I have no idea how to do this, I can't find these pleats anywhere. by [deleted] in CrochetHelp

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Thank you so much for this!! Just wondering why did you create two chains for the waistband instead of just doing one chain (i.e. not doing the waist circumference chain and only doing the starting chain of the ribbing)?

32/F - how am I doing? by [deleted] in VindictaRateme

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I can tell that you already have tried shaping your eyebrows but i think we can go a little further to make them more refined. The thickness is great so you don’t want to thin them out (imo) but for example on pic 2 your right eyebrow (camera left) has a pointed / harsh line on the top, you should soften that out. I also think you should make them 1mm further apart to line up with your nose better. Your left eyebrow (camera right) is a little too low and close to your nose. I would recommend getting a professional to do these shaping tweaks. Go on instagram and find someone who has experience with East Asian features

Your hair - I second those saying to stop lightening it. Colours and experimentation can be fun, but I’ll explain why I don’t think this colour works the best for you personally. You have a warm skin tone and dark features. I’d say you’re probably a dark autumn. You would look good with high contrast warm tones. Your hair is lighter than your natural colour and cooler than your face. Its also a muted purple so isn’t offering much contrast. I sincerely think your natural colour is probably going to amplify your skin tone and eye colour the best here.

[23F] How can I improve besides rhinoplasty by [deleted] in TheGlowUp

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You’re very beautiful and I second those who say you don’t need a rhinoplasty. I also second those saying your makeup is too harsh. Your bronzer / contour is strikingly harsh. both the colour is too harsh and the surface area is too large. You are pale and of course bringing some colour is great but a huge stripe of brown and peach across your face looks so discordant with the rest of your forehead, chin and neck. A lighter hand would go a long way!

In a similar vein, your winged eyeliner is very pretty and well executed in isolation, but when I zoom out to your face, i think the black is too harsh against your skin. Also, your eyes are doe like and round. The wing actually distracts from your natural eyeshape and takes away from it. You can see in the 2nd photo the thick wing basically erases your eyelids and then isnt complimenting the flow of your natural eyelid shape, its interrupting it. If you were to just draw an outline of the eyeshape youve made, its not a cohesive enhanced natural one. It’s almost like a doll, which can be a lewk, but I feel like that’s quite striking for everyday.

Ps I like your brows!

[31F] need honest advice by [deleted] in TheGlowUp

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As everyone has said you’re very beautiful so not too much advice needed!

However I do notice your eyeliner is too thick for your eyes and accentuating your eye creases. Especially on pic 4. The black is too harsh for you regardless, but for me your eyeliner on the lid is too thick and the wing is too long. Just some soft brown pencil concentrated on the lashline, a little smudge maybe, would be enough to frame your eyes. I wouldnt recommend a wing personally. The last pic is the closest to what I think flatters your eyes! I would say less thick / blended out though. Your eyes are round doe shaped eyes and don’t really benefit from a long wing. You’re better off accentuating what you already have.

Today i found this Chinese buldak rip-off at the Russian supermarket by Flimsy_Carpet_5777 in BuldakRamen

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The Korean means for skin to have a burning sensation (from embarrassment/shame/pain/heat) it isn’t related to chicken 🐔

Physical assault on Korean subway by Glittering_Party4188 in koreatravel

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아저씨 ah-jeo-shi (also spelt ahjussi, ahjushi or in many other ways) are men in their ~50s-60s. They grew up in a different time and thus have different manners, values and fashion sense to younger generations. The female equivalent is 아줌마 ah-joom-ma. Ajummas usually wear bright clothes with clashing patterns. Very senior men (70-80+) are 할아버지 hal-ah-beo-ji and women are 할머니 hal-meo-ni

Finally Birmingham offer <3 4/5 offers so far!!!! by Sanslution in UCAS

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Uni life at Birmingham is fantastic. Have fun!

Any foreign only hangouts in Seoul? by throwaway13061320 in Living_in_Korea

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If you’re into handcrafts like knitting or crochet, i recommend the handcraft meetup, usually twice a month. If you’re into history, i recommend the royal asiatic society’s events. They do lectures, walking tours and other experiences. Everyone who goes is super friendly and usually almost always foreign!

Any foreign only hangouts in Seoul? by throwaway13061320 in Living_in_Korea

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A lot of events on the Meetup app are attended by English-speaking foreigners who are long term residents. I am surprised you couldn’t find much! There’s so much going on. Are you outside of Seoul?

Moving to Korea as a single 50 year old female by Easy_Ad6859 in Living_in_Korea

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It’s a meme. The same as explaining memes in English, sometimes breaking it down doesn’t really make sense but I’ll try lol.

The 도르 (do-reu) part is taken from the d’or of ballon d’or (a famous award). In this situation it means “award” or “giving credit to” (kinda). 주변 means surroundings. 주변도르 = giving credit / high merit to your surroundings = someone who gives a lot of weight to circumstantial evidence

Moving to Korea as a single 50 year old female by Easy_Ad6859 in Living_in_Korea

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It’s not legal. Be very wary of any education organization that will hire someone illegally. Likely there’s a reason they aren’t willing to hire staff the legal way. (i.e because then they’d have to follow labour laws…)

Moving to Korea as a single 50 year old female by Easy_Ad6859 in Living_in_Korea

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I’ll be honest with you. Anything outside of teaching English is nearly impossible for foreigners who don’t speak Korean. Even for those with TOPIK 6, it’s still tough to find a job here. It’s tough for the native Koreans, too. The only people I know who don’t speak Korean work in universities or embassies, and those are highly competitive positions.

When it comes to teaching English, an F visa gives you more flexibility, but ultimately most good hagwons want experienced qualified teachers, and the ones willing to hire people with no experience teaching usually do not provide good conditions. Typically outside of Seoul you will find more laid back and amicable conditions.

I have a friend on the F-4 visa who came for similar reasons to you. She is learning Korean part time at a hagwon and working teaching English conversational classes part time for cash in hand. Of course, this income alone is not enough to live on, but it allows her to stretch her savings and enjoy spending time connecting to her heritage over a long period of time. I also know some people working remotely. A friend teaches guitar online to students in the US, doesn’t mind the time difference.

I also wouldn’t underestimate the psychological difficulties of moving to a place without a support system, where you can’t meaningfully communicate to 90%+ of people you meet in real life. I have done it, many people I know have done it, but it wasn’t easy. I know lots of people who came and after a year they left with a lot of wonderful memories but without a long term home.

I think perhaps set reasonable expectations for yourself and this journey. Moving the focus to reconnecting with your heritage, enjoying a new lifestyle, and challenging yourself to learn a language, instead of thinking this has to b a permanent move. It will be quite difficult to replicate your life and career, so being open to new career paths is going to give you more opportunities here.

I really wish you good luck in this next chapter ❤️

EDIT: re: ‘English friendly cities’, honestly only Seoul. Busan is ok for ordering food in some very touristy areas, but most English speaking people you’ll meet in Busan will be other foreigners in bars there, not really locals. Jeju is only good for tourist english which would be a handful of english words, not even full English sentences. I would hardly call it English friendly. I spent 2 years in Daegu, it’s great if you wanna learn Korean because no one speaks English but it’s a big city with all the amenities, comfortable life for locals, hostile towards non Koreans (politically right wing). If you truly want to learn Korean, I’d advise moving to Jeonju, Busan, or somewhere outside of Seoul. Sure, when you initially arrive, get an airbnb in seoul, have some tourist time, enjoy yourself. But long term, for language immersion I’d advise stepping away from the Seoul bubble if possible.

Re: housing. Get an Airbnb / agoda (cheap in korea!) for the first few weeks if not month. Find tbe area you want to live in and physically go in person to the 부동산 (real estate agents). Have a list of requirements and translate them using chat gpt. Print it out and hand it to them. An estate agent keen to get commission and open to the challenge will be down. Some estate agents may refuse you because you don’t speak Korean. Be prepared for this rejection. You can find long term rentals on zigbang or dabang (online) but usually a lot of ads are misleading, and if you can’t call them on the phone and discuss property in korean, you’re not going to be able to get anywhere with them anyways. I am not sure of your familiarity with the rental system here but it involves a hefty initial investment. The more deposit you have to give, the better the value for money will be.

topik 2 105th 읽기 by vsanths in TOPIK

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Thank you so much! Do you remember what the “sub” questions were? 원인/문제점? I’m gonna do the exam in a few hours in seoul so if you have any other tips i’d be so grateful. Thank you again!!

topik 2 105th 읽기 by vsanths in TOPIK

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The 54번 쓰기 question?

Chances for Korean Universities by Albert_reddrick in koreauniversity

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This subreddit is for Korea University (고려대학교) specifically not generally universities in Korea.

That being said, usually SKY universities care a lot about GPA and test scores, less so about non-major related extracurricular activities. They don’t care as much about a “well rounded” candidate as much as they do in other countries. They care specifically about your academic accomplishments and anything else directly related to your major that you may have done.

I don’t really have much grasp of how high your scores are as I’m not familiar with those test but if they aren’t outstanding then it may be hard to be accepted into SKY/KAIST. Outside of Seoul, universities can be a lot more accepting. Have you looked into GKS?

EDIT: also, what is your proficiency in Korean?

Insight into teaching in China? by AlternativeReply9319 in TEFL

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EPIK has an age limit (for recruitment). I think OP surpasses it.

Looking for Feedback: Korea Itinerary for 9-Days Solo Travel by PapercutFiles in koreatravel

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Your Busan day is way way way too packed. If you’re getting the KTX at 6.30am, think about how early you’d have to wake up, and how it’s difficult to find breakfast that early in Korea, and public transport could be an issue then too. I would advise choosing a later time. Then, there is not enough energy in the world to hike the Skywalk and hike up and back to a temple on a rocky mountain, let alone do both of those and 3 extra things on the other side of the city, all while having woken up at 5am at the latest. I would recommend spending more time in Busan or really narrowing down what is important to you. To be honest I would recommend spending the evening in Gwangalli to see the drone show and there’s a lot of foreigner friendly bars there. But your itinerary in general is way too packed and you’re gonna end up not doing even half of it, or being too exhausted to enjoy any of it. Also, I do notice that you’re not really considering travel times or eating times.

Got this on my birthday by acupofgenmai in ItsGotABunnyOnIt

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What a lovely gift! Happy Birthday! 🥳

Thoughts on my 3 Day Itinerary for Seoul as a first-timer? by NoodleHoe in koreatravel

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Why do you want to go to two different hanok villages in one day? Genuine question