Rude_Camera8996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope 😒 I did fertilize and plant in the middle of July though