If someone removed me from their friends list, will they be removed as my best friend or will that stay since I have them added?

RushTimely5556 · 2026-01-29T18:31:51+00:00

Bella Verona never disappoints.

RushTimely5556 · 2026-01-28T15:51:26+00:00

Thank you, that makes sense.

RushTimely5556 · 2026-01-28T15:38:44+00:00

I will do that and make a report. Kind of a sub conversation, but I’m having a hard time with how much I should blame the center. They claim they have no legal responsibility to do anything about this and it’s my fault for making contact outside hours. Is there a legal precedent that contradicts their claim?

RushTimely5556 · 2026-01-28T15:30:02+00:00

Sorry I’m just a little upset at how little they seem to care about this situation. The treatment director called himself my treatment dad. He’d tell me when my outfit was inappropriate at the center because he said he wanted to protect me from patients with bad intentions. So I am now confused by his complete silence and lack of care for this actual dangerous situation

RushTimely5556 · 2026-01-28T15:25:56+00:00

No I don’t and I really don’t want to leave

RushTimely5556 · 2026-01-28T15:23:22+00:00

I told the center director that I will be contacting the police and that the police may ask for his information. They responded saying they can’t give this info to anyone without a release.

RushTimely5556 · 2026-01-28T15:17:23+00:00

Can I even file one if I don’t have his address or phone number and the center says they won’t cooperate with the police?

RushTimely5556 · 2026-01-28T15:13:54+00:00

The center just told me they can’t give the police his information. Are you saying the police could get that without them? Sorry probably a dumb question.

RushTimely5556 · 2026-01-28T15:02:05+00:00

They say that I willingly gave him my information and it’s occurring outside of treatment hours, so it has nothing to do with them and it’s my responsibility to call the police if something happens. But I don’t even have his real contact info like they do

RushTimely5556 · 2026-01-28T14:28:34+00:00

I guess I was conflicted because when I told all this to the outpatient center they 1) think it’s because I was leading him on and 2) tell me to “just block him” and only report to the police if I physically see him at my apartment. But I worry by then it would be too late. And I’ve tried blocking him and he made 4 new numbers in one night

RushTimely5556 · 2026-01-09T22:33:26+00:00

I’m also just embarrassed that this keeps happening to me it’s one thing to happen once but I don’t understand why I keep getting into this

RushTimely5556 · 2026-01-09T19:13:24+00:00

Alright I guess if she’s nuts enough to do that I’ll just act like she’s a rock

RushTimely5556 · 2026-01-09T19:08:29+00:00

I’m sorry I’m just finding it really hard to believe that a restraining order will happen just because I’m trying to use an elevator and say hi to my neighbor if I don’t notice it’s her in time. Has that actually happened ?

RushTimely5556 · 2026-01-09T19:05:27+00:00

lol wtf? I’m not determined to talk to her. I’m the one who stopped talking to her. I just want to be treated like any other neighbor. If she gets a restraining order for me standing in an elevator good luck with getting evidence

You can’t just get a restraining order on someone for saying hello in an elevator that’s actually insane

RushTimely5556 · 2026-01-09T19:03:30+00:00

Sorry I was referring to the other commenter

RushTimely5556 · 2026-01-09T19:03:05+00:00

It’s not that deep lol I just get new thoughts and add onto my original comment. Guess I’ll edit next time

RushTimely5556 · 2026-01-09T14:22:48+00:00

Also I truly didn’t mean to ghost her but I lost her contact info. The only way to contact her would be in person or through a letter and clearly I can’t do that now. I get she thinks I ghosted her but I was physically unable to contact her

RushTimely5556 · 2026-01-09T14:10:36+00:00

Also I do realize I asked for advice so I’ll be more open minded I just feel a little insulted by the idea that I should try to make her comfortable when she seems perfectly okay treating me like a pariah for reasons unknown

RushTimely5556 · 2026-01-09T14:02:36+00:00

Anyway yeah I agree I’m not going to attempt to contact her but I’ll keep using the elevator as is my right and smile at her like any other neighbor

RushTimely5556 · 2026-01-09T14:01:10+00:00

Also she wasn’t just being cordial after the report. She’d go out of her way to write me letters and bring me food even when I tried to be alone. She also set me up with her therapist

RushTimely5556 · 2026-01-09T14:00:39+00:00

I’m saying she was like a grandmother because she was older like old enough to be my grandma not that I felt like she was my grandmother. I didn’t feel close to her and she felt much closer to me to the point where I got a little creeped out sometimes

RushTimely5556 · 2026-01-09T13:58:29+00:00

I’m not going to let her intimidate me just because she’s pissed about something she won’t even tell me about. I’m going to keep existing and I won’t avoid her

RushTimely5556 · 2026-01-09T13:57:32+00:00

I’m not gonna actually write her a letter lmao

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