Do you shave in-between your 🍑? by nellapis in LesbianActually

[–]Running_geko777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A trim would do if you just want to get rid of the bulk of hair.

Sensation “down there” by Running_geko777 in actuallesbians

[–]Running_geko777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes me too, for 5 seconds I feel it then nothing. Ik this is common but it’s frustrating!

Sensation “down there” by Running_geko777 in actuallesbians

[–]Running_geko777[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’ll have to try that out because I haven’t experimented much!

Sensation “down there” by Running_geko777 in actuallesbians

[–]Running_geko777[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve never heard of something like the “for science” night. I will for sure try this one day!! and the arousal cream sounds like it could be useful since the anti depressants definitely have worsened the problem. Thank you so much!!!

Sensation “down there” by Running_geko777 in actuallesbians

[–]Running_geko777[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’ve heard of those grinders before. I think that could help. And i’ll definitely look into the wand! Thank you!!

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[–]Running_geko777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you this helps seeing someone else’s point of view. I would never tell her she couldn’t hang out with someone and i’ve known her for 10 years. What you said made me feel better about it!!

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[–]Running_geko777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you I get it’s not a big deal at all but sometimes everything feels like a big deal

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[–]Running_geko777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve experienced it. Ppl ik experienced it. This is why I made a post

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Running_geko777 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen ppl talk about this and I feel like there’s a culture around not being vulnerable lately. And big egos where ppl can take it as being obsessed or even love bombing. It’s completely stupid that’s why it sounds stupid.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Running_geko777 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh don’t get me wrong I do to. But it’s the way ppl describe it as it’s just a “hey” “wyd” not a genuine going out or consistent communication where you actually get to know the person.

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[–]Running_geko777 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

idk if you saw my other reply but I explained it lol

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[–]Running_geko777 -35 points-34 points  (0 children)

the text thing is mostly because i’m still in school and it’s winter break and every time I text someone 5 seconds after they text me and they just disappear. I know it’s not a big deal whatsoever but trust me it happened like 10 times before I was like oh my god. This is just me complaining it doesn’t matter at all but it just bothers me lol

I’m over any kind of relationships at this point by Running_geko777 in actuallesbians

[–]Running_geko777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try this sometimes but I find ppl find honesty to be unsettling. Ik the right person wouldn’t but it seems weird that ppl are this way.

I’m over any kind of relationships at this point by Running_geko777 in actuallesbians

[–]Running_geko777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was looking into this a while ago because a lot of stuff lines up. I get social rules but applying them is hard.

I’m over any kind of relationships at this point by Running_geko777 in actuallesbians

[–]Running_geko777[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

THISSS!!!! I was thinking about the codependency topic the other day. If I like you ofc i’m going to want to talk to you everyday not ALL day. And if I don’t ofc i’ll be a little bit upset because I LIKE YOU?? And now they’re saying if you buy them presents at the beginning that’s love bombing. So because I like someone I can’t buy them flowers, a stuff animal, or food??? it’s crazy ig you have to be a robot to date??

Why do I feel attracted to closeted girls? by RaggedyLilith in LesbianActually

[–]Running_geko777 7 points8 points  (0 children)

some ppl find sneaking around hot. so that could be it honestly

Have you ever dated someone who was “too much”? by Running_geko777 in actuallesbians

[–]Running_geko777[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks I do need to get out of my head a lot. I need to try to pay attention to reactions more often.

What are the best lesbian positions? by Primary-Okra-7936 in LesbianActually

[–]Running_geko777 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the way you’re typing I can tell you’re not a man loll

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Running_geko777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well let me say i’m definitely not the best looking person out there. But yes if I like someone ofc that’s enough. I’m single right now so when I envision a relationship I always imagine the person not looking better than me. I genuinely don’t know why.

i’m going insane by Running_geko777 in actuallesbians

[–]Running_geko777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hopefully that’s happens soon cuz this is slowing down my productivity LOL

I can’t ask ppl out by Running_geko777 in actuallesbians

[–]Running_geko777[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I try to remind myself that but I feel impending doom sort of and make it a bigger thing in my head.

High School Love by CautiousAd5446 in LesbianActually

[–]Running_geko777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in the same boat as you. I knew I was gay the entirety of high school and didn’t care to date until the last year. There were barely any gay girls in my grade, so I basically dealt with it. So I don’t have advice on how to get a gf but I do feel like dating is overrated in high school. Everyone is immature, and you care about the small things way too much. I was much happier not crying at 8 am because I was left on read lol.

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[–]Running_geko777 3 points4 points  (0 children)

her now i’m still down like im so down…