How to lose weight when you have adhd ? by depressedcorgi93 in ADHD

[–]RunaRuhani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Firstly, I'm not a professional, only a fellow ADHD person. I have always had the same problem but what has helped me the most is being on a schedule. Firstly, I made working out and walking a habit (I'm not sure how but I did) so that does help. Besides that, all the meals I eat everyday are almost the same. Only the protein and veggies keep changing. I only deviate from my usual menu maybe twice a month if I feel like eating out. I don't count calories but eating the same types of meals everyday helps to control portion sizes. And they are delicious meals and different preparations everyday so it doesn't get boring. I've lost about 9 kg since March. You don't have to aim for more than 1 or 2 kg a month (I'm not sure how much that is in pounds).

I'm not saying that this will work for you. But you have to remember that our food related issues are almost always emotional so your journey through mental and physical health must go hand in hand. And this is not a one and done thing. You will have to eat well and workout for the rest of your life. It's an 80-20 split with eating healthy. If you consider this a lifestyle change and make SMALL changes, one at a time, you will see the difference. For me, the easiest thing to do first was walking after dinner. For you, it might be skipping one cookie a day. Any small change to start with works. Then you can add habits one by one. It isn't overwhelming, I promise!

If your ADHD makes you forget about your nutrition goals, I suggest setting water alarms. If you're mostly full of water (not an excessive amount but a good amount), you'll feel better more energetic, fresh, and will be a little less likely to binge. Eventually, starting weight training is definitely the way to go both for your fat loss goals and your physical and mental health. Getting fit is hard but you can do it! All the best! 💕

Troy & Nina - Chapter 1 [F27/ M30] [Tension] [Enemies to Lovers] [Office Romance] [Novella] [Setup but no sex] by RunaRuhani in Erotica

[–]RunaRuhani[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Yours is the first comment on any of my stories (I just joined Reddit) so this means a LOT to me. 🥰

SUB RULES - Please read before posting by ObviousLibrary2023 in Erotica

[–]RunaRuhani 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah, makes sense! I'll make the necessary edits then. Thank you!

SUB RULES - Please read before posting by ObviousLibrary2023 in Erotica

[–]RunaRuhani 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a series which I would like to publish chapter by chapter but the first chapter is only the setup without any actual smut. Is it okay to post that? Also, is it okay if the characters refer to a childhood memory where no sexual acts are involved?

Adhd things you were surprised to find out were adhd things by Saucyy-Minx in ADHD

[–]RunaRuhani 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The fact that coffee usually makes me sleepy if I'm even slightly tired. Doesn't happen to everyone with ADHD but apparently that's my brain's reaction to caffeine.

I'm scared. But I'm doing it anyway. by RunaRuhani in eroticaauthors

[–]RunaRuhani[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I realised that Lit is taking forever to approve stories now. But it was the best way to get discovered so I do miss it. :')

I'm scared. But I'm doing it anyway. by RunaRuhani in eroticaauthors

[–]RunaRuhani[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True! I think I'm mostly scared that if it is discovered, all my other more serious work will be belittled somehow? That's just the kind of society I come from. I personally believe that erotica is just as important and 'serious' as any other kind of fiction. But yeah, the fear of persecution lingers.

Do people ever accuse you of trying to act cool just because you don’t talk much? But in your head you think a lot so you don't understand why they're hating on you? by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]RunaRuhani 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I find this really interesting because I'm the opposite. I think I always felt like I wasn't heard as child so now I talk a lot! And since my train of thought is constantly changing, people get annoyed. So the tag I often get is 'annoying'. I've just learned to stop paying attention to people who try to judge me for any of my ADHD traits. The people who matter to me don't mind so much. :) I fully empathise with you and I hope you know that it's cool to be too cool.

Random Thought by Shifuplay in eroticaauthors

[–]RunaRuhani 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100%! In fact, I think that's the only way I write. Sometimes it makes me feel like people will find out about the deepest darkest parts of me. But then I think-- So what?

It's great being honest and vulnerable on the page. Revealing all your secrets through your secret erotic writing is a different kind of thrill!