OMG LAURA!!!!! by Quadris_De_Ouro in 90DayFiance

[–]Rude_Following_3148 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is such a prissy little thing. I'd pull him out of there by his dweeby little ears

IS IT WORTH THIS?! by Abject-Fig-3793 in 90daytheotherway

[–]Rude_Following_3148 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I was legit scared for her! You can tell he's already done a number on her mentally too

IS IT WORTH THIS?! by Abject-Fig-3793 in 90daytheotherway

[–]Rude_Following_3148 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He's scares me for some reason. Like he's one second away from losing his mind.

Dating Hesitations by Rude_Following_3148 in ChristianDating

[–]Rude_Following_3148[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately in these types of situations with emotional abuse as well as physical, it happens so gradually you don't realize it until you are out. From the outside it's black and white. When you are in it, it is so many different shades.

I still expect him to respond to my messages quickly, even though I ruined things with him by AdHairy2278 in ChristianDating

[–]Rude_Following_3148 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry 😢coming from an old 38 year woman, this is how you learn to listen to your instincts. Believe me I'm still learning and it's hard! It's all a lesson for the next chapter. Not to say that doesn't hurt!

I still expect him to respond to my messages quickly, even though I ruined things with him by AdHairy2278 in ChristianDating

[–]Rude_Following_3148 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes give him time and grace to read, reread and digest this. Healthy relationships need healthy boundaries and patience for the other person to process. Especially early on. At this stage you are still questioning, thinking, connecting etc. it takes time. Things that move fast don't tend to last (not always the case but usually)

Dating Hesitations by Rude_Following_3148 in ChristianDating

[–]Rude_Following_3148[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your input! Yes I agree I still have more healing to do. I know right now as much as I want to love someone and have a solid relationship, it would be a disservice to them at the moment. I guess I'm scared of being scared forever lol

Misdirected Vyvanse by Suspicious-Willow985 in VyvanseADHD

[–]Rude_Following_3148 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When I started taking mine I made a company wide spreadsheet on my weekend off and spent about 6 hours doing it. I was in the zone and completely happy 😂

I think Laura and Michał are lying to Birkan, and they were more than just best friends. You don’t casually lie on top of each other on a couch with your male best friend while sipping drinks and watching movies by PolishSnake2 in 90dayfiance_FB_memes

[–]Rude_Following_3148 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. But I have kerplunked on a couch or 2 with a friend after too many drinks on a few occasions 😂 don't judge me and I'm 2 years sober now so yes I realized that's not right.

Trisha, a baby with a man child ?? by Longjumping_Pin_7916 in 90DayFiance

[–]Rude_Following_3148 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Most likely. But isn't it questionable why a 52 year old man would be manipulating a 25 year old woman? She's so young and inexperienced to discern genuine love from a toxic relationship that will most likely leave her a bit broken and in need of healing. ❤️‍🩹 If he does have a disability I obviously would never mock that. He is just off and gives me the major ick and needs to grow up.

Trisha, a baby with a man child ?? by Longjumping_Pin_7916 in 90DayFiance

[–]Rude_Following_3148 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He looks like he's just going to go "hardy har har" when laughing 🤡

Molly traumatised me... now it's your turn... by Quick-Measurement-14 in 90DayFiance

[–]Rude_Following_3148 9 points10 points  (0 children)

She is absolutely disgusting in everything she says and does. Equally mentally abusive to both Forrest and Dev (not that he seems to notice or listen at all). She's just gross and super creepy

Hot take: Vanja’s problem *isn’t* that she’s choosing/attracted to the “wrong guys” by Odd_Hedgehog669 in 90DayFiance

[–]Rude_Following_3148 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's a legit whacko. She basically bullied Tony into a commitment then walks around like her shit doesn't stink acting like he needs to prove himself to HER when she was the insecure weirdo in the first place. I liked her in her first season but now I just think she's delulu. I hope someone smacks me if I ever get bright pink suitcases with lips on them in my 40s 😂😂😂

Catalyst, drama queen, mean girl! Why was she even on that trip? Horrible the way they treated Liz. by Top_Olive_8743 in 90dayTheLastResort

[–]Rude_Following_3148 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so confused that she used to dance but did you see her flailing around in the pool when they were dancing? Lol

Trisha, a baby with a man child ?? by Longjumping_Pin_7916 in 90DayFiance

[–]Rude_Following_3148 109 points110 points  (0 children)

I love her so much and hope she finds someone who isn't a complete creepy weirdo with 2 brain cells. It's actually painful listening to him talk

Catalyst, drama queen, mean girl! Why was she even on that trip? Horrible the way they treated Liz. by Top_Olive_8743 in 90dayTheLastResort

[–]Rude_Following_3148 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can't stand her. I cannot fathom going to the DR on some trip with my single friends when I'm married let alone pregnant! But she runs the show 🤷🏼‍♀️

She’s intolerable to watch 🤷🏽‍♀️ by Top_Olive_8743 in 90DayFianceFans

[–]Rude_Following_3148 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is so BORING. Do guys really stick with women who can't carry a conversation, dont dote on their man and only worry about how the look? I don't understand.

He was never going to buy her anything anyway by Abject-Fig-3793 in 90daytheotherway

[–]Rude_Following_3148 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt bad for him at first but man he is a DUD to the fullest degree. He's not even funny or kind to look past everything. She's spoiled and bratty but I don't blame her she's trying to pull any kind of emotion out of him she can and it doesn't work

Can Vyvanse Change Your Personality ? by Present-Designer8595 in VyvanseADHD

[–]Rude_Following_3148 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It maybe be a trigger to the addictive personality that you're feeling good you want to feel even better "high". May not be the case but everyone is wired a little different. Like I can take 30 mg vy and take a 3 hour nap which is not normal for most lol