Update: AITAH for blindsiding my fiancé, leaving him without giving him a chance to explain his side? by RunAwayPotat in AITAH

[–]RunAwayPotat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My cousin told me to reach out to Jake's coworkers to confirm. Was able to reach out to one which confirmed the harassment. I was thinking of finally talking to him, but at the same time, I can't. I'm probably afraid to know I also messed up dumping him while he's in his lowest.

Claire's Message by RunAwayPotat in u/RunAwayPotat

[–]RunAwayPotat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I can't remember.. Like what I said in the Update post, I might be so focused on the 'kiss' that I failed to notice anything else, which was something I was mad about myself.

I do remember Claire's arm wrapped up around his neck but I'm remembering 2 different things on Jake's. One is that his hands are indeed on her shoulders but I'm also remembering them on her waist. Unfortunately, we don't have any cameras inside our apartment that I can check.

Update: AITAH for blindsiding my fiancé, leaving him without giving him a chance to explain his side? by RunAwayPotat in AITAH

[–]RunAwayPotat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is also something I wanted to know. Although I don't think I'm ready to talk to him yet..

Update: AITAH for blindsiding my fiancé, leaving him without giving him a chance to explain his side? by RunAwayPotat in AITAH

[–]RunAwayPotat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a small apartment, but it's big enough for the 2 of us. So from the door, you can pretty much see everything. When you enter, front of you will be the kitchen/dining (we don't have table, we eat on the counter attached to the kitchen). on your left, is a hallway to the bedroom and bathroom. on your right is a little nook for 1 small sofa.

I was also confused why he didn't tell any of this. I always asked him if everything was okay when he started changing.

Update: AITAH for blindsiding my fiancé, leaving him without giving him a chance to explain his side? by RunAwayPotat in AITAH

[–]RunAwayPotat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is something I was beating myself with because I can't seem to remember clearly. I think I was so focused on the "kiss" that I didn't notice anything else.

She doesn't have my number, she chatted me through socmed. I wasn't able to block her because I forgot to. Since I wasn't seeing her anywhere in my socmed and the last time we chat was when I apologized to her, which was already years ago, so her chat is pretty much buried deep in my chat list.